Mufasa Ahadi
Veteran
Great date with a 24 year old, South African joint. Inquisitive, thankful & open minded. Not social media obsessed either


I wish SC had a bigger African Diaspora. Or if they do then I wish I knew where they were. Literally all my interactions and everything I know about them comes from internet and books.
The women hate AA men hard on tiktok and Twitter and the other social
Media sites and I’m beginning to hate them back. It also doesn’t help that I’ve read some pretty bad stuff, like them giving it up to Chinese men and Euro cacs. I also hear the diasporas in Europe and Canada aren’t much better, either.
Random thought I had while watching the Pineapple Show. Anyone think women do a kind of projection when they reject a dude? Like if they don't feel worthy of dude, they reject themselves by projecting their insecurities on to him. This vid I was watching, the girl was coming with all types of excuses, that almost felt like signaling. Dude's a square who's on the come up, and the girl sounds like a bird who rides the coattails of any celeb in LA. Maybe
So far I 've heard
7:15- She says I don't want to stop you from your dreams. That only felt like a warning like, "You're a good dude, on your way to great things. I have a kid, I'm in the streets with celebs doing God knows what, allegedly making 35,000 in three months but still needs financial help (she didn't say what she does though
- "You look young"
- "You far" (LA and Phoenix are only 5 hours away driving, but I can understand that)
- Breh only makes $35,000, though he's still in school and on his way to a doctorate
- 9:24 - "You don't need me, you want me." i.e. wake the fukk up simp, you lusting over a street girl busting it open the Hollywood nikkas
)
Breh's a young cat, and I think he's wet behind the ears, cause he was campaigning hard for her, despite all the redflags. She sounds like a mess, and she's telling him not to get involved. I gotta give her props for laying her cards on the table (in as clear a way as possible as far as women do), and letting him know what her business proposition was. Son's gotta grind a bit, maybe get his heart broken once or twice, and he'll be good,
Yep from September to april .They need someone for the colder months (fall winter)
We don’t call it « cuffing » season for nothing
September = start of fall/weather gets colder/new tv-Netflix shows
October= Halloween
November = thanksgiving
December= Christmas
January = New Year’s Eve
February = valentines day
March = St-patricks day
April = easter
May-August = they are single again, ready for another hot girl summer
So there should be a lot of Ws posted in here soon…..Yep from September to april .They need someone for the colder months (fall winter)
We don’t call it « cuffing » season for nothing
September = start of fall/weather gets colder/new tv-Netflix shows
October= Halloween
November = thanksgiving
December= Christmas
January = New Year’s Eve
February = valentines day
March = St-patricks day
April = easter
May-August = they are single again, ready for another hot girl summer
You give these hoes 24 hours to follow back. If they dont unfollow lolDont ever ask for a follow back. she should be chasing you not the other way around. if it's private you follow them and then dm response to a story.
I think most women don't have any hobbies so they just aimlessly talk
GO OUTSIDEI wish SC had a bigger African Diaspora. Or if they do then I wish I knew where they were. Literally all my interactions and everything I know about them comes from internet and books.
The women hate AA men hard on tiktok and Twitter and the other social
Media sites and I’m beginning to hate them back. It also doesn’t help that I’ve read some pretty bad stuff, like them giving it up to Chinese men and Euro cacs. I also hear the diasporas in Europe and Canada aren’t much better, either.
I dont even pick up.. and just text back.. Like wassup? Set the boundary UPFRONT, hard to go back and change once it has been established.What's up with women wanting to facetime every damn second for hours at a time. I and a lot of my women friends and even my girl work remotely and just aimlessly wanna talk for hours on facetime at home or when they go out.
shyt kills my battery and I don't wanna hear about my period hurts and you hate your job. Then they call me when out to scream and I can texteven hear to scream "ayeee then hang up"
Like bytch just text me, please. I think most women don't have any hobbies so they just aimlessly talk
She might not be good at talking on the phone, or talking to you on the phone makes her nervous because it’s more real time than text. You should try and make her relax over the phone and chit chat. Maybe bring up something that was said in the text and confirm you liked her opinion so she feels comfortable talking more about that topic.I don't get this chick, it's like 2 different women I'm talking to . On text she's real talkative , always replies within a couple minutes, bare Lol's and emojis . Soon as we get on phone she's mad serious and giving one word answers .
Random thought I had while watching the Pineapple Show. Anyone think women do a kind of projection when they reject a dude? Like if they don't feel worthy of dude, they reject themselves by projecting their insecurities on to him. This vid I was watching, the girl was coming with all types of excuses, that almost felt like signaling. Dude's a square who's on the come up, and the girl sounds like a bird who rides the coattails of any celeb in LA. Maybe
So far I 've heard
7:15- She says I don't want to stop you from your dreams. That only felt like a warning like, "You're a good dude, on your way to great things. I have a kid, I'm in the streets with celebs doing God knows what, allegedly making 35,000 in three months but still needs financial help (she didn't say what she does though
- "You look young"
- "You far" (LA and Phoenix are only 5 hours away driving, but I can understand that)
- Breh only makes $35,000, though he's still in school and on his way to a doctorate
- 9:24 - "You don't need me, you want me." i.e. wake the fukk up simp, you lusting over a street girl busting it open the Hollywood nikkas
)
Breh's a young cat, and I think he's wet behind the ears, cause he was campaigning hard for her, despite all the redflags. She sounds like a mess, and she's telling him not to get involved. I gotta give her props for laying her cards on the table (in as clear a way as possible as far as women do), and letting him know what her business proposition was. Son's gotta grind a bit, maybe get his heart broken once or twice, and he'll be good,
I DOGO OUTSIDE