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kevm3 can yo define your version of the word THIRSTY? i feel some people version of being thirsty is actually some people version of just being Persistent in trying to get the girl since most girls will play hard to get and make you work for it instead of getting it easy. so being persistent actually pays off depending on how you go about it
Let me break it down to you from my perspective, even though Turbulent gave a great answer.
When you come up on a female, you can deal with her from a standpoint of you having the greater value and being the prize or you can look at her as having the greater value and being the prize. The mentality YOU choose will ultimately affect how you deal with her.
The difference between thirst and persistence is the difference between the words want and need.
Thirsty negroes act like they NEED a woman. Real men WANT a woman. The distinction between the two is that a man that needs a woman behaves in a fashion that he will pursue her and attempt to have her by any means necessary, even if it means a degradation of his dignity as a man. A man that wants a woman will pursue a woman, but he will never sacrifice his own principles, dignity and manhood in order to chase her.
If you feel YOU'RE the prize, you only want to deal with a woman in a certain way. If you feel SHE is the prize, you will deal with her and do anything to get her. Let me break this down further. How you step through the door with a woman is often how the relationship will be. If you come through the door with a woman attempting to impress her and being OVERLY persistent, then she will see you as a man that is really trying hard to win her affection. She will start getting the notion that SHE is in control because she sees that you are exerting an abnormal amount of effort to catch her. Once she gets this notion in her mind, sure, you might be able to deal with her on a short-term basis, but over the long-term, it's going to be nothing but problems because you've set a bad precedent. When you dealt with her early on through exerting that extra effort you essentially told her that you will go that extra mile to be with her. She can get you to do the out of the ordinary for her attention.
That's why a lot of cats, when they deal with a woman and 'catch her' by exerting all of this extra effort... doing little things to impress her, staying around and dealing with her when she's in this sour nasty mood, letting her call the shots, etc... they may HAVE her, but the way they have her is going to be unacceptable. When they end up dealing with her, she's going to be real disrespectful because she got the notion in her mind that SHE'S running things. She's going to start CHARGING you for her attention.
Now, when dealing with a woman, it all starts from your mentality and from your initial reactions with her. If I'm chopping it with a woman and she's icy with it, I'm not going to keep on going on and on with it. Me, I believe a woman finds a way to get to where she wants to be and finds a way to get to who she wants to get to. So I don't believe in trying to impress a woman who isn't feeling me, aka trying to WIN her attention and affection. You know what, prizes are WON, so if you're trying to win her attention and affection, you are telling her SHE is the prize. You might end up 'winning' her, but you will have paid a high cost and will continue paying during your interactions with her. She will always be CHARGING you, or in other words, creating stipulations that you have to adhere to and requiring compensation in order for you to get her time.
As I said before, when a woman really digs a man, I FIRMLY believe she acts in a way that is conducive towards him catching her. Her conversation is more open and friendlier than average. She makes herself available to him. Now you do have women that play hard-to-get, but my mentality is screw that, THEY are the ones that are going to miss out. I'm not going out of my way to play some little games with a woman in order to get her attention. She better cut them games out and act right to get my attention, because I'm the prize. You might miss out on some QUANTITY with my approach, but the QUALITY of the women you deal with will be much better.
Now how all of this deals with talking to a woman you just met? If the conversation is icy and one worded, I'm not going to necessarily assume that she's not feeling me, but then again, what I WON'T do is be hanging around all day trying to drag all of this conversation out. If it starts getting icy, I'm gone and when I come around the next time, I'm going to see if it had warmed up. Some women are shy and take time to get comfortable around you. The more these women see you, are able to observe you and become familiar with you, the more comfortable they become. So THOSE women take time to really crack, so leaving and having her see you again, if she is shy and likes you, you will notice her opening up slowly and heating up. Now if you see a woman and she was icy to you and you left and you see her again and she's icy again, and you start noticing a pattern of iciness, that's one broad that might very well not be feeling you. There's no need to pursue her any further, because as I said before, I'm not going to WIN a woman's attention and affection, or in other words, make HER the prize in order to deal with her.