Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

There really is no way to bag outside of a club environment and not be “creepy”. So I’d advise folk to say f’it and not even pay attention to that. If it’s creepy then so be it Favorite quote ever is Robert horry. They asked him how he makes all those high pressure shots buddy really chuckled and said ‘bc I don’t care ’. Shoot your shot! Fuk it

Smile, approach her like both of y’all time is valuable, state the reason you approached (her appearance, something y’all have in common at that moment, outfit, general question she could answer), and if the reception is well.. state you want to continue the convo further.

… is the general approach I follow. Obviously this shyt fails a lot but I can at least walk away without sacrificing my self-respect & knowing … I tried

Used this approach today. I simply asked this cute sista if she understood the material, as I was inquiring about a study partner for the midterm. Punched in my # on her phone (sent myself a text with her name), chopped it up about our home country, and outlined our schedules/study plan.

Did the exact same thing in the exact same class with a different girl. Texted back and forth and it eventually fell through.

that’s why I’m when this forum speaks on women. Too much extremes on both sides.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

another issue is BM listen to BW… too well.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Haha, my bad homie.

Bruce Lee n'nem are starting to speak up on it. But that said has a weird complex (like the rest of the world) with Black Men. Worry about insane vagrants in NYC subways, while Guile is running off with Chun Li.

As a guy with yellow fever it’s frustrating, but I can’t imagine what Asian guys go through. They’re starting to eat off that Kpop thing so I can’t feel too bad for them.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Met a new coworker today and she's gorgeous. Has so much ass. Why must there be so many bad bytches at my workplace?

Idk why I have these urges but I wanna put babies in this bytch. I'm still getting to know her and she's cool peoples and an acquaintance. But damn.....

I'm ashamed of myself for thinking like this

 

[VertigoKnight]

That was a sarcastic surprise. I should have italicized it.

I've seen that statistic about Hispanics marrying out a lot. I also read something about the cac passing ones just identifying as white and then marrying other Hispanics and that seems plausible.

On a related note, everybody has all this smoke for black men that date out, but nobody ever really comes for Asian women, even tho they literally mock their men on social media about their white man fetish.

Oh they get heat from places like aznidentity on redditt its basically the Asian Coli loads of talk of Asian wenches who they call Lu's.

It was also a subject kept inside the asian community for the most part until about 5 yrs ago when it started to be spoke on more.

 

[VertigoKnight]

As a guy with yellow fever it’s frustrating, but I can’t imagine what Asian guys go through. They’re starting to eat off that Kpop thing so I can’t feel too bad for them.

As an experienced Paager, these chicks can smell a yellow fever guy a mile off.

If you really want to try and deal with an Asian chick do not mention her ethnicity.

It would be like a white chick telling me how much she loves black guys, that would be an instant turn-off for me.

As that is stepping into creepy fetishism.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

As an experienced Paager, these chicks can smell a yellow fever guy a mile off.

If you really want to try and deal with an Asian chick do not mention her ethnicity.

It would be like a white chick telling me how much she loves black guys, that would be an instant turn-off for me.

As that is stepping into creepy fetishism.

Of course I wouldn’t. That’d be weird. Her ethnicity never came up. After we exchanged pleasantries I asked how long was she staying in MB and if she was free.

Side note, it’s probably really easy to tell when someone is outright fetishizing them, but how often is it that the guy was normal and she just didn’t like him for whatever reason and claiming it was fetishization makes the girl come off as less shallow?

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Oh they get heat from places like aznidentity on redditt its basically the Asian Coli loads of talk of Asian wenches who they call Lu's.

It was also a subject kept inside the asian community for the most part until about 5 yrs ago when it started to be spoke on more.

I’ve been there before. I read a few threads and instantly closed the tab.

 

[Brandsdale]

In the States, I'm literally surprised when I see an Asian Girl with an Asian BF. Asian women marry white more than Latinas.

About three-in-ten Asian newlyweds (29%) have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity. The same is true of 27% of Hispanics.

Trends and patterns in intermarriage

In 1967, when miscegenation laws were overturned in the United States, 3% of all newlyweds were married to someone of a different race or ethnicity. Since

www.pewresearch.org

If anybody is losing recipes, it's Ryu n'nem.

Funny because asain men and black women have the lowest response rates on dating apps

https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women

Charts also show that lotta dudes overall prefer asain women

 

[Ahadi]

Of course I wouldn’t. That’d be weird. Her ethnicity never came up. After we exchanged pleasantries I asked how long was she staying in MB and if she was free.

Side note, it’s probably really easy to tell when someone is outright fetishizing them, but how often is it that the guy was normal and she just didn’t like him for whatever reason and claiming it was fetishization makes the girl come off as less shallow?

You don’t have to worry about that or overanalyze, just talk to them like regular people.

 

[Ahadi]

another issue is BM listen to BW… too well.

Expound on this?

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Canceling a date, going to make an excuse.

Pretty girl but dry answers and among other red flags has me feeling this a waste of an evening in my gut.

You're going to cancel a date and make an excuse because her texts were "dry"? This is extremely weird and kinda low value behavior tbh

You already had the date set up with her and she was replying to your texts. What other "red flags" were there?

This is good to see follow your gut. Dry answers and conversation in 2023 is a straight bushing for me. I don't care how pretty she is.

If a woman is giving one word responses I’m not taking time to meet her. If I’m on vacation and got time, I may entertain the idea of meeting.

Y'all missing out on a LOT of p*ssy


Only text to set up dates. Stop sending lame texts that warrant dry answers. Call her or FaceTime her, or send voice messages. How y'all can be in this thread and not know this is wild

 

[Action Mike]

You're going to cancel a date and make an excuse because her texts were "dry"? This is extremely weird and kinda low value behavior tbh

You already had the date set up with her and she was replying to your texts. What other "red flags" were there?





Y'all missing out on a LOT of p*ssy


Only text to set up dates. Stop sending lame texts that warrant dry answers. Call her or FaceTime her, or send voice messages. How y'all can be in this thread and not know this is wild

So because I don't want to waste my time with someone (and I ended up being right) I'm low value

You missed the "other red flags" part.

Go sit down somewhere. Just typing shyt.

 

[WIA20XX]

Funny because asain men and black women have the lowest response rates on dating apps

https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women

Charts also show that lotta dudes overall prefer asain women

There are actual academic theories about the "universal" appeal of Asian women. I done seen a lot of stunners, but let's just say they're eating off of headshots mostly. When you go full body..............

 

[Ahadi]

Yup. My old co-worker from Singapore.

400 matches. She’s about a 6. Slender body, was EATING.

Majority white boys