TheKongoEmpire
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Ghost her. Fuxx it. At this point, if she has that much self-hatred, she doesn't deserve an explanation.
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TheKongoEmpire
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Especially if she's American.
Don’t think she is.
Lol i hear you. she brought up couples therapy (after i mentioned it - saying i have some therapists friends have given me contact info for) and said shed be willing to pay for some
ill consider it but i will probably suggest she takes at least a few weeks away from me
Shes always been the one to want to take space and even suggested us living apart so
. To me we could take a step backwards to take a few forward. I legit dont care at this point.She can even date some other nikkas and see what its really like out there. I know my worth and know she aint finding a nikka like me. I make damn near 500K a year. I am tall. I am mature. I am fit/good looking. I fukk her brains out. I help her with her own personal development, and most of all we have a real connection. If she wanna nitpick and focus on some of the things I lack, the I implore her to find better elsewhere. The reason I say its a big relief is because I am telling her how I truly feel and letting it out. It can be exhausting always having to be the rock and optimist in a relationship …dealing with somebody whose anxiety and combativeness makes it harder to stay that way
Shes french/haitian
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TheKongoEmpire
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I wanna visit as Haitian but I just can't get down with damn near everyone having a Portuguese name speaking it. If that's the case, I might as well go to Brazil or Portugal. Both seem cheaper as well. I want to go to Afrika, not a black Portugal. Please tell me I'm wrong.Yessir, right in the center of the belly of the beast.
Lol i hear you. she brought up couples therapy (after i mentioned it - saying i have some therapists friends have given me contact info for) and said shed be willing to pay for some
ill consider it but i will probably suggest she takes at least a few weeks away from me
Shes always been the one to want to take space and even suggested us living apart so
The reason I say its a big relief is because I am telling her how I truly feel and letting it out. It can be exhausting always having to be the rock and optimist in a relationship …dealing with somebody whose anxiety and combativeness makes it harder to stay that way
Shes french/haitian
she saw them rental prices on kijiji and fb marketplace
LOL it aint even that, though I am sure its partially in the back of her head. i been told her about that shyt the first time she suggested living aloneshe saw them rental prices on kijiji and fb marketplace
thats why ima stick to my guns. you wanna discount the fact a nikka took you in and has basically been paying 90% of all the bills, while helping you learn English, find a job etc. be my guest. Enjoy being a strong, independent black woman
Truth is she doesnt have to live dolo. Shes basically nearing the end of her studies and is now essentially fluent in english , so if she really wanted to she could pack her bags and move back to FRA too. S'up to her at this point
It's worth a visit! The energy is way different from Brazil or Portugal. Only bad thing is corruption, but that can be largely overlooked if you're just coming for a visit. The amount of parties and sight seeing you can do will be far more than enough to satisfy you. There's a shyt load of partying/clubs/raves around these parts, and alcohol is relatively cheap. The beer is amazing.
The women are cool, especially if you're a foreigner. A lot of baddies depending on where you go. Due to the economic situation the bad & bougies are more than available, especially if you're fit, got some dough to spare, and love the partying just as much.
Drugs roll, but it's not terribly out of control. Most women still just stick to alcohol, many smoke weed.
I wouldn't travel to Portugal again if it meant saving my life, for obvious reasons. Brazil was alright, but I was too young to really enjoy it, though the prospects of guns is not an appealing one.
There's guns in Angola, but the warfare in Brazil is way way more nefarious.
Note: there's many expensive places in Luanda, but like anywhere else, it's all about finding the alternative which can often be better than the expensive place you found.
TheKongoEmpire
The First Men
Wait a second. Where you at?
It's worth a visit! The energy is way different from Brazil or Portugal. Only bad thing is corruption, but that can be largely overlooked if you're just coming for a visit. The amount of parties and sight seeing you can do will be far more than enough to satisfy you. There's a shyt load of partying/clubs/raves around these parts, and alcohol is relatively cheap. The beer is amazing.
The women are cool, especially if you're a foreigner. A lot of baddies depending on where you go. Due to the economic situation the bad & bougies are more than available, especially if you're fit, got some dough to spare, and love the partying just as much.
Drugs roll, but it's not terribly out of control. Most women still just stick to alcohol, many smoke weed.
I wouldn't travel to Portugal again if it meant saving my life, for obvious reasons. Brazil was alright, but I was too young to really enjoy it, though the prospects of guns is not an appealing one.
There's guns in Angola, but the warfare in Brazil is way way more nefarious.
Note: there's many expensive places in Luanda, but like anywhere else, it's all about finding the alternative which can often be better than the expensive place you found.
why don't you like portugal?
I loved lisbon
TheKongoEmpire
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I'm guessing colonialism and rightfully so. I don't see myself visiting Europe besides a layover.
Live in TorontoWait a second. Where you at?
Shorty moved here from Paris
I was kind enough to let her live with me immediately (too optimistic) because I wanted her to save more $
PreachLol i hear you. she brought up couples therapy (after i mentioned it - saying i have some therapists friends have given me contact info for) and said shed be willing to pay for some
ill consider it but i will probably suggest she takes at least a few weeks away from me
Shes always been the one to want to take space and even suggested us living apart so
The reason I say its a big relief is because I am telling her how I truly feel and letting it out. It can be exhausting always having to be the rock and optimist in a relationship …dealing with somebody whose anxiety and combativeness makes it harder to stay that way
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TheKongoEmpire
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She must've been fine as shyt to have that happen. Did she ever cook Haitian for you? I see "hene" in your name so I automatically think Ghanaian/Akan.