Digital Omen
All Star
The "treat her like the only woman in the world" is AFTER you and her are an exclusive ongoing item for the long term.Don't listen to this interloper, lol. She spreading trick-nology!
Keep the pressure up fellas. (ideally nonverbal pressure, and the right type of pressure is not browbeating and trying to convince her, but setting up situations where she can't stop herself.)
Letting off the gas means she's dictating the flow. Means you gotta jump through all type of her mental hoops, taking chicks out on dates, dinners, gifts, sweet words, lovey dovey on the text messages, "morning beautiful". And those are the easy and visible things. The intangible is how much control she's gonna have over your thoughts and actions - which is her ultimate goal.
But see how they treat men that they can control, and also how they treat men that they cannot control.
It's not about getting in them guts, it's about getting in them guts on a man's timetable, not a woman's.
Furthermore, it's the a-holes that get the most P on their terms. Same with life.
Never before
That type of treatment comes AFTER she's bushed all the dudes in her DMs and texts
AFTER she's shown and proven she's a keeper
And even then, you have to flex and throw a curve ball every once in a while, cuz she'll do it to you with her shyt tests.








she use the term my Jesus in our conversations. Something seemed off with her. .She then starts mentioning how she didnt like our black history convo and how her Pastor says if someone is pulling you from their destiny,its not yall season or something like that. IShe feels the conversation should have been more Bible based.
I dont have problem with Christianity this is not the post or thread but her conversation just felt off. Funny thing is she told me she a born again virgin and how she use to be in the world going to strip clubs with her homegirls,having sex with men 10+ years etc. I instantly bushed
and stopped replying 