Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

Same age and this is the truth about the couples thing.

Not gonna lie, that smashing and having random chicks round is getting old, but isn't if that makes sense.

Anything between 21-25ish(no kids) must involve a more flexible strategy where sex isn't the top priority...

If your older, you should be focused on guiding/teaching/communicating/elevating...

Playing the hurry up and "nextflix-n-chill strategy burns you in the long run cuz she hasn't invested EMOTIONALLY into you...

Older joints, yeah they gotta invest on the front-end cuz the flaws are too "out there" for me to even be bothered...

 

[Apollo Creed]

Something so awkward happaned today

@Ohene @Serious

So I went to Starbucks to meet the chick.

Some other chick was there waiting for a guy and she thought j was her date and I thought I was hers. We talked for like five min and then she said the name Kevin I'm like that's not my name.

Because I was literally just talking to this chick for a day I just saw lightskin and she was lightskin and I thought it was her

Awkward as hell I left to find my date and she was like oops this is awkard

Then I met the other chick and she's like i saw you talking to some other girl and j was like yeah just ran into a old friend.

I thought the date went well at the end she gave me hug and said she had a nice time and we said bye.

By the time I get to my car and check hinge she unmatched me

this is why you need to give time to chat vs rushing to meet chicks.

IMO you need a window of time (within a week) to
1.Make sure she isn't crazy
2.Make sure she is into you more than you are into her (this yields cooperation and no bullshyt flaking).

Gas cost too much and I value my time to much to give every chick I match with a date lol. It's not efficient what so ever.

 

[MikelArteta]

this is why you need to give time to chat vs rushing to meet chicks.

IMO you need a window of time (within a week) to
1.Make sure she isn't crazy
2.Make sure she is into you more than you are into her (this yields cooperation and no bullshyt flaking).

Gas cost too much and I value my time to much to give every chick I match with a date lol. It's not efficient what so ever.

I don’t like chit chatting and ish.

It was a five min drive

The odds that some other light skin chick was there and had a date at 8pm with some other dude and my date was 8pm with a light skin chick and we both didn’t confirm who the hell we were at the beginning was just some crazy azz ish and then my date being there and seeing it all was crazy as well

 

[Ahadi]

I don’t like chit chatting and ish.

It was a five min drive

The odds that some other light skin chick was there and had a date at 8pm with some other dude and my date was 8pm with a light skin chick and we both didn’t confirm who the hell we were at the beginning was just some crazy azz ish and then my date being there and seeing it all was crazy as well

The other girl could’ve been in on it lol…

 

[Apollo Creed]

I don’t like chit chatting and ish.

It was a five min drive

The odds that some other light skin chick was there and had a date at 8pm with some other dude and my date was 8pm with a light skin chick and we both didn’t confirm who the hell we were at the beginning was just some crazy azz ish and then my date being there and seeing it all was crazy as well

eh first dates are "chit chatting" but hey it's your life.

 

[Ohene]

Something so awkward happaned today

@Ohene @Serious

So I went to Starbucks to meet the chick.

Some other chick was there waiting for a guy and she thought j was her date and I thought I was hers. We talked for like five min and then she said the name Kevin I'm like that's not my name.

Because I was literally just talking to this chick for a day I just saw lightskin and she was lightskin and I thought it was her

Awkward as hell I left to find my date and she was like oops this is awkard

Then I met the other chick and she's like i saw you talking to some other girl and j was like yeah just ran into a old friend.

I thought the date went well at the end she gave me hug and said she had a nice time and we said bye.

By the time I get to my car and check hinge she unmatched me

Lol sheesh
How was the convo with the first one
Ida got her number

 

[MikelArteta]

eh first dates are "chit chatting" but hey it's your life.

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol sheesh
How was the convo with the first one
Ida got her number

It was actually flowing better those 5 min than with my date

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

Something so awkward happaned today

@Ohene @Serious

So I went to Starbucks to meet the chick.

Some other chick was there waiting for a guy and she thought j was her date and I thought I was hers. We talked for like five min and then she said the name Kevin I'm like that's not my name.

Because I was literally just talking to this chick for a day I just saw lightskin and she was lightskin and I thought it was her

Awkward as hell I left to find my date and she was like oops this is awkard

Then I met the other chick and she's like i saw you talking to some other girl and j was like yeah just ran into a old friend.

I thought the date went well at the end she gave me hug and said she had a nice time and we said bye.

By the time I get to my car and check hinge she unmatched me

Should’ve just told her the truth

 

[MikelArteta]

Should’ve just told her the truth

That I mistook you for someone else

 

[bigde09]

What does it mean when a woman hits you up talking about she just wanted to say hey?

Meanwhile you haven't spoken to her in months and used to smash her regularly.

Guy she’s dealing with ain’t acting right and she needs an ego boost.

 

[360dagod]

What does it mean when a woman hits you up talking about she just wanted to say hey?

Meanwhile you haven't spoken to her in months and used to smash her regularly.

She trying to see what's up...

And it can go from genuinely saying hi to having sex

 

[WIA20XX]

Question for all of y'all.

I been talking about dating/relationships/hollering/game FOR YEARS at this point.

I still think it's okay for women to have the vote.
At no point has learning how to run up in broads given me ideas about environmentalism or gun rights.

But I've noticed that guys trying to figure out how to get some head from chicks they met at the club, are real susceptible to Republican/Right Wing talking points.

Cats go from being afraid to walking up to random females, to marching with the Proud Boys.

I see a lot of this on the white side. I'm not at all surprised when Everlast type dudes go from rapping to rocking.

But I'm also seeing it on the Black side.

What do you think is happening?

And more importantly, since over on this side, we're really about getting your love life straight - how do we stop it?

 

[Ahadi]

Question for all of y'all.

I been talking about dating/relationships/hollering/game FOR YEARS at this point.

I still think it's okay for women to have the vote.
At no point has learning how to run up in broads given me ideas about environmentalism or gun rights.

But I've noticed that guys trying to figure out how to get some head from chicks they met at the club, are real susceptible to Republican/Right Wing talking points.

Cats go from being afraid to walking up to random females, to marching with the Proud Boys.

I see a lot of this on the white side. I'm not at all surprised when Everlast type dudes go from rapping to rocking.

But I'm also seeing it on the Black side.

What do you think is happening?

And more importantly, since over on this side, we're really about getting your love life straight - how do we stop it?

Depends on the teachings on YouTube. Some of the red pill / pill series teachers / Tate’s of the world, fall under this category. A lot of those talking points kind of correlate to it. These white boys in real life and Reddit are going through it. If they aren’t 6FT, or have facial symmetry they feel they’re life is useless. Gen Z boys got it bad, they’re also seeing Gen x & boomers, and realize they don’t want that life.

But moving forward: It’s a culmination of YouTube, lack of sex, too much social media, porn, that is distraction and lowering the confidence of men.

As for joining these groups, Maybe it’s a feeling of belonging? Feeling empowered? Dominating women?

Solution:

Can’t really stop it, you just have to be able to maneuver, stay sharp, go against the norm and approach women. Gym, social skills (get a vocal coach), stay fresh, etc.

It’s actually the best time to do this because a lot of guys are awkward and shy. I honestly just speak my mind/truth and whatever happens happens

 

[skyrunner1]

Question for all of y'all.

I been talking about dating/relationships/hollering/game FOR YEARS at this point.

I still think it's okay for women to have the vote.
At no point has learning how to run up in broads given me ideas about environmentalism or gun rights.

But I've noticed that guys trying to figure out how to get some head from chicks they met at the club, are real susceptible to Republican/Right Wing talking points.

Cats go from being afraid to walking up to random females, to marching with the Proud Boys.

I see a lot of this on the white side. I'm not at all surprised when Everlast type dudes go from rapping to rocking.

But I'm also seeing it on the Black side.

What do you think is happening?

And more importantly, since over on this side, we're really about getting your love life straight - how do we stop it?

Not something put too much thought to because i try to just take wat is valuable to me and leave the rest. But thinking about it I would say when reading most of these books or blogs from back then many start with the basis of things have gotten this way due to feminism and making men weak or not investing in men. From there it's easy to say this party supports that and they are enemy even tho the fantasy of tradcon is you being a mule til they put u out to pasture.. Even Tariq books start out with that premise..

Then u add that most tell men to lead and build themselves up, be the master of your domain, take personal responsibility and such and you can say that more aligns with one party if u fall in that black n white thinking. Some guys feel like they have an enlightenment with this stuff so they start to evaluate and swing from one extreme to the other..

When someone whole worldview gets shattered it's probably easy to get them to shift other ideas they may hold. Especially when that other party has no solutions for a regular guy who wants a regular outcome. I have seen for lack of better word thought leaders talk about what they can sell regular men coming up and they seem dumbfounded at even the thought of men having wants and needs lol..

Most people are regular and just have basic wants both parties seem to have gone in polarizing ways but one seems to demonize men and straight black men don't even register as humans