Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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One this is she's passive aggressive and can be condescending. To be fair I mentioned them both to her and she apologized and was happy I mentioned them and claimed she would "work on it", also is SUPER sensitive! The thing that freaks me out the most is she's definitely mirroring me. It's like she's obsessed with me in a way and almost wants to turn into me. It's like she has flashes of crazy but then will come back and tell me how much she loves me and will be super compassionate and relatable to me. Shyt really confuses tf out of me. It's almost like she's playing with me but I'm not sure.

Shes had what she calls friendship break ups with several friends. Won't go into detail about them when I ask why but I'm sure it's some of the same shyt I've noticed.
If a girl cant keep basic friendships thats a glaring red flag to me and has never ended well.. They always make the story everyone else is the bad guy and have issues of taking any responsibility or seeing the wrong in anything they do.. Even the most basic of chicks can keep a few close friends..
 

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If a girl cant keep basic friendships thats a glaring red flag to me and has never ended well.. They always make the story everyone else is the bad guy and have issues of taking any responsibility or seeing the wrong in anything they do.. Even the most basic of chicks can keep a few close friends..

nah you be shock. 90% of women dont have friends. Them hoes you see them post pics with usually be chicks they just met often times. Hoes knew each other 1 week talking that Besties shyt lmfao.
 

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cause people lie especially in the dating stages of getting to know someone. Dating a lot of times (at least from a mans perspective) can be someone **trying** to get the opposite sex to like you instead of it being a harmonious union. Asking someone to rank importance in their life on topics like these, especially sex/intimacy, is gonna cause people to lie in order to intrigue the person they want.

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for example, spirituality

This is VERY easy to lie about cause your vocation to your religion or belief system is heavily based on actions and how you stay true to it. If I met a chic thats muslim but im not and she asked how i rank spirituality, i might say 10 so that I intrigue her and get on her good side.









And I doubt any of yall nikkas gonna tell a shorty you only rate sex/intimacy a 2 :comeon:
Getting someone to like you feels forced vs just feeling the situation out with no expectations. The problem is both sexes not being honest with themselves. Sooner or later people are going to realize "that person is not who I thought they were". It's take courage and confidence to show genuine authenticity instead playing a role just for someone to like you. Unless the "real" person is toxic distance is dodging a bullet.

Asking a person's what importance to them is very effective. Getting inside their world to see how their think, how they feel, how they perceive life.

For example in this clip, Tykwondoe talks about "going deep not wide" when talking to women. Using "how", "what" and "why" makes them want to respond to them more.



If a chick asks about spirituality, I will talk some game to her. Inspire her mind. Feed her knowledge. Being well-read, I'll talk to her how spirituality affects a person's consciousness, soul ties, energy, etc. Chicks that are "sapiosexuals" be on that energy vibrant stuff.
 

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nah you be shock. 90% of women dont have friends. Them hoes you see them post pics with usually be chicks they just met often times. Hoes knew each other 1 week talking that Besties shyt lmfao.
They have alot of associates and loose friends circles I agree. But what I am talking about even if they are jumping from 1 social circle to the next looking for utility, connects, dudes, money, etc. They still have atleast one or two close long term friends atleast.. If a chick cant even keep one close friend ehhhh..
 
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nah you be shock. 90% of women dont have friends. Them hoes you see them post pics with usually be chicks they just met often times. Hoes knew each other 1 week talking that Besties shyt lmfao.

A lot of women use each other for photo ops. Especially those girl trips.

They want access to the men the other girls are getting.

“Omg she’s wearing the new fenty make up, I want to be her bestie”

:laff:
 

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again, the bold is something that realistically is seen through actions. A women can tell YOU she only wants to fukk YOU 2-3x a week, but the other man every hour.

I understand screening through a potential spouse, but this method of pre-made prompts got folks sounding like robots.
I literally said these are gauges not definite, they just allow you to gauge, everyone does get different results, but again it’s just to semi know where they are coming from, also your notion assumes they can’t properly gauge themselves, would you not sooner believe her than be like i don’t believe you or i can change you, it’s up to each man or women to gauge things because exceptions are always made, i love light skin women, but will date a dark chocolate women without hesitation, again free will/choice, i like to fukk if a woman says i have a low sex drive that makes me pay attention, and things may not progress far if that’s how they play out
 

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Ha good luck with that. Its rare to find a women who you can fukk consistently without them catching some sort of feelings.

I was fukking with this chick for a year before she ended things because it wasn't going nowhere and I didn't want to date her :yeshrug:

Yeah if you can get a good year in then it's a success..

Calling a spade a spade, nikkas don't want to give up any concessions in these type of situations lol..

If you not gonna mix in some "pay to play", then this come wit it on the flipside..

Espicially if they feel you a "catch"..
 

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Ha good luck with that. Its rare to find a women who you can fukk consistently without them catching some sort of feelings.

I was fukking with this chick for a year before she ended things because it wasn't going nowhere and I didn't want to date her :yeshrug:
The games the game.

Onto the next
 

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A lot of women use each other for photo ops. Especially those girl trips.

They want access to the men the other girls are getting.

“Omg she’s wearing the new fenty make up, I want to be her bestie”

:laff:

pretty much. I always thought it was weird when I saw chicks on dating apps say they were looking for besties but nah that shyt is real.

The only women I've come across with 'friends' are chicks who went to college and pledged a sorority but even that can be iffy depending on their pledge process.
 

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They alot of associates and loose friends circles I agree. But what I am talking about even if they are jumping from 1 social circle to the next looking for utility, connects, dudes, money, etc. They still have atleast one or two close long term friends atleast.. If a chick cant even keep one close friend ehhhh..

i just say peep a chicks social media.

IF she has NO tagged pics, and all her pics are selfies/solo pics them are signs of having no friends.

The only exception to the solo only pics is if she is trying to come off like an influencer (but the follower count will reflect that).
 

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*gives number*

“I’m not interested i rather stay on the app & get to know you better, before wasting time & giving my number”

*unmatch*

:laff:

Any sort of reply fellas will put you in the loser position such as:

- Agreeing to her terms & staying on the app
- Negotiating

The best way you win is to unmatch.

Notice the key words:

Not interested = Not convinced (You’re okay / Cute, but I need more, work harder)

Rather stay on = Similar to the earlier point, need more, don’t do it for her)

Wasting time = Shes been ran through before and is putting her shortcomings on you, negative mindset.
 
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Another thing too I notice is how alot of women hate Players and pimps but love fukking with gangbangers and drug dealers. Why? Because they can't manipulate a pimp with p*ssy. A pimp deals with women regularly so she can't pull any of the manipulation tactics like she could a dumb ass gangbanger.

A broad can shed croc tears and have that simp wanting to shoot up a whole block causing gangwars, bringing heat to the area etc... A nikka that's bout the playa and pimpin gonna tell the broad to go GET HIS MONEY and get in line with it

 

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A lot of women use each other for photo ops. Especially those girl trips.

They want access to the men the other girls are getting.

“Omg she’s wearing the new fenty make up, I want to be her bestie”

:laff:
Ive literally said since high school that women are terrible friends to each other. Probably even worse than dudes tbh
 

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Another thing too I notice is how alot of women hate Players and pimps but love fukking with gangbangers and drug dealers. Why? Because they can't manipulate a pimp with p*ssy. A pimp deals with women regularly so she can't pull any of the manipulation tactics like she could a dumb ass gangbanger.

A broad can shed croc tears and have that simp wanting to shoot up a whole block causing gangwars, bringing heat to the area etc... A nikka that's bout the playa and pimpin gonna tell the broad to go GET HIS MONEY and get in line with it


pimps aren't playing boyfriend with square bytches bro lol.
 
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