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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I wasn't talking about your original post. You were talking about being in a public place and getting shut down in front of other females and looking bad in front of them. I'm saying that's not a legit reason to not pursue someone as the chance of those circumstances happening is pretty low. I do agree that if you're not feeling a connection then there's no reason to pursue further. If a female is interested at that time she will make herself available.
I did read your OG post though and all I'm wondering is why you were so bothered by this chick. It was just a single conversation in a library that went nowhere. Honestly its not worth thinking about.
Another thing to remember guys. The whole "opposites attract" thing is nonsense and you should not abide by it too much. If you are a man who is hardworking, reliable, and loyal to people you are close to and you carry yourselves well, then it would only make sense to do the same for a female.
Some dudes out there when they finally achieve success after years and years of difficulties through high school and college, as soon as they make it big they DOWNGRADE big time. Dudes out there go as far as wifing up hoodrat strippers who have no realistic ambitions in their life besides tricking on Backpage looking for guys to simp them.
This is exactly what Kev is talking about. You have to carry yourselves as the prize and I would even say to look at a potential companion as a "protege" who is in your "office" to be interviewed and is able to show they have the same qualities that the Business(You are the business) is looking for
. You are the teacher/sensei/prize(whatever you want to call it) and they are the person going to you to learn from you how to improve their qualities even more
Some dudes out there when they finally achieve success after years and years of difficulties through high school and college, as soon as they make it big they DOWNGRADE big time. Dudes out there go as far as wifing up hoodrat strippers who have no realistic ambitions in their life besides tricking on Backpage looking for guys to simp them.
This is exactly what Kev is talking about. You have to carry yourselves as the prize and I would even say to look at a potential companion as a "protege" who is in your "office" to be interviewed and is able to show they have the same qualities that the Business(You are the business) is looking for
. You are the teacher/sensei/prize(whatever you want to call it) and they are the person going to you to learn from you how to improve their qualities even more
painful to read that sh1t. as hard as it is to accept, in such situations, if u love ur wife and dont wanna divorce her, just cheat. may not make sense to yall right now. u aint goto physically cheat with other women but get the attention u want from them. that'll help keep u emotionally distant enough for ur wife to begin to wonder why isn't he bothering me for sex anymore.
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no offense but you sound insecure, you seem too worried about what the people around you think when you should just focus on YOU and the GIRL you are talking to. there is no such thing as a perfect situation, a guy with game knows how to work with the cards he is dealt and makes the best of the situation he is in... the way you think about other girls watching you put in work i assume you dont get at the girl you like in a club/bar/lounge because too many other women are watching you huh?stop thinking so much
The girl i'm dating now was due to me taking a huge chance.
Was at a club for an acquaintances b-day back in December. Didn't really know many of the people in the party group so i told myself, "Fukk it, i'ma make some new friends!"
Felt a little bold so I literally invaded a group of 3 beautiful women who were already having their own little conversation - basically just head-budden into their dynamic and the rest was history (i.e. initiated contact, broke them down and eventually one left, 2 remaining and one of them kept hyping up her single homegirl - that was my cue to engage and voila).
The point is; as a man, you have to take chances. WHen it comes to the opposite sex, any opportunity is a great opportunity.
Carpet diem - seize the moment breigh.
If you're too busy thinking of what others perceive you as, you're Truestly limited your odds at not just amping your experience points, but, in the greatest case scenario - finding the love of your life (i know how ironic that seems because the general societal consensus is that you don't fall in the love in the club, but normal people need a destressor as well and go out once in a blue moon. We're social creatures and just because she's in a pretentious environment doesn't necessarily equate to her being a ratchet human being).
But i'm not going to scrutinize the next man as every guys method is unique to their abilities; I just live by the adage...
"Close moufs don't get fedded."
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