Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

good luck bro. they’re annoying as shyt. think everyone and everybody is weird as if they’re sooo cool and we get with them for their personality

whole time be basic as hell.

Yea b

I couldn’t help but think it’s easier said than done what he said

Women are mentally abusive and have no accountability so it is natural to resent them

 

[Ohene]

im really starting to realize how mean spirited a lot of women are. they always got some a$$hole thing to say about people while they barely gotta work for shyt socially. and people stay letting their complex slide



think they’re above everybody

Women are a$$holes man. Even my girl who I truly love, shes an a$$hole. My mom? a$$hole. 90% of them all a$$holes lol.

nikkas be tall, good looking, fashionable, fit, having good jobs, their own cribs, travelled, funny, intelligent, honest, responsible etc etc…

Its nikkas out here who have literally grinded from the bottom with nothing given to them, learning how to approach, talk to and treat women only to have women out here turning their nose up at them, complaining/whining about needless shyt in relationships, rolodexing them, complaining to their girls how no good men are around, etc etc

Women have no idea how good they have it. Unfortunately they have obscene expectations while dating and no ability to deal with conflict when interacting with males…setting traps that box you in on some “damned if i make x decision, damned if i do y” shyt.

It’s women out here who can’t even respond to a text message promptly or arrive to a rendezvous on time but expect the man in said scenario to plan something, open the door, pull out the chair, pay for drinks and food, make her laugh, edify her, make a move etc etc. the scale is too lopsided. Men giving women infinite chances in hopes they can sniff the p*ssy, and women exploiting it, making men walk on egg shells and cutting men off for the slightest indiscretion: a bad joke, a bleh outfit, being a bit nervous, being too eager to meet up, asking for a picture, not being eager enough, etc etc

Let that sink in lol
The game is fukked

 

[rabbid]

cuffing season approaches so keep in mind that the "what are we" texts will be coming if you overstay your welcome. the summer boyfriend flings have ended in tragedy, and these girls are looking for a home for the holidays.

Shorty from last year on my tiktok saying she's lonelier than ever. Ima double cuff the titties with one arm and beat it up like she's my enemy. be the good guy if you want to and end up singing one wish in the streets. no good deed goes unpunished brehs, particularly during this time.

 

[Ohene]

For the men in here who actually live righteously I want yall to realize that except for special cases, you are better than most of these women. You have substance, you have sense, you have assets, you have personality, principles, morals, values.

Don’t let these childish women ever make you feel less than just because they reject you . Don’t let them frustrate you with their tests and games. Don’t feel useless because feminism and doctors have these women thinking they don’t need a man for shyt. Let them live in their cloud of ignorance, not knowing that deep down you are actually that guy. Treat yourselves as the prize, because men like you are rare. In a big city, fat asses, big titties and pretty smiles are a dime a dozen. A man with all of the above is a lottery ticket though.

And when you find a woman who actually sees your worth and respects you accordingly…don’t mess around with her. Hold it down or be honest about what you want from your situation with her. Recognize how rare in todays age it is to find a woman with substance as well

 

[africngiant]

Women are a$$holes man. Even my girl who I truly love, shes an a$$hole. My mom? a$$hole. 90% of them all a$$holes lol.

nikkas be tall, good looking, fashionable, fit, having good jobs, their own cribs, travelled, funny, intelligent, honest, responsible etc etc…

Its nikkas out here who have literally grinded from the bottom with nothing given to them, learning how to approach, talk to and treat women only to have women out here turning their nose up at them, complaining/whining about needless shyt in relationships, rolodexing them, complaining to their girls how no good men are around, etc etc

Women have no idea how good they have it. Unfortunately they have obscene expectations while dating and no ability to deal with conflict when interacting with males…setting traps that box you in on some “damned if i make x decision, damned if i do y” shyt.

It’s women out here who can’t even respond to a text message promptly or arrive to a rendezvous on time but expect the man in said scenario to plan something, open the door, pull out the chair, pay for drinks and food, make her laugh, edify her, make a move etc etc. the scale is too lopsided. Men giving women infinite chances in hopes they can sniff the p*ssy, and women exploiting it, making men walk on egg shells and cutting men off for the slightest indiscretion: a bad joke, a bleh outfit, being a bit nervous, being too eager to meet up, asking for a picture, not being eager enough, etc etc

Let that sink in lol
The game is fukked

yo preach wtf

 

[Ahadi]

Breh where are you meeting these chicks? You in DC right?

Oh hell no, I wish. Im in CLE. I used to live in NYC. Coming here I realized I was spoiled in NYC

But as soon as she sent that, I literally just smashed a joint last night from Toronto visiting

 

[Balla]

Oh hell no, I wish. Im in CLE. I used to live in NYC. Coming here I realized I was spoiled in NYC

But as soon as she sent that, I literally just smashed a joint last night from Toronto visiting

Were they from the same app?

 

[Ahadi]

Were they from the same app?

All real life.

I have hinge, I get matches, but I just barely use it. (only spoke with the law student joint I told you about)

 

[Balla]

All real life.

I have hinge, I get matches, but I just barely use it. (only spoke with the law student joint I told you about)

Oh, it sounded like one of those bullshyt messages a chick would say on the app.

Keep doing that real life shyt my nikka.

 

[Ahadi]

Oh, it sounded like one of those bullshyt messages a chick would say on the app.

Keep doing that real life shyt my nikka.

Yeah, we vibing for a week, talking, no sex, but it was a lot of reciprocity through the convo. Then a situation occurred and then she mentioned how “we’re figuring this out” & “I’m still kinda getting over someone”

So I just removed myself. I don’t deserve 80-90% of her, she needs to give me 100%.

But the universe has a weird way of working sometimes & bringing new ppl in your life.

Appreciate it my guy

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Yeah, we vibing for a week, talking, no sex, but it was a lot of reciprocity through the convo. Then a situation occurred and then she mentioned how “we’re figuring this out” & “I’m still kinda getting over someone”

So I just removed myself. I don’t deserve 80-90% of her, she needs to give me 100%.

But the universe has a weird way of working sometimes & bringing new ppl in your life.

Appreciate it my guy

Glad you recognized and put yourself first breh

I tell people all the time (women and men) after a long term relationship, sit down and chill for a good 6 months to a year. Don’t date purposely. Recover. Deal with the previous emotional ties FULLY before bringing new people into the fold.

If you recover faster and feel you’re truly past the previous relationship then cool. Date. Meet new people. I’ve noticed that women are quick to entertain new men after ending a serious relationship. They’ll be still emotionally messed up or still semi dealing with the ex (physically and mentally) WHILE meeting and pretending with new men.

That’s how you get these situations we’re describing in this thread. When I meet new women I assume she’s either fukking a current dude and just seeing what’s out there or looking to monkey branch from a situation she wants to get out of but doesn’t wanna be alone.

 

[DTXwavey_02]

These refrigerator built females stay liking my shyt on Hinge. I thought plastering all over my profile that I like to be active and work out would repel them away

 

[Ahadi]

Glad you recognized and put yourself first breh

I tell people all the time (women and men) after a long term relationship, sit down and chill for a good 6 months to a year. Don’t date purposely. Recover. Deal with the previous emotional ties FULLY before bringing new people into the fold.

If you recover faster and feel you’re truly past the previous relationship then cool. Date. Meet new people. I’ve noticed that women are quick to entertain new men after ending a serious relationship. They’ll be still emotionally messed up or still semi dealing with the ex (physically and mentally) WHILE meeting and pretending with new men.

That’s how you get these situations we’re describing in this thread. When I meet new women I assume she’s either fukking a current dude and just seeing what’s out there or looking to monkey branch from a situation she wants to get out of but doesn’t wanna be alone.

Exactly 1000%

But also matching you up with the previous guys, in terms of looks, what her friends circle Will think, do you look good on socials, brag about your job at brunch, etc.

 

[The ADD]

Only time i took these broads out were the very first time i was gettin to kno them. 1-2 dates. Didn’t even spend more than $25-30 per chick. After that, it was strictly walking/chilling in parks and hopping into the backseat.

Self-Inflicted Learning Lesson

 

[Deathstroke]

Man every time I think I've seen it all, they surprise me. Algerian girl (same one who was talking marriage and all that after we started having sex) just played me straight up. Months wasted. I let myself get too comfortable, she would come to my place, cook, clean, everything. It's been awkward between us since she brought up the getting married thing but we were still good. She travels, we still good until recently I see she's acting different. She was supposed to come back last week but she's stuck there and shyt. She wasn't giving me much info so I wasn't checking up on her like that. Fast forward yesterday, I ask her if she's good, she only replies "yes", i'm like okay cool, I know i've been m.i.a but I got a lot of work going on, she replied "it's okay". I was out chilling, I posted a couple stories on ig, then replied to her message " alright cool". Next thing I know she removes me off ig. Like she unfollows me and removes me as a follower as well.

I message her like wtf did I do something wrong ? This is how it goes

Me : Did i do something wrong ? what's going on ?
Her : Nothing, I need to work on some things and fix things, can't talk rn
Me : Tf ? If something was wrong, thought you'd let me know. You getting married other there or what ? I'm not a kid, I like you but I can take the truth. We either fix shyt together or if we can't we can't

She got mad and started blowing up telling me marriage is the fkkn last thing on her mind rn, she's stuck overseas with no money, no passport,no luggage, she's trying to figure how to get the fck outta there and she already missed two weeks of school and everything. That she got more important shyt and doesn't need stress from anybody.

We started arguing a bit because I was like how tf am I supposed to know if you don't say shyt, then she says she can't because she literally cannot talk to me, she only gets wifi sometimes and there's the time difference. (BS excuses but whatever). She then says I worry too much and that we'll talk about this later cause she can't deal with this or the relationship vibes rn and that it's funny that I tell her all this as soon as she removes me off ig .

shyt makes no sense, why would you remove me out of all ppl when I've been nothing but supportive with you ?? Tf ?? And then I call it like it is and tell her she made her choice to cut me off so alright, I'll keep it moving. She got the nerves to say I'm overreacting and that she's not cutting me off, just dealing with shyt. Then it goes like this.

You : Listen, you scared for no reasons with me , you think too much. And I'm the opposite... I can't.
Me : I'm not scared, whatever happens happens, I just don't like when things gotta be complicated when they could be so easy. At the end of the day if I lose you, I lose you
You : See, you talking about losing me and stuff. The only thing on my mind is to come back and start school again. Listen we gonna talk about this some other time. Because i gotta go now.
Me : Sure. Aite.

Man I can't believe the lack of accountability, jheeze I am too stunned right now. Like she really thinks I'mma pick up this conversation with her later ?? This is over. It makes no sense at all. I haven't done anything wrong. Yea I'm living my best life on ig, you jealous ?? I don't get it. I'm literally just in shock. Didn't expect that from her.. I'm hurt too because I was trying to make things work for when she'd be back. I didn't deserve this at all man.