Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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[africngiant]

You be thinking they're best friend then they start saying the most flagrant shyt about each other to you. Some real slimy shyt.

Some of them are mean for no reason. This chick I used to talk to thought it was a good idea to let me listen in on a convo between her and her ex. Dude loved her and wanted to get back, he wanted to wife and she was treating him like shyt. I completely lost respect for her after that.

this too smh

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

I can. Broke up with my ex last October, laid up with a new shorty January to February I met off Bumble to bounce back. Whole time had the Face. I’m sure she could sense it. She hit me with the “let’s just be friends” bit. One time after we smashed we got into a conversation. Long story short she said she felt like I was dead inside. Like I was just there physically but if she looked into my eyes she couldn’t feel anything from me.

At 38, I can’t really see myself being emotionally vulnerable again. My ex was the last woman to have me open and trusting. shyt just is what it is

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

There’s this chick I’ve been talking to for a while now. I’d say things with her have been a slight roller coaster, but when shyt is good, it’s really good. Anyway, out of the blue, at the start of this month, she started ignoring me. She dubbed my texts, calls, etc., and I reached out to her multiple times. On Monday, I sent her a message saying that if she didn’t respond to this message, I wouldn’t speak to her again. She replied early the next morning and played the victim role basically saying, “you don’t know what I’ve been going through.” She didn’t apologize for anything.

I responded and told her that I was sorry for whatever she was going through, and I hope she feels better, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I never treated her like that, and I would’ve understood if she would’ve just said she was dealing with something. She gave me a dry ass short response. I sent her another message after that, and she never responded. Today I peeped her IG story, and I saw she was at some dude’s crib last night having drinks and smoking hookah. He wasn’t directly in the picture, but you could see him in the reflection in the background.

I’m not really mad; I’m more disappointed than anything. This is a chick who I’ve been super solid with. When she had other problems, I was there listening and encouraging her. When her homegirl slimed her out, I was there for her. Beyond emotional support, I’ve also helped her financially on different occasions. I don’t want to paint a picture like I’ve been 100% perfect with her because I have had some fukkups, but I’ve held it down and been solid with her since I met her.

Romantic feelings aside, I just can’t understand how you can ghost and seemingly not gaf about someone who's genuinely been good to you. There were red flags with her that I ignored early on, and they came back to bite me in the ass. I have a lot of mixed emotions, but I’m really feeling like, damn, you shytted on me after everything I did for you? After I held you down? I was genuinely there for her when other mfers weren't.
My trust level with women is already at an all time low and after this it’s bout to be nonexistent.

You were gullible breh. She's probably the one who slimed her friends out. You fell for that damsel in distress bullshyt. The biggest red flag is if she keeps falling out with ppl . Chances are, she's the problem.

I guess you learned a lesson here.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Sometimes when you do too much for certain women they low key resent you for it.

It makes no sense at all and is sickening when you think too deeply on it.

Once the guy she's currently messing with inevitably airs her she’ll be back weeping for your attention.

I bet she wanted you to see that IG story. For your peace of mind I would ignore them from here on out. Don't unmatch her though, just don't pay it no attention.

As the more you check in on her the more she knows she can come back at some point. I’d consider this pretty much over though.

Actually it makes perfect sense breh. Anyone that you put on a pedestal will look down on you from that pedestal. People know they ain't shyt. They know their flaws. So when you elevate them to undeserved heights, they see you as a poor judge of character and a fool. Hard to respect you after that. Many women feel down right uncomfortable if you treat them like Queens, and it's perfectly understandable. The best of them will just not engage you any further, the worst will take advantage of you.

I'm not saying go out and be an a$$hole like these other sociopathic brehs in this thread, but don't assume a subservient position either.

The last part want meant for you as you realize these things, but for younger brehs who think treating women like princesses is the move.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

 

[Ahadi]

“Kinda getting over the last person I was dating”

 

[Digital Omen]

“Kinda getting over the last person I was dating”

Thank her for her honesty and dip out

 

[Ahadi]

“Another day” (without her stating the day) = bush

 

[Slow Moving]

My bytch leaving is causing me to be extra aggressive trading which back fired on me
I lost enough money now i can't even buy p*ssy

 

[RealAssanova]

Fellas, don’t ever let a woman get comfortable over time (with no sex). By that, i mean hanging out with her and making out, fingering, gettin head, etc. but no fukking. Guilty of this and it backfired on me twice with 2 different women i was casually seeing (one since last sept on/off and one since may) tonight and 2 fridays ago.

Both were down to their panties grinding on my dikk but the minute i tried sliding it to the side and gettin down to my boxers its

Both women 30. I’m like aii get off me cuz i’m not about to get blue balls while u get off.

Immediately took both home after not engaging in back and forth and kicked them out the car as soon as they got in front of their spot.

Both tried to juelz, apologize and try to say “they need time” or “need commitment” to smash respectively.

At the end of the day fellas, do not do what i did. Don’t let bytches ever get comfortable thinkin sex won’t ever happen. You gotta be on it from the jump or real early on.

Only reason i let it go on for so long was cuz i wasn’t thirsty but inbetween that time the women that i did fukk made me wanna fukk these 2 which is why i went for the juggular only to get hit with bullshyt resistance. Like i get it early on…but months of seein each other and beyond the point of comfortability where we practically 80% the way there..

The one tonight had the nerve to even tell me she “pulled back from me” early on in jan when we stopped talking to see how i’d react and she was correct in doin that cuz she knew i was gonna do what she figured which was to fall back. So why the fukk come back to me and get down to your panties tonight?

Brehs…don’t let these hoes get comfortable. She either gonna get with the program or not..but find out early.

I wouldn’t say i’m too pissed as much as its a lesson learned…but man…the bullshyt and illogics women come up with..

And stay attractive fellas.

 

[Balla]

“Kinda getting over the last person I was dating”

Breh where are you meeting these chicks? You in DC right?

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Fellas, don’t ever let a woman get comfortable over time (with no sex). By that, i mean hanging out with her and making out, fingering, gettin head, etc. but no fukking. Guilty of this and it backfired on me twice with 2 different women i was casually seeing (one since last sept on/off and one since may) tonight and 2 fridays ago.

Both were down to their panties grinding on my dikk but the minute i tried sliding it to the side and gettin down to my boxers its

Both women 30. I’m like aii get off me cuz i’m not about to get blue balls while u get off.

Immediately took both home after not engaging in back and forth and kicked them out the car as soon as they got in front of their spot.

Both tried to juelz, apologize and try to say “they need time” or “need commitment” to smash respectively.

At the end of the day fellas, do not do what i did. Don’t let bytches ever get comfortable thinkin sex won’t ever happen. You gotta be on it from the jump or real early on.

Only reason i let it go on for so long was cuz i wasn’t thirsty but inbetween that time the women that i did fukk made me wanna fukk these 2 which is why i went for the juggular only to get hit with bullshyt resistance. Like i get it early on…but months of seein each other and beyond the point of comfortability where we practically 80% the way there..

The one tonight had the nerve to even tell me she “pulled back from me” early on in jan when we stopped talking to see how i’d react and she was correct in doin that cuz she knew i was gonna do what she figured which was to fall back. So why the fukk come back to me and get down to your panties tonight?

Brehs…don’t let these hoes get comfortable. She either gonna get with the program or not..but find out early.

I wouldn’t say i’m too pissed as much as its a lesson learned…but man…the bullshyt and illogics women come up with..

And stay attractive fellas.

Both them hoes was mentally damaged BAD. Especially the bolded.

I personally think both of those girls had a dude they were mentally stuck on and weren’t 100% over.

I told the story a couple months ago how I met this bytch that was in a polyamorous “relationship” but she wasn’t poly, the guy she was fukking was, and he was married but the marriage was poly. So she moving like she single but emotionally tied to this married polyamorous nikka

Long story short. We met in the gym and immediately hit it off. For a month I’m trying to smash (didn’t know about her situation). Finally she’s forced to tell me she can’t do anything because she feels like she’s cheating on her poly nikka whose married. Situation quickly folded shortly after that.

I say that to say this, these hoes out here moving like they good to go but got these unresolved issues emotionally and sometimes physically. Soon as I even get a hint of resistance or gut feelings a bytch is in the bushes

 

[The ADD]

Fellas, don’t ever let a woman get comfortable over time (with no sex). By that, i mean hanging out with her and making out, fingering, gettin head, etc. but no fukking. Guilty of this and it backfired on me twice with 2 different women i was casually seeing (one since last sept on/off and one since may) tonight and 2 fridays ago.

Both were down to their panties grinding on my dikk but the minute i tried sliding it to the side and gettin down to my boxers its

Both women 30. I’m like aii get off me cuz i’m not about to get blue balls while u get off.

Immediately took both home after not engaging in back and forth and kicked them out the car as soon as they got in front of their spot.

Both tried to juelz, apologize and try to say “they need time” or “need commitment” to smash respectively.

At the end of the day fellas, do not do what i did. Don’t let bytches ever get comfortable thinkin sex won’t ever happen. You gotta be on it from the jump or real early on.

Only reason i let it go on for so long was cuz i wasn’t thirsty but inbetween that time the women that i did fukk made me wanna fukk these 2 which is why i went for the juggular only to get hit with bullshyt resistance. Like i get it early on…but months of seein each other and beyond the point of comfortability where we practically 80% the way there..

The one tonight had the nerve to even tell me she “pulled back from me” early on in jan when we stopped talking to see how i’d react and she was correct in doin that cuz she knew i was gonna do what she figured which was to fall back. So why the fukk come back to me and get down to your panties tonight?

Brehs…don’t let these hoes get comfortable. She either gonna get with the program or not..but find out early.

I wouldn’t say i’m too pissed as much as its a lesson learned…but man…the bullshyt and illogics women come up with..

And stay attractive fellas.

I get that you weren’t thirsty but that’s wild time spent spinning wheels. I hope your weren’t spending $ on dates.

 

[RealAssanova]

Both them hoes was mentally damaged BAD. Especially the bolded.

I personally think both of those girls had a dude they were mentally stuck on and weren’t 100% over.

I told the story a couple months ago how I met this bytch that was in a polyamorous “relationship” but she wasn’t poly, the guy she was fukking was, and he was married but the marriage was poly. So she moving like she single but emotionally tied to this married polyamorous nikka

Long story short. We met in the gym and immediately hit it off. For a month I’m trying to smash (didn’t know about her situation). Finally she’s forced to tell me she can’t do anything because she feels like she’s cheating on her poly nikka whose married. Situation quickly folded shortly after that.

I say that to say this, these hoes out here moving like they good to go but got these unresolved issues emotionally and sometimes physically. Soon as I even get a hint of resistance or gut feelings a bytch is in the bushes

The one i started seeing most recently, i never divulged too much into her dating past but the one i was seeing/talking to on/off from last year had a bad relationship prior to when we started talking.

These women were emotionally attached…the recent one i realized was selfish and only cared about her needs and the longer-term one is confused. Wants commitment, backs off to test me, comes back and says i won’t give it up unless i feel certain/secure about us. Knows i’m not going to commit, gets frustrated by it but yet still wants to see me and gets intimate but won’t go all the way.