Yeah, so I got out of a relationship, been a monk mode for a bit. Plus in a new city; so trying to adjust and get out of my comfort zone a bit. Going out to bars alone, just chatting & meeting new ppl.
I definitely hate crowded places lol, i enjoy more of a chill lounge / speakeasy type of situation
gotcha. a club is prob the worst place to go dolo and then folks may look at you like you're weird lol. Id look at hitting up museums and out door events too. I say this is because most indoor things women run in packs so that tosses a wrench because of hater friends (and it sounds like you may not be skilled enough to rock a group of people in order to reach who you want).
Biggest thing is getting in proximity of folks in an environment where you can strike up organic convo about said environment



