cause people lie especially in the dating stages of getting to know someone. Dating a lot of times (at least from a mans perspective) can be someone **trying** to get the opposite sex to like you instead of it being a harmonious union. Asking someone to rank importance in their life on topics like these, especially sex/intimacy, is gonna cause people to lie in order to intrigue the person they want.
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for example,
spirituality
This is VERY easy to lie about cause your vocation to your religion or belief system is heavily based on actions and how you stay true to it. If I met a chic thats muslim but im not and she asked how i rank spirituality, i might say 10 so that I intrigue her and get on her good side.
And I doubt any of yall nikkas gonna tell a shorty you only rate sex/intimacy a 2