Another thing with social media, is it is just devoured by people. They find connections, contacts, signs, San Diego isn't a small city, but I run into people frequently, and with instagram or something, there's no peace or privacy. People will see who follows you, oh he must be dating her, he's a player, or cross reference that person's feed, it's the kind of surveillance that should have higher stakes than who sleeps with who. It's like life or death stakes for these people. You can post no pics, but people will gain info from your followers, and what they post.