Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Don't listen to this interloper, lol. She spreading trick-nology!

Keep the pressure up fellas. (ideally nonverbal pressure, and the right type of pressure is not browbeating and trying to convince her, but setting up situations where she can't stop herself.)

Letting off the gas means she's dictating the flow. Means you gotta jump through all type of her mental hoops, taking chicks out on dates, dinners, gifts, sweet words, lovey dovey on the text messages, "morning beautiful". And those are the easy and visible things. The intangible is how much control she's gonna have over your thoughts and actions - which is her ultimate goal.

But see how they treat men that they can control, and also how they treat men that they cannot control.

It's not about getting in them guts, it's about getting in them guts on a man's timetable, not a woman's.

Furthermore, it's the a-holes that get the most P on their terms. Same with life.
The "treat her like the only woman in the world" is AFTER you and her are an exclusive ongoing item for the long term.
Never before
That type of treatment comes AFTER she's bushed all the dudes in her DMs and texts
AFTER she's shown and proven she's a keeper

And even then, you have to flex and throw a curve ball every once in a while, cuz she'll do it to you with her shyt tests.
 

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lotta fellas in here wanting to know if they should holla at they fine coworker :mjlol:




im in the same predicament (shes a PAWG) but i still have not budged. Thank God I'm a coward :blessed:

Similar to a neighbor, ONLY if they’re about to leave. I’d suggest the idea of “celebratory drinks”
 

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Similar to a neighbor, ONLY if they’re about to leave. I’d suggest the idea of “celebratory drinks”

eh, recently shes been more chummy with a dude in accounting (darksskin and slightly more fit than me) so I dont really have to worry as much anymore

i was getting LOOKS and a couple signals before but i feel like that shyt died now. She a cool chic tho :manny:
 

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lotta fellas in here wanting to know if they should holla at they fine coworker :mjlol:




im in the same predicament (shes a PAWG) but i still have not budged. Thank God I'm a coward :blessed:
There's this older coworker who has a son. She has so much ass and she's always finding a way to casually touch me. I overheard her telling another coworker that I was cute. After being uglygang from high school till now I couldn't believe it. But with the touchiness and her calling me big *my name* I guess it's reality. I don't really want her like that

But I'd slam ass raw then go half on a plan B
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I was talking to an older black woman and she was saying how she dont like men over her house and saying "what can I do with a man at my house other than fukk? He gon watch TV for 5 mins then rape me" fukk all that noise"

I told her "people play card games, video games, Cook, watch videos online, etc"

But she was set on saying men only want to fukk and even some want to rape you. She said she sensed I wasn't like that but most men have rape on their mind


I was like :dahell:




I hate people :snoop:
 

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The "treat her like the only woman in the world" is AFTER you and her are an exclusive ongoing item for the long term.
Never before
That type of treatment comes AFTER she's bushed all the dudes in her DMs and texts
AFTER she's shown and proven she's a keeper

And even then, you have to flex and throw a curve ball every once in a while, cuz she'll do it to you with her shyt tests.
All of this is true. I didn’t think that I had to specify that you only treat her that way when you’re exclusive. Now let me go answer this joker you were responding to.
 

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I was talking to an older black woman and she was saying how she dont like men over her house and saying "what can I do with a man at my house other than fukk? He gon watch TV for 5 mins then rape me" fukk all that noise"

I told her "people play card games, video games, Cook, watch videos online, etc"

But she was set on saying men only want to fukk and even some want to rape you. She said she sensed I wasn't like that but most men have rape on their mind


I was like :dahell:




I hate people :snoop:
She's really projecting that :mjtf:

That's the type of person who will gladly get someone caught up and show no remorse about it
 
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She's really projecting that :mjtf:

That's the type of person who will gladly get someone caught up and show no remorse about it
I'm not even super educated but I learning alot of woman have got "dumb smart nikka" syndrome

They think they sound intelligent but it sounds so dumb.

People hate on the redpill but I learned so much about female nature listening to the Manosphere guys because they are 85% accurate on what women think and sat. I used to think it was bs till I put myself out there and interacted with more different types of women and see this all played out exactly like the guys said it would especially older women being bitter their cat ladies


I don't fux with Andrew Tate's mantra though
 

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I agree with the sex part & women changing their minds. But if she wants me now, what changed? The box isn’t going to be as wet compared to if she liked me initially.

The “treat her like the most beautiful woman in the world” doesn’t work, unless you create balance beforehand. Being an a$$hole has got me more ass in my lifetime than being the “actual nice guy”

Maybe when they hit 30, they want that NICE / Clean up / Russell guy, but these prime joints don’t respect it & again it doesn’t get the box wet as if you had the guy who has a killer instinct.
I never got the need for being with thugs or a$$holes so I can’t speak on that. I prefer a manly man that are able to assert themselves and carry their masculinity silently, but you know not to try them. And yes, you should definitely create balance before hand because people do take advantage and will take that as a weakness. As far as what would change and wanting to sleep with you. Simply put, you might say some dumb shyt that fukks up your chances.
 

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I'm not even super educated but I learning alot of woman have got "dumb smart nikka" syndrome

They think they sound intelligent but it sounds so dumb.

People hate on the redpill but I learned so much about female nature listening to the Manosphere guys because they are 80% accurate on what women think

I don't fux with Andrew Tate though
Both man and woman are capable to be on some dumb smart nikka shyt. You better off being the dumb person in the room and learn something, than be the smart one and learn nothing because you end up looking dumb being in that room.

You think people hating on the redpill is bad, wait until they learn about the blackpill.
 

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Women over 35 are delusional especially these church going ones im sorry. Case in point. I met a young woman this Past Thursday.She was fine,perfect natural type I give her that. We chopped it up vibe was great. We talking Black History Sunday night after Super Bowl. I start mentioning Benjamin Banneker,Sojourner Truth,Angela Davis etc ,I told her how I studied Malcolm as a kid. She accuses me of being woke and how she doesnt know certain black facts and figures. Im like ok whatever fast forward to today, Im playing around asking her who is her Valentine. She replies Jesus. Im like yes he loves us all lol.I ask her again "Human wise who is your Valentines" she replies her homegirl is her Galentine im like :comeon: she use the term my Jesus in our conversations. Something seemed off with her. .She then starts mentioning how she didnt like our black history convo and how her Pastor says if someone is pulling you from their destiny,its not yall season or something like that. IShe feels the conversation should have been more Bible based. :mindblown: I dont have problem with Christianity this is not the post or thread but her conversation just felt off. Funny thing is she told me she a born again virgin and how she use to be in the world going to strip clubs with her homegirls,having sex with men 10+ years etc. I instantly bushed :camby:and stopped replying :whew:
 
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