With regard to Kevin Samuels - You never needed to listen to a word *he* said.
The women calling into his show told you everything you needed to know. Degree in Human Resources, MBA, PhD, JD, Lawyer - these weren't bum broads calling in. Educated BLACK women with their own money, their own car, careers, etc. He had the young ladies calling in with typical young girl nonsense, but the chicks 28+ (who should know better) had the same damn talking points.
Kevin's critics never had an answer for what the women said to him when he was alive, and still don't now.
A reasonable woman should be looking for love and support, compassion and kindness - but no. That's not what these women wanted. Nobody questioned what they wanted, they just criticized KS for telling them what it takes to get those things they wanted.