Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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to be fair, I never set a specific time initially just the day. but I messaged her this morning to make sure everything was all good and figure out a timing but its like I'm still stuck in the same pattern of her kinda taking long to answer :manny:

I've chalked up the texting game to the bushes over past couple years tho. All i ask for is some tact/communication. If I dont see it initially then I dip out early.

I’ll say this. With women you need to set a firm time for a meet. Even if either of you have to change it slightly, at least it's set and she knows.

Trying to figure out the time the day of a meet, even if its just casual drinks gives certain women cold feet. If she’s already 50/50 on you it gives her a good excuse to bail.

Me personally. I usually get that I’m looking forward to seeing you message the morning of a meetup.
 
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Mufasa Ahadi

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Yup attraction cannot be negotiated , you might get what you want but it won’t go well in the backend

Exactly. I had a situation one time in which I was intimate with a joint, but she would never reach her O. But at the same time I felt “mechanical” with her. At that point I had to break it off.

Sexual chemistry is important, you both can be physically attracted to one another, but if the mental ain’t there, then there’s no point.
 

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whenever women take long to answer a text when its the day of a date, it always throws me off to the point where I dont really care to go anymore

Maybe this sounds a bit defeatist but anyone else have this issue?

I honestly feel like just tryna to setup a date with this other chic instead :francis:
funny enough same girl flopped the day of, responds a day and a half later to my text with an apology and suggests to go out a week later instead

 

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Honestly, I prefer meeting girls without social media. I had success with snap and IG, but I get very lazy fast since it's mostly virtual.

I prefer establishing bonds in real life because I get to feel the person without any distractions. Way more fun.
dating apps are pure nonsense imo and socials are too much optics

in-person really only be the true way to make an impression that I feel is your truer self and give a shorty enough to decide if she likes you or not. A lot of times women dont reeeeeally need that much time to know if they genuinely wanna fukk you or have that butterfly pit feeling in they stomach when you like someone.
 

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dating apps are pure nonsense imo and socials are too much optics

in-person really only be the true way to make an impression that I feel is your truer self and give a shorty enough to decide if she likes you or not. A lot of times women dont reeeeeally need that much time to know if they genuinely wanna fukk you or have that butterfly pit feeling in they stomach when you like someone.
Dating apps should lead to in-person fairly quickly
 

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whenever women take long to answer a text when its the day of a date, it always throws me off to the point where I dont really care to go anymore

Maybe this sounds a bit defeatist but anyone else have this issue?

I honestly feel like just tryna to setup a date with this other chic instead :francis:

It’s not defeatist. Women are jus fickle.

  • After sending your number through app. It shouldn’t take her long to text you back.

  • After setting up a date, it shouldn’t take long for her to confirm.

If she’s taking long for the above, she doesn’t like you like that & she’s probably trying to see what better plans are out there. In this case, you delete.

It should be seamless transition from app to phone to real life.
 
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she gave u the number for a reason but be careful. how old is she?
indians can be very barbaric. you dont want homie findin out u fukkin his wife and u live in the same buildin
She looked to be in the late 20's/early 30's range (Say 28-32)
I'm just here like how you give me your number, make sure I remember it, but you're married?

:gucci:

Whatever, moving on
 
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