Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

Maybe my tolerance levels aren't as high as most people, because if a chick can't even have the common courtesy to ask about me after I express an interest in what she does, then it's a wrap and I just keep it moving. Reciprocity, even in small ways, is something I look out for. It doesn't take any energy at all to simply ask "how about you?" and if someone can't even bother to do that, then I won't bother either.

As for this sneaking looks thing that chicks do, call me Danny Glover cos I'm too old for that shyt. If you can't open your mouth and say something, keep your eyes elsewhere.

lol. thats the cue i've been looking out for when chatting with chicks.

but then again, just a couple of days ago i was texting this chick i met online a few days ago. i was asking all the questions...which she was answering. but she didn't ask me much. i was about to throw her in the bushes when i decided to do my last ditch move. lol. i just told her yo, i'ma be passing this spot in a couple of hours. u wanna meet me there? she agreed. we met, she came home with me. we fuccked. so hey its whatever. lol

but in general though if a chick isn't asking about you, thats a cue to gracefully end the convo lol

 

[TRUEST]

Lol at you telling dudes out there to be careful and then going back to fukking a harlot raw.

Lol at still being someone stuck in the 1960s and not 2013 and STILL believing in the whole "pulling out" method stopping pregnancy. You can still get her pregnant if you fukk her raw even if you don't cum in her

You really need to stop all this ignorance breh because it is looking very ridiculous now.

We know hoes out there are ruthless, but if you knowlingly see her why she is married, you are in the wrong. Now if it a case that you did not know or she lied to you then that i understand and you move on.

But fukking a hoe raw who is not wifeable in any way and risking the fact that you can impregnate her and leave your offspring to having a hoe as a mother and being yet another child to grow up in an unstale environment.

Think with your big head breh and not the little one.

man u aint goto tell me all that. i know. and i'm sure u too would do the same in the same position. yes, u too. glad i got away from that without catching anything. but the discipline is in being able to end that sh1t...which i did. last time she hit me up on some lets hang out tip i ignored her.

and oh by the way, fyi, the pullout does work. will i advise a teenager with no experience with women to do it? no. but i fuccked my ex for years using the pullout, and she wasn't on birth control. and she never got pregnant. the pullout will work for u if u are dead serious about not getting the girl ur fuccking pregnant. dead serious means being alert enough to pull out at the first sign u bout to bust. your not honestly gonna argue the pull out method with me are u?

 

[Turbulent]

this has been bothering me since it happened. how would yall have handled this?

i'm a the library/computer lab. i sat next to a chick that looked alright. she's fucckable. while sitting next to her, i got the vibe this chick is on the prowl cause she kept looking up at every male figure that passed.

she looked my way a couple of times (which i saw from the corner of my eye). eventually i decided i cant let this slide without at least saying something to her. so i asked her what she was working on. she told me she was working on something related to her class. she seemed really interested in talking. but when she didn't ask me anything about me or what i was doing, i just let the conversation end.

keep in mind yall, this a library/computer lab. every conversation is heard by eavesdroppers. so i'm not trying to make a fool out of myself. i've had plenty of chicks be nice and then when u ask them for their number, u get hit with different variations of that burning ether. but then again, i've had other chicks give their number.

anyway, after the convo ended. i kept on doing my thing, she kept on doing hers. only this time, she wasn't looking up anymore at any one that passed , and she wasn't sneaking looks at me. she would do her work and would sporadically pick up her phone to start texting. all the while not glancing at me anymore. so i figured its whatever.

about 25 minutes later, i got tired of sitting by the computer so i just printed up some sh1t i was reading, got up and got the papers i printed, and was fixing to leave. as i was leaving i saw she seemed somewhat unsettled. like i got the vibe she was thinking "is this dude really gonna just up and leave without saying goodbye to me?".

i left without saying anything to her, but as i left, i noticed she looked back at me.

basically the experience left me feeling . cause i feel i coulda hit. the last chick who gave that kinda vibe i ended up fuccking for a while until i decided to sever ties with her. if this had been in a spot that wasn't as crowded or where not a lot of people woulda heard the convo, this woulda gone down quite differently lol.

but what would my colian brothers have done in that situation?

i think you did good (especially if chances are you'll bump into her again)

don't let the "what if i missed out on some p*ssy" mindset cloud your judgement. you approached, read the signals as her not jocking that much and KIM gracefully. now if she was fronting on you it's her bad. like kev said, the next time you see her, if she jocks you, you'll know what it is. Don't jock chicks more than they are jocking you. as they say, leave some space in her mind for her to fill in. Don't play it too cool or too thirsty. Just stay in the right mindset, be honest with yourself and make your actions honest like you did in that instance.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

nah she wasn't playing. she did make a scene. but the n1gga kept on doing whatever he was doing.
it was just wrong on so many levels what she was doing. some times she came through when the n1gga was working. and tat sh1t was just wrong.

if i can resist that ass, shed be a cool chick to just chill and watch movies with. but i know aint no way that kinda ass is laying next me and me not doing anything. so she had to be removed from the team.

Self control is strong ability to harness.

Kudos to you.


But let's be reality, you was beating them guts raw for a whole year.

You got tired of it.





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[CrossBones]

probably one of the worst kinds of chicks to be in a relationship with or be cool with, is the nagging kind. and there are males out there who are guilty of this womanly behavior too. always trying to pull out some random shyt, some past event, or something that he or she is hung up on, to use to flip on you out of nowhere. this kind of weasely approach shows a frustration and dissatisfaction with themselves in that they need to look at some old shyt to start up a new fight with you.

like you can be talking about getting groceries, and she will try to bring up how the food at this new restaraunt you two went to last week was bad and that how shouldnt have picked it. nag about how her idea was better. or how she told you so. and then keep on, and on. its this strange, drama instigating atttitude which is extremely bytch made. they want that fight, to provoke that frustrated emotion from you.

you have to dead that immediately from your woman. shes always challenging you, meaning she is lacking direction and constantly trying to one up you.

if theres a problem then: acknowledge it, be understanding of the other persons position, and go from there. but find the solution and put your foot down on it. no more discussions to entertain their bs, that only leaves the door open for future bytching.

these nagging, never adding anything positive bytches, are really empty headed and argumentative because they dont know how to humble themselves or be mature about their own feelings.

so let your girls know, if there was an issue, we addressed it, and thats it. move on. no childish finger pointing, no repeat blaming, no trying to put someone down when youre not adding anything positive. anyone like that has to be dismissed as lost, so you look for something that will add on to you instead of take away.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

what do yall think of women who have 4 or 6 packs? do you think it's too much?

 

[karim]

and oh by the way, fyi, the pullout does work. will i advise a teenager with no experience with women to do it? no. but i fuccked my ex for years using the pullout, and she wasn't on birth control. and she never got pregnant. the pullout will work for u if u are dead serious about not getting the girl ur fuccking pregnant. dead serious means being alert enough to pull out at the first sign u bout to bust. your not honestly gonna argue the pull out method with me are u?

 

[TRUEST]

 

[Po pimp]

what do yall think of women who have 4 or 6 packs? do you think it's too much?

Not at all. Why work out if your goal isn't to be in peak physical condition?

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Not at all. Why work out if your goal isn't to be in peak physical condition?

Exactly. Some dudes on another forum frowned heavily over a woman with a "hard man stomach".

 

[Po pimp]

Exactly. Some dudes on another forum frowned heavily over a woman with a "hard man stomach".

Yeah, some dudes will say they want a woman to have that softness, but if she's not working out, genes will only take her so far. Then when she ends up having jello arms and cottage cheese legs, he doesn't wanna be with her.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Yeah, some dudes will say they want a woman to have that softness, but if she's not working out, genes will only take her so far. Then when she ends up having jello arms and cottage cheese legs, he doesn't wanna be with her.

 

[YouLoveMe]

Houston breh

Good luck on your trip breh. If your going to the all-star game tell me how great Kobe and Lebron is in person.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Are you using google translate?

Naw... what made you said thats?


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[winb83]

man u aint goto tell me all that. i know. and i'm sure u too would do the same in the same position. yes, u too. glad i got away from that without catching anything. but the discipline is in being able to end that sh1t...which i did. last time she hit me up on some lets hang out tip i ignored her.

and oh by the way, fyi, the pullout does work. will i advise a teenager with no experience with women to do it? no. but i fuccked my ex for years using the pullout, and she wasn't on birth control. and she never got pregnant. the pullout will work for u if u are dead serious about not getting the girl ur fuccking pregnant. dead serious means being alert enough to pull out at the first sign u bout to bust. your not honestly gonna argue the pull out method with me are u?

the pullout is not a reliable form of birth control. you got lucky i know because i got lucky. was in a 4 year relationship and a 2 year one and pretty much never used condoms throughout and got lucky. at this point i know i was lucky and i'd never do that again. i'm not gonna risk 18 years of child support for some raw p*ssy just cause it feels better. that's the ultimate form of short term thinking.