Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

So much I could say about this but some of these dudes have to go through it so others don't have to. When you know better, you do better. He's still young so there's hope as long as he learns from it - assuming this is even real.

 

[Action Mike]

What were the other red flags?

Wasn't up front about having kids and relationship history is crazy

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Wasn't up front about having kids and relationship history is crazy

i've bushed a few girls for lying about kids. if they lie about that they will lie about anything. one bytch didn't tell me she had kids and the second date I saw a childseat in her car and asked her about it.

 

[The ADD]

Wasn't up front about having kids and relationship history is crazy

Why did you setup a date?

 

[Action Mike]

How did you originally connect? I usually need about 10 minutes or less to see if someone is a good fit for dinner, or spending at least an hour plus together.

I would give the opposite counsel, and say go, what do you have to lose? and where are your expectations? and what will it cost you? Sure, there's an opportunity cost, an actual cost, and the sunken cost theory. You are looking at maybe $50/$150, and maybe 90 minutes, plus some awkwardness, at the worst.

If I am way off, sorry, I just see a pattern of people, "red flagging" people for relatively trivial reasons. Closes people off to each other. And also, for me, fukk the texts, fukk the memes, fukk the likes or loves, I just want to get in person, that's where I want to be.

Meet on hinge.

I know my market so despite what I said, I'm pretty sure I could smash with extra effort. She's very attractive and my horny self on facetime set something up as she was cooperative

Once I put the phone down, I digested the conversation and red flags, and thought it's probably not worth it. I aint stressing got other leads

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Can we all agree that septum piercings on a woman is a red flag ?

A massive one. It's one of the few coli stereotypes that's definitely true

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Relationship brehs, how do y’all to fight the urge for new p*ssy? This shyt be driving me nuts sometimes. Ive never cheated in relationship but after the one year mark in all my relationships, the itch becomes mad pronounced. Im starting to think I might be destined for the gmb life.

It's lack of maturity. Fukk what anybody says and I might even get negged for this, but there's more to life than constantly chasing new p*ssy. If you're stuck at that level as a man, it means you haven't fully matured and found your purpose yet. You're still a kid looking for the new shiny toy.

Imagine running the risk of breaking up your family, dragging your kids through divorce/breakup, dealing with the court system, etc etc all because you couldn't control yourself. A violent breakup of a healthy relationship can, depending on the situation, literally set you back many years if not decades in terms of reaching your full potential as a man and will have lasting effects on all parties involved, especially if there are kids in the mix.

Men are supposed to be logical and less impulsive.

 

[jay83]

It's lack of maturity. Fukk what anybody says and I might even get negged for this, but there's more to life than constantly chasing new p*ssy. If you're stuck at that level as a man, it means you haven't fully matured and found your purpose yet. You're still a kid looking for the new shiny toy.

Imagine running the risk of breaking up your family, dragging your kids through divorce/breakup, dealing with the court system, etc etc all because you couldn't control yourself. A violent breakup of a healthy relationship can, depending on the situation, literally set you back many years if not decades in terms of reaching your full potential as a man and will have lasting effects on all parties involved, especially if there are kids in the mix.

Men are supposed to be logical and less impulsive.

True but CEOs, politicians, pro bowl athletes, president of the United States bill Clinton were all risking it as well. Lol. I don’t think it’s just men who lack purpose.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

True but CEOs, politicians, pro bowl athletes, president of the United States bill Clinton were all risking it as well. Lol. I don’t think it’s just men who lack purpose.

And they all ran the risk of destroying their empires for p*ssy (bussy in some cases ). Clinton was impeached and almost destroyed his political career over what? Getting head by a fat chick with a strong chin?


Decades worth of work couldve been wasted. How is that rational?

Never said it's just men who take stupid risks.

 

[Digital Omen]

I'm saying the urge to spread our seed is natural, we were created that way
That's why Clinton risked it all. You see groupies at every concert and pro game, imagine the amount of ass thrown his way for years and years
Power turns women on. He was governor and then POTUS. Imagine being the most powerful man in the world commanding the most advanced military machine that's ever existed.
But that's where dikk discipline comes in. Clearly Slick Willie had none, but that was his decision. We all have the power to make the choice.
Even us regular citizens get it thrown at us every now and then
We already know a wedding band is a bat signal for some women, and again, we always have the choice to risk it all or fall back

 

[H@LLOW]

Is in man nature to have multiple women. Fight it all you want, but is on our dna.

 

[jay83]

Back in the 90s you can take a woman to McDonald’s and it was fine. Lol

 

[Ahadi]

Ever think the universe just wants you to take a break?

Seems like last year I was on fire & this year has been dead or bad opportunities

 

[Hawala Man]

Ever think the universe just wants you to take a break?

Seems like last year I was on fire & this year has been dead or bad opportunities

Happens all the time it's the universe telling you to focus on other things. I take vacations and explore different countries as a reset or learn a new skill. Focus on yourself and you will notice the changes. It's always quality over quantity when it comes to women breh.

 

[skyrunner1]

Ever think the universe just wants you to take a break?

Seems like last year I was on fire & this year has been dead or bad opportunities

It comes in waves.. Cycle up, cycle down.. Thats life overall and the game is no different. When in down cycle, take time to switch things up, lean on fundamentals or take your game on the road.. Take a break if you have to, reinvest in yourself, in your growth, evolution.. Still in first qtr but midway thru, could be time to focus on what your goals were for 2023 and see if things are where you should be for the first qtr. Before you know it the wave comes back and when it does you are hot again

Happens to everyone.