Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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When a women is playing games and only looking for attention do I call her out on her bullshyt or should I just ignore her completely? :patrice:
Part of me wanna call her out on her bs
 

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When a women is playing games and only looking for attention do I call her out on her bullshyt or should I just ignore her completely? :patrice:
Part of me wanna call her out on her bs

Ignore her / block. No need to call her out or any woman. Always remove yourself in todays game.

Arguing with women is weak.
 
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If you have a woman in your life that you care about, have her read this book before it's too late:


Based on this article


It's written by a careerist who spend her best years dating around, breaking up with men for silly reasons because she always thought she could do better. Until she found herself in her mid-to-late 30s, single, and the dating pool was completely trash. Meanwhile most of the good guys she broke up with are now happily married. Good men in her age group typically want younger women and they are usually divorced with children from previous marriages. The rest have all types of mental or financial problems or are just plain old weird. She basically spends a fortune on matchmakers with no luck. Eventually ends up just having a solo pregnancy through artificial insemination because she wants a child so bad.

She critiques modern dating culture for promoting a fantasy to women. There's no such thing as a perfect man just like there's no perfect woman.

It's a pretty good read actually, although somewhat repetitive. Some of the case stories :picard:

Chicks be in perfectly happy relationships with good men but they always have this nagging sense of maybe they could do better.
 

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When a women is playing games and only looking for attention do I call her out on her bullshyt or should I just ignore her completely? :patrice:
Part of me wanna call her out on her bs

Just bush. No point arguing. You will not go away feeling better about yourself breh. You end up looking mad emotional/feminine arguing with women in general. Plus you validate her BS because she got a reaction from you (i.e. you care enough to want a confrontation).

Been there done that. Pride will make you do some stupid things :francis:
 

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When a women is playing games and only looking for attention do I call her out on her bullshyt or should I just ignore her completely? :patrice:
Part of me wanna call her out on her bs

What exactly is she doing tho? What is the nature of your relationship?

If it’s not super disrespectful and she’s cool and you enjoy being with/around her; bring it up, speak on what you’re seeing and feeling, tell her you don’t appreciate it and don’t want that type of energy.
 

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When a women is playing games and only looking for attention do I call her out on her bullshyt or should I just ignore her completely? :patrice:
Part of me wanna call her out on her bs

Are you smashing?

If you just talking at this point....

Bush ...ignore...move on

You will be upset at the wasted energy
 

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If you have a woman in your life that you care about, have her read this book before it's too late:


Based on this article


It's written by a careerist who spend her best years dating around, breaking up with men for silly reasons because she always thought she could do better. Until she found herself in her mid-to-late 30s, single, and the dating pool was completely trash. Meanwhile most of the good guys she broke up with are now happily married. Good men in her age group typically want younger women and they are usually divorced with children from previous marriages. The rest have all types of mental or financial problems or are just plain old weird. She basically spends a fortune on matchmakers with no luck. Eventually ends up just having a solo pregnancy through artificial insemination because she wants a child so bad.

She critiques modern dating culture for promoting a fantasy to women. There's no such thing as a perfect man just like there's no perfect woman.

It's a pretty good read actually, although somewhat repetitive. Some of the case stories :picard:

Chicks be in perfectly happy relationships with good men but they always have this nagging sense of maybe they could do better.
I say let it burn.

Until family/marriage laws change fukk it
 

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If you have a woman in your life that you care about, have her read this book before it's too late:


Based on this article


It's written by a careerist who spend her best years dating around, breaking up with men for silly reasons because she always thought she could do better. Until she found herself in her mid-to-late 30s, single, and the dating pool was completely trash. Meanwhile most of the good guys she broke up with are now happily married. Good men in her age group typically want younger women and they are usually divorced with children from previous marriages. The rest have all types of mental or financial problems or are just plain old weird. She basically spends a fortune on matchmakers with no luck. Eventually ends up just having a solo pregnancy through artificial insemination because she wants a child so bad.

She critiques modern dating culture for promoting a fantasy to women. There's no such thing as a perfect man just like there's no perfect woman.

It's a pretty good read actually, although somewhat repetitive. Some of the case stories :picard:

Chicks be in perfectly happy relationships with good men but they always have this nagging sense of maybe they could do better.

Yup
Especially now with online dating etc. the next guy is taller or richer etc. so some women continually look for mr perfect which doesn’t exist.!
 

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I've seen couples that I thought had the perfect marriage blow up. I'm talking about folks in the church married for years with kids.

that model simply doesn't work in this day and age, this is why I'm like the laws need to change otherwise it's going to be an endless cycle of this stuff with the bullshyt out being 'emotional abuse' lmfao
 

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that model simply doesn't work in this day and age, this is why I'm like the laws need to change otherwise it's going to be an endless cycle of this stuff with the bullshyt out being 'emotional abuse' lmfao

I read a funny quote the other day. Marriage worked when life expectancy was 30- 40 years old :heh:
 

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Met up with a chick last weekend . She showed me her Hinge account . 50+likes and 60 hidden chats :mjlol:
Got a homegirl that's on Tinder, Bumble, AND Hinge. Over 50 unread/unreplied to messages on each, notifications blowing up. I asked you ever gonna reply to them? She goes ehhh...if I'm bored enough I might.

Godspeed to all of you on them apps. I salute your patience and determination. Those stats are worse than when I was in the Navy (10 hot dogs for every bun, and a Navy bun was usually a 2/10- She's a 2 in the real world, but a 10 in the Navy).

I know apps are an ego boost/validation tool for women, but what I saw was a whole lot of dudes waiting for a reply and probably never getting one. She also told me she met up with a dude, wasn't feeling him, and curved him afterwards. Dude called her up cursing her out, called her a c*nt, all kinds of angry incel energy.

Guess who's gonna pay for his outburst?

Good luck!
 

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Got a homegirl that's on Tinder, Bumble, AND Hinge. Over 50 unread/unreplied to messages on each, notifications blowing up. I asked you ever gonna reply to them? She goes ehhh...if I'm bored enough I might.

Godspeed to all of you on them apps. I salute your patience and determination. Those stats are worse than when I was in the Navy (10 hot dogs for every bun, and a Navy bun was usually a 2/10- She's a 2 in the real world, but a 10 in the Navy).

I know apps are an ego boost/validation tool for women, but what I saw was a whole lot of dudes waiting for a reply and probably never getting one. She also told me she met up with a dude, wasn't feeling him, and curved him afterwards. Dude called her up cursing her out, called her a c*nt, all kinds of angry incel energy.

Guess who's gonna pay for his outburst?

Good luck!

The ugliest fattest girl will even have those numbers.
 
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