Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TheKongoEmpire]

Good friend of mine is going to colombia for the bachelor party

In the group chat its plenty of nikkas talking about coke and prostitutes. They cant wait

Same dude has fukked numerous girls hes worked with and all that. Been with his girl ten years

Another dude just proposed…sweet instagram proposal with the rose pedals, the big MARRY ME letters, photographer..used to tell me about his cheating escapades too.

Another nikka i know brought his shorty here from Ghana and they have two sons together now i think. At the first dudes engagement party he mentioned how he cheats to reset his brain and numb himself to his girls shyt

Most these dudes i know in long term relationships have cheated or continue to cheat bro. And i dont blame them

Its how they cope with their girls fukkery

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I got news for you, beloved.

gon save my thoughts because this thread went from quick gems and success stories to what it is now.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

gon save my thoughts because this thread went from quick gems and success stories to what it is now.

It's been, what, 11 years? It was bound to happen.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

got a half nigerian average slim joint with 1.8k followers that locks eyes with me a lot in class. i checked her instagram and saw that miles sanders follows her and she’s not even from philly she’s from boston

thecoli said the game’s not rigged today though. im not even bothering to approach anymore

I haven't approached in YEARS. I don't date to tbh honest—I gotta passport for that!

 

[RaspberryFitted]

It's been, what, 11 years? It was bound to happen.

still feel this joint should be more advice/positive centric rather than journal entries on how fukked up the game is

 

[Panther]

I can't be only one noticing this, but more and more women are overweight.

And I don't even mean slightly chubby.

I mean like borderline fat and can balloon up to obese.

Yeah its bad out here

That fitness piece is #1 for me

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

I am a woman and I’m going to give you gentleman two gems when dealing with women:DO NOT STRESS THE SEX!!!! We know you want to fukk. We KNOW! You harassing us about the shyt is not going to make us give it to you. Any man with sense will tell you that when you don’t stress sex a woman be ready to fling her panties at you. Act like a regular human being and treat her like a person. Not a p*ssy ( that’s just a part of her anatomy, there is a bigger organ in her head) but a person. Don’t come off like a damn horn dog when you’re first meeting her. Trust me you’ll get further. Also, you know how they say that a woman knows in the first five minutes whether she will fukk a man? Well, that shyt is subject to change at any given point. In both ways. She probably looked at you and said that she would never fukk you, but then you’re an actual nice guy with a great personality and that’s a turn on for her. At the same time, she might definitely want to fukk you, but you’re an a$$hole and that’s a turn off. Lastly, I tell my sons this all the time: every woman wants to be treated like the most beautiful woman in the world. Like the only woman in the world. The crackhead one legged whore on the corner wants to be treated that way, all women do. When you meet someone that you’re digging, remember that.That’s it. That’s all.\

A fish telling a fisherman how to fish?

Nothing wrong with Christ being the center of a relationship

There absolutely is something wrong with a non-Afrikan man being the center of your black relationship.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

still feel this joint should be more advice/positive centric rather than journal entries on how fukked up the game is

That's just the trend brother. It didn't occur in a vacuum. It's no longer cliché to say that the dating game is fucced up, it's true and will only get worse. All the stats point to it.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

A 20 year chose me...I'm 35..

I'm pushing all my chips to the table...

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

Me and my girl have been together for about a year and change now. Things were kind of rocky at the beginning, but it's been good since except for one issue.

Recently she's gotten on me because I haven't initiated anything sexually with her in a few months, and she feels like she's always trying to initiate/I'm disinterested. I feel guilty about it but man, she's gained nearly 30 pounds since we met and bigger girls aren't my thing

Edit: I've already asked her to come to the gym with me, but she's resisted

What happened?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

A fish telling a fisherman how to fish?

@ that post

That's just the trend brother. It didn't occur in a vacuum. It's no longer cliché to say that the dating game is fucced up, it's true and will only get worse. All the stats point to it.

Adapt or die. Whining about it in here won’t fix nun.

This place is a lot better hearing success stories

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

i have never been slapped in my life

She Jamaican?

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

Adapt or die. Whining about it in here won’t fix nun.

I'll be damned If I get a TikTok account.

 

[africngiant]

I haven't approached in YEARS. I don't date to tbh honest—I gotta passport for that!

approaching is dead they all want to be swooned from my experience. i look like adonis but have the self esteem of a squirrel. id rather let them come to me.

i might not even be that bad, im just not the player they project me to be off approach.

me being a dark skinned black man with how they’re gonna stereotype me in what they expect out of me.

im not gonna be doom and gloom in this thread though lol.

passport gang it is, im not settling for silly expectations

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

being a dark skinned black man with how they’re gonna stereotype me in what they expect out of me

What's your ethnicity?