any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?
This chick im talking to now
treat her like any other broad
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I started off the year completely focused on self improvement. I've been in the gym a lot, studying/reading. The past two weekends I've gone to a few bars. I'm trying to resist the urge to go back to the dark side. I know that would be the easiest path for me to take. It's hard to stay focused when you can easily snatch the fruit from the tree.
whether a woman is a 10 or a 2, talk to them all like they are a 6. follow this rule and you'll get respect more often then not.any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?
This chick im talking to now
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
i just did this and 
I have a few women friends with kids who are in their 30s...
If they had their mentality now 10 years ago,they would have been better off...
Hopefully they will find happiness
If they had their mentality now 10 years ago,they would have been better off...
Hopefully they will find happiness
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Wow that's sickening on so many levels.
on one hand, it's hard to feel sympathy for him cause he was sleeping with a married woman.
on the other hand, it's still fukked up based on the principle. say dude wouldn't have known she was married, is it still the mother's decision? these laws are getting ridiculous.
Which is what?
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
That I don't plan on marrying a woman just because it's something that's expected of me.
CrossBones
Louder than words
its true that time works against women so much more it does with men. another reason why "they cant do what we do." its just not a wise move for them to make. as they age, they become less likely to get that man that theyre constantly dreaming about. having all that fun at a young age comes with a cost. and as the men in their age group begin to age with them - and when hes ready to settle down, chances are hes not doing it with a child/children in tow, and chances are that hes not looking for an older female with her many issues to deal with. not when he can just go and get a younger model instead.
thats actually a factor that should never play into your thoughts, and something she needs to see does not play into your behavior. never put a woman (or anyone) on a pedastal. dont let her see that you acknowledge her looks as a weapon, because then she knows that she can use that weapon on you. its a mind game. so cut that out from the jump. disable and disarm her, so to speak.
also, looks arent the most important thing for a man, so dont compare her attractiveness to yours. thats not how this works. two different games. maintain the upper hand, because theres only so many real men that she could deal with in her life. its important you show her youre one of them. meaning, someone who isnt affected by her looks. women come with so much bullshyt, that its imporant for the both of you to cut it out early. its not about being in the same league with her as far as looks, see its more of a mind game with her. its about how well you are in control of yourself and the man/woman dynamic that you two share.
any thoughts on dealing with a woman that's way more attractive than you?
This chick im talking to now
thats actually a factor that should never play into your thoughts, and something she needs to see does not play into your behavior. never put a woman (or anyone) on a pedastal. dont let her see that you acknowledge her looks as a weapon, because then she knows that she can use that weapon on you. its a mind game. so cut that out from the jump. disable and disarm her, so to speak.
also, looks arent the most important thing for a man, so dont compare her attractiveness to yours. thats not how this works. two different games. maintain the upper hand, because theres only so many real men that she could deal with in her life. its important you show her youre one of them. meaning, someone who isnt affected by her looks. women come with so much bullshyt, that its imporant for the both of you to cut it out early. its not about being in the same league with her as far as looks, see its more of a mind game with her. its about how well you are in control of yourself and the man/woman dynamic that you two share.
CrossBones
Louder than words
something else that crossed my mind, is that the more lust you show to a female, the more power she knows she has over you. we have threads and threads on here talking about doing this and that to a fine female, showering them with attention, to even buying her stuff and outright slobbing on them just because of her figure. it may be one of our first impulses when we see a good looking bytch, as sometimes we cant help but lust that. still, the more we do that and put it on front street, the more we reveal our thirst. while they can know that we are attracted to them, a woman shouldnt see all of that extra behavior and submission to her. itll get you played and she will treat you like her toy. thats not for grown men. and a lot of times, the thirst is strictly over her looks. and Im not speaking so much online, but more than anything I mean acting a certain way in person. so many times if you go outside on the weekends you may see the thirsty dude trying to holla at anything, including heavy chicks by the end of the night. the more thirst on display, the weaker he looks.
and its good to feel that attraction to a beautiful woman, but dont ever let it take over your mind. you can act on that attraction in person and go to meet her and put your bid in, but dont let the desperation and lust show so that it overtakes your cool. its more than anything a sign of weakness, and why we have so much tricking going on today.
and its good to feel that attraction to a beautiful woman, but dont ever let it take over your mind. you can act on that attraction in person and go to meet her and put your bid in, but dont let the desperation and lust show so that it overtakes your cool. its more than anything a sign of weakness, and why we have so much tricking going on today.
South Korean men look to North Korea to find wives | Toronto Star
SEOUL, SOUTH KOREA —Four years ago, Kim Eun-seo, 40, fled political persecution and poverty in North Korea’s gritty far-north city, Chongjin.
After dwelling secretly in China for a year, she escaped to South Korea. To her relief, she was able to live more freely, “without government approval needed for everything.” But, ironically, the freedom of everyday life in Seoul was a bit much for Kim. “The choices, the consumerism was overwhelming,” she said. “Even ordering at Starbucks was difficult. I’d never had coffee in my life, and didn’t understand the names of the drinks.”
Finding a solution wasn’t difficult. “I married a lovely South Korean man,” she said. “It was the best way to join this society.”
Kim now helps her husband, 42-year-old Hong Seung-woo, run a popular dating service that matches South Korean men with North Korean women.
They have matched more than 400 couples and claim that only four of those marriages have ended in splits. South Korea has one of the highest divorce rates in the world.
So what’s the draw for the North Korean ladies?
“North Korean men want to be the king of the house,” says Kim. “Southern men grew up in a developed society, so they’re more respectful of gender equality.”
Last year, 1,508 North Korean refugees arrived in the south, bringing the total number seeking shelter in the country to 24,000 since the end of the Korean War, according to a government tally.
More than 80 per cent of defectors are women.
South Korean men, too, see the allure of wedding a northerner. “A common complaint here is that southern women can have high standards,” Hong says. After Hong divorced his first wife, a South Korean, he says was rejected three times because he “wasn’t rich enough, and wasn’t a provider.”
With men outnumbering women in a society that historically has favoured male children, the ladies have an easier time taking their pick. Although many South Korean men seek out wives through matchmaking agencies in the Philippines and Vietnam, “adjusting to life here is hard for outsiders,” Hong said. “That’s why more men want a North Korean girl nowadays, with all the difficulties in the interracial marriages.”
“For North Korean women, there aren’t huge problems learning the language and culture,” he adds. “We come from a common ancestry, the same blood, and that makes these marriages successful.”
SEOUL, SOUTH KOREA —Four years ago, Kim Eun-seo, 40, fled political persecution and poverty in North Korea’s gritty far-north city, Chongjin.
After dwelling secretly in China for a year, she escaped to South Korea. To her relief, she was able to live more freely, “without government approval needed for everything.” But, ironically, the freedom of everyday life in Seoul was a bit much for Kim. “The choices, the consumerism was overwhelming,” she said. “Even ordering at Starbucks was difficult. I’d never had coffee in my life, and didn’t understand the names of the drinks.”
Finding a solution wasn’t difficult. “I married a lovely South Korean man,” she said. “It was the best way to join this society.”
Kim now helps her husband, 42-year-old Hong Seung-woo, run a popular dating service that matches South Korean men with North Korean women.
They have matched more than 400 couples and claim that only four of those marriages have ended in splits. South Korea has one of the highest divorce rates in the world.
So what’s the draw for the North Korean ladies?
“North Korean men want to be the king of the house,” says Kim. “Southern men grew up in a developed society, so they’re more respectful of gender equality.”
Last year, 1,508 North Korean refugees arrived in the south, bringing the total number seeking shelter in the country to 24,000 since the end of the Korean War, according to a government tally.
More than 80 per cent of defectors are women.
South Korean men, too, see the allure of wedding a northerner. “A common complaint here is that southern women can have high standards,” Hong says. After Hong divorced his first wife, a South Korean, he says was rejected three times because he “wasn’t rich enough, and wasn’t a provider.”
With men outnumbering women in a society that historically has favoured male children, the ladies have an easier time taking their pick. Although many South Korean men seek out wives through matchmaking agencies in the Philippines and Vietnam, “adjusting to life here is hard for outsiders,” Hong said. “That’s why more men want a North Korean girl nowadays, with all the difficulties in the interracial marriages.”
“For North Korean women, there aren’t huge problems learning the language and culture,” he adds. “We come from a common ancestry, the same blood, and that makes these marriages successful.”