Be weary of women who will choose you, but not of love of/for you, but the love of the idea/concept of being with you. These women will tell you they love you when you say it first, or when you do something for them. But they won't do it for no reason, on it's own, as a reminder, etc. "I Just Called To Say I Love You" is more than a Stevie Wonder song brehs. When these women get angry/unhappy with you, instead of being short with you/icing you they'll say things that are supposed to elicit and a reaction of you, particularly an emotional one. Often if you pay close enough attention these women are telling you EXACTLY what they think of you with these comments they make "in anger". Other telltale signs is a lack of appreciation for your efforts within the relationship, and the consistent issuance of hypotheticals on what they could do/become and have you "still love them" or be okay with it, despite you already spelling out your dealbreakers. Penultimately your time won't be valued, and overall her feelings will consistently overrule/invalidate your feelings AND you logic from her perspective. The aforementioned sentence is just a variant of gaslighting.
Be weary indeed, some can hide it better than others but if you give enough rope......
Stay safe fellas
Be weary indeed, some can hide it better than others but if you give enough rope......
Stay safe fellas
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