Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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a couple months ago I asked my girl if she had went to the gym recently

she said nah making some excuse about her period the week prior and putting more time into her studies. told her it wasnt an excuse, that she could still go to the library and the gym - there are 24 hours in a day. led to an argument but needless to say she got her ass back in the gym later that week and has been going consistently lol
Have to set the tone/standards, most other guys would be cool with it then wonder how their girl has blown the hell up three years later looking like the Michelin man :francis:
 

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Have to set the tone/standards, most other guys would be cool with it then wonder how their girl has blown the hell up three years later looking like the Michelin man :francis:
yup

there are somethings i begrudgingly compromise on...for instance I hate wigs and she's wearing one now since its the winter.
physical fitness aint one of em though.

she once tried to tell me my way of loving is toxic. I told her attraction and love are two different things; both very important, but I can love you and still lose attraction to you.

If a girl dont mind me losing attraction to her, she can go ahead and let herself go, its young , fit , attractive women coming off the conveyor belt every day.
 

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she once tried to tell me my way of loving is toxic. I told her attraction and love are two different things; both very important, but I can love you and still lose attraction to you

lol these chicks act like they don;t tell every guy they date that they love them and then poof its over and they move on to the next dikk and rinse and repeat.
 

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yup

there are somethings i begrudgingly compromise on...for instance I hate wigs and she's wearing one now since its the winter.
physical fitness aint one of em though.

she once tried to tell me my way of loving is toxic. I told her attraction and love are two different things; both very important, but I can love you and still lose attraction to you.

If a girl dont mind me losing attraction to her, she can go ahead and let herself go, its young , fit , attractive women coming off the conveyor belt every day.
Do you love her :lupe:
 

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lol these chicks act like they don;t tell every guy they date that they love them and then poof its over and they move on to the next dikk and rinse and repeat.
like i said, the vast majority of women are delusional

they act as if their "love" is unconditional but I;d like to see how she would start acting if I stopped going to the gym, became broke, stopped taking her out, stopped slanging dikk, etc.

everyone has their conditions. some may be more wholesome than others. some may be more vain than others. they are still conditions
 

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like i said, the vast majority of women are delusional

they act as if their "love" is unconditional but I;d like to see how she would start acting if I stopped going to the gym, taking her out, slanging dikk, etc.

Yup just like you know who went from "loving me" and writing me letters to not being happy in a few weeks because I was dealing with a few issues.

Only when you're on top and things are going well will most woman stay in "love".
 

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Example the last 4 women I've had a relationship longer than 3 months each of them told me how much they loved me and how they never felt like this before and bla bla :mjlol:

where they at now? I remember one of these chicks telling me that she loves me and she looked at me and I just said ok . I know how women are in that moment they might be experiencing those emotions that they equate for love.
 

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I smashed a few times already, she just mentioned how it makes them feel “judged” and “it can make women walk on egg shells around you”

:mjlol:

But I’ve had some women who love it and it keeps the fuel going - @Killigraphy

Balance might be the key - @RaspberryFitted

Don't even bother answering to these kinds of guys. You and I both have talked about women not knowing what they like, and dropping panties for the scumbag in their lives. What we need less of, is black men tap dancing for women who would see us as nothing more than a sounding post and paycheck. Its obvious by now, and I will keep posting it; your happiness is the only thing that matters, stifle yourself for no one, great men do not quiet themselves in the presence of sheep.

Imagine that, being successful at both the gift of gab and the game of life, only to be told you're too "opinionated"...I won't have it.
 
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