Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LeVraiPapi]

this has been bothering me since it happened. how would yall have handled this?

i'm a the library/computer lab. i sat next to a chick that looked alright. she's fucckable. while sitting next to her, i got the vibe this chick is on the prowl cause she kept looking up at every male figure that passed.

she looked my way a couple of times (which i saw from the corner of my eye). eventually i decided i cant let this slide without at least saying something to her. so i asked her what she was working on. she told me she was working on something related to her class. she seemed really interested in talking. but when she didn't ask me anything about me or what i was doing, i just let the conversation end.

keep in mind yall, this a library/computer lab. every conversation is heard by eavesdroppers. so i'm not trying to make a fool out of myself. i've had plenty of chicks be nice and then when u ask them for their number, u get hit with different variations of that burning ether. but then again, i've had other chicks give their number.

anyway, after the convo ended. i kept on doing my thing, she kept on doing hers. only this time, she wasn't looking up anymore at any one that passed , and she wasn't sneaking looks at me. she would do her work and would sporadically pick up her phone to start texting. all the while not glancing at me anymore. so i figured its whatever.

about 25 minutes later, i got tired of sitting by the computer so i just printed up some sh1t i was reading, got up and got the papers i printed, and was fixing to leave. as i was leaving i saw she seemed somewhat unsettled. like i got the vibe she was thinking "is this dude really gonna just up and leave without saying goodbye to me?".

i left without saying anything to her, but as i left, i noticed she looked back at me.

basically the experience left me feeling . cause i feel i coulda hit. the last chick who gave that kinda vibe i ended up fuccking for a while until i decided to sever ties with her. if this had been in a spot that wasn't as crowded or where not a lot of people woulda heard the convo, this woulda gone down quite differently lol.

but what would my colian brothers have done in that situation?

Well, be brave and don't worry about the ppl listening. Just step up to the plate breh. Or, you can just ask what else she does in her free time besides working on her schoolwork. Proceed to just discuss what she likes and give opinion on it. Crack a joke or two and ask for the digits, brethren

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

This nicca just glossed over all the other points I made, just to make himself look good Alright dude, I know how to deal with you now....

 

[TRUEST]

Well, be brave and don't worry about the ppl listening. Just step up to the plate breh. Or, you can just ask what else she does in her free time besides working on her schoolwork. Proceed to just discuss what she likes and give opinion on it. Crack a joke or two and ask for the digits, brethren

lol. is that really what you would have done? and no it aint about being brave. if a chick aint asking questions, to keep the convo going, in most cases, thats ur cue to keep it moving.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

@kevm3 The true leader . I gotta tell you about my wife breh breh

I m not bragging at all, but I do have a wife at home. A woman that wakes up before me and comes to bed after me. SHe prepares my lunch for work, cooks and cleans. All my uniforms ironed nicely. Even though she in school, she still finds time to cook and clean around the house. I m thinking this is too good to be true

 

[LeVraiPapi]

lol. is that really what you would have done? and no it aint about being brave. if a chick aint asking questions, to keep the convo going, in most cases, thats ur cue to keep it moving.

Yes, I would have done that. She could have been busy and you caught her at a bad time. Not asking questions may be the type of female that wants you to take the lead. I don't know if you ever dated a Chinese/Korean chick. They want you to do it all breh. It may be one of the two. If she was not into you at least, she would have given a vague answer or not looking at you at all

 

[kevm3]

this has been bothering me since it happened. how would yall have handled this?

i'm a the library/computer lab. i sat next to a chick that looked alright. she's fucckable. while sitting next to her, i got the vibe this chick is on the prowl cause she kept looking up at every male figure that passed.

she looked my way a couple of times (which i saw from the corner of my eye). eventually i decided i cant let this slide without at least saying something to her. so i asked her what she was working on. she told me she was working on something related to her class. she seemed really interested in talking. but when she didn't ask me anything about me or what i was doing, i just let the conversation end.

keep in mind yall, this a library/computer lab. every conversation is heard by eavesdroppers. so i'm not trying to make a fool out of myself. i've had plenty of chicks be nice and then when u ask them for their number, u get hit with different variations of that burning ether. but then again, i've had other chicks give their number.

anyway, after the convo ended. i kept on doing my thing, she kept on doing hers. only this time, she wasn't looking up anymore at any one that passed , and she wasn't sneaking looks at me. she would do her work and would sporadically pick up her phone to start texting. all the while not glancing at me anymore. so i figured its whatever.

about 25 minutes later, i got tired of sitting by the computer so i just printed up some sh1t i was reading, got up and got the papers i printed, and was fixing to leave. as i was leaving i saw she seemed somewhat unsettled. like i got the vibe she was thinking "is this dude really gonna just up and leave without saying goodbye to me?".

i left without saying anything to her, but as i left, i noticed she looked back at me.

basically the experience left me feeling . cause i feel i coulda hit. the last chick who gave that kinda vibe i ended up fuccking for a while until i decided to sever ties with her. if this had been in a spot that wasn't as crowded or where not a lot of people woulda heard the convo, this woulda gone down quite differently lol.

but what would my colian brothers have done in that situation?

If you manage to see her again, that coulda been a proper move because if she was a fine woman, a lot of dudes would have sat right there posted up on her basically making her wish he would leave. One thing that really intrigues fine women is the ability of a man to leave abruptly... she's probably sitting there wondering, why didn't he say bye? What's up with that guy? Next time you see her, she might be more receptive to taking to you.

A lot of times women don't really open up to you until they start knowing you more and getting comfortable with them. What you did with your move of up and leaving is give her the impression that you aren't a bugaboo who will keep trying to force a conversation. Next time you come around, she should be more comfortable talking to you.

You did the right thing. NEVER sit around forcing conversation... also, leaving abruptly gives her the impression you are unpredictable, and plants in her mind that if she wants to keep you around, she better be on ball-- that is if she is digging you. You did the right thing, especially with not asking for the number when the conversation ended on a cold note. The best time to get a number is when the conversation is warm and both ya'll are vibing.

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 The true leader . I gotta tell you about my wife breh breh

I m not bragging at all, but I do have a wife at home. A woman that wakes up before me and comes to bed after me. SHe prepares my lunch for work, cooks and cleans. All my uniforms ironed nicely. Even though she in school, she still finds time to cook and clean around the house. I m thinking this is too good to be true

Man bruh if you got it like that, you got what you need from a woman. A lot of cats are hungry for a woman that hold them down like that.

 

[TRUEST]

@kevm3 The true leader . I gotta tell you about my wife breh breh

I m not bragging at all, but I do have a wife at home. A woman that wakes up before me and comes to bed after me. SHe prepares my lunch for work, cooks and cleans. All my uniforms ironed nicely. Even though she in school, she still finds time to cook and clean around the house. I m thinking this is too good to be true

what race/nationality is ur wife?

 

[CASHAPP]

@kevm3 The true leader . I gotta tell you about my wife breh breh

I m not bragging at all, but I do have a wife at home. A woman that wakes up before me and comes to bed after me. SHe prepares my lunch for work, cooks and cleans. All my uniforms ironed nicely. Even though she in school, she still finds time to cook and clean around the house. I m thinking this is too good to be true

What is her nationality?

 

[LeVraiPapi]

what race/nationality is ur wife?

She is mixed Haitian/Brazillian. She claims Haitian though. Her ppl love me, but I am not one of those neggas to hype them. So, I barely talk to them, which is bad. She came here at 18 and she had 2 maids in Haiti. She learned to cook from my mom. She learned to cook what I like lol. I was her first, maybe that had smth to do with it

 

[TRUEST]

She is mixed Haitian/Brazillian. She claims Haitian though. Her ppl love me, but I am not one of those neggas to hype them. So, I barely talk to them, which is bad. She came here at 18 and she had 2 maids in Haiti. She learned to cook from my mom. She learned to cook what I like lol. I was her first, maybe that had smth to do with it

be careful my dude.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

be careful my dude.

On terms of what though ? Elaborate breh

 

[kevm3]

ay mane let me tell ya'll something too... don't be 'too cool' aka waiting too long to get at these women though cuz cats out here are adamant about planting flags on these pretty ones. they be mashing on these chicks with the intent to impregnate lolol

mannn i know a real pretty yellabone that was digging me me, but i was too slow in making my moves due to certain circumstances and some cat done went ahead and dropped that kid on her. you got to be out here mashing when the opportunity presents itself... you can play it cool to raise her interest for a little while, but never wait too long.

 

[CASHAPP]

be careful my dude.

Lol creepy how we asked it after one another.

But yeah although I was just curious about the race/ethnicity for the sake of knowing. I don't think a woman doing what she does makes no difference. I agree with your statement but.... I think you have "be careful" in any relationship with a woman and have a strong defense.

@LeVraiPapi you want to make sure that this girl is ambitious about her goals in the RIGHT WAY(if she is embarrassed). If this is not a green card situation, then you STILL have to make sure she is ambitious about a certain goal in terms of career.

The homemaker/stay at home with no career is very risky. Can you give us any more info about her in terms of career.

Am I making a correct guess to say she is introverted?

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Lol creepy how we asked it after one another.

But yeah although I was just curious about the race/ethnicity for the sake of knowing. I don't think a woman doing what she does makes no difference. I agree with your statement but.... I think you have "be careful" in any relationship with a woman and have a strong defense.

@LeVraiPapi you want to make sure that this girl is ambitious about her goals in the RIGHT WAY(if she is embarrassed). If this is not a green card situation, then you STILL have to make sure she is ambitious about a certain goal in terms of career.

The homemaker/stay at home with no career is very risky. Can you give us any more info about her in terms of career.

Am I making a correct guess to say she is introverted?

she got a year left in Nursing and I actually told her I don't want her to work and going to school at the same time. I will let her walk her last semester so she can get her foot in the door somewhere at a hospital, but that's about it.

She wanna be a Nurse Practitioner. Oh, she used to work before when I was in college. That money was going straight to my pockets/needs though

I trust her a little more since she's anti-twitter/FB/Instagram. She watches Lifetime/ID/History channel but hey I still stay on my toes my negga cuz after all, she's human