Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

Depending on your goals, bottle service is one of the most inefficient ways to meet women you can imagine. In a night club, nothing is real, everything is transactional, the alcohol/drugs, the music, other tables, you are competing with so many distractions. I know guys who are not dumb, not ugly, have money, their success rate with women and clubs is low. Most people hooking up in clubs are already connected somehow. The club sells a fantasy to people who want to pay for it. it's like a really long game you have to play until early morning hours. A lot of people exchange numbers, very few lead to anything. It's like a pageant. The goal of a nightclub is to get you to part with your money.

I have spend A LOT of time in this scene, and my friends still do, like I know it intimately. My friends are GM's at clubs, my boys are all or were ballers who dropped 20k a month in the club, or whatever, I go out with bottle service girls, I know all the people in those scenes.

 

[Silkk]

Its wild when you stop caring & see some of your old chicks out here doing bad without you…..



Ahh well, Wish em the best.

 

[Brandsdale]

I don't feel "on" anymore. I think my social battery is depleted

just need to find that spark again breh

seen 2 chics together shaped like violet myers at the gym today and I think it was the motivation i needed

 

[Apollo Creed]

just need to find that spark again breh

seen 2 chics together shaped like violet myers at the gym today and I think it was the motivation i needed

Yall boys need to find some damn inner purpose

 

[The ADD]

Yall boys need to find some damn inner purpose

 

[Apollo Creed]

Bro everything these nikkas do be based around hoes.

Where da hoez at ENT

 

[The ADD]

Bro everything these nikkas do be based around hoes.

Where da hoez at ENT

I was trying to get some positive interaction stories going but it seems to loop back so I figured that’s what the thread generally is now

 

[Brandsdale]

Yall boys need to find some damn inner purpose

lol im good dawg. sex never was a priority and still isnt

jus good to be out socializing and interacting with people instead of being anti-social





also, theres way more dudes in here batting a thousand with these stories about hoes(hollering at gyms, shorty workplace, on road, in traffic, in line somewhere etc.). Im actually being reserved as shyt lol

 

[Brandsdale]

I was trying to get some positive interaction stories going but it seems to loop back so I figured that’s what the thread generally is now

edit

 

[Brandsdale]

any time i try to uplift a brotha in here it backfires



done trying lol

 

[Ahadi]

any time i try to uplift a brotha in here it backfires



done trying lol

Can’t save everyone

 

[Brandsdale]

Can’t save everyone

tryna help a nikka and now im labeled as a sex fiend



















i dont even be fukkin that much to even identify as such

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

whatever

 

[skyrunner1]

I’m not sure how I landed on this post lol.

But this is interesting. So.. do you think bottle service covers up flaws? I’m having a brain science moment



Or will you’re image still be tainted? Because of your “suss” friend group

Dont think it covers up flaws, but its a honeypot in that environment for sure with a certain type..

Also I dont think it makes your friend group "suss" if they not on that, you just need to link with people who are on that type of time..

 

[skyrunner1]

Depending on your goals, bottle service is one of the most inefficient ways to meet women you can imagine. In a night club, nothing is real, everything is transactional, the alcohol/drugs, the music, other tables, you are competing with so many distractions. I know guys who are not dumb, not ugly, have money, their success rate with women and clubs is low. Most people hooking up in clubs are already connected somehow. The club sells a fantasy to people who want to pay for it. it's like a really long game you have to play until early morning hours. A lot of people exchange numbers, very few lead to anything. It's like a pageant. The goal of a nightclub is to get you to part with your money.

I have spend A LOT of time in this scene, and my friends still do, like I know it intimately. My friends are GM's at clubs, my boys are all or were ballers who dropped 20k a month in the club, or whatever, I go out with bottle service girls, I know all the people in those scenes.

This is facts. Have seen this from different angles whether its working behind scenes or being there as a customer. Been a promoter breh, know some of top promoters in world... Its a money grab, I have seen NFL athletes get caught up in "bottle wars" and run up 60k+ tabs, then almost lose gig because was helping them out.. Lol.. Its a complete money grab, you walk in that establishment and the women get in free for a reason, you are there so they can grab you by the legs and try to shake as much money out of you as quickly as possible..

Best bet is to get to know a promoter, get a group of girls and hit him up.. You could get a table and a couple bottles but you have to understand the dynamics (what nights are popping, how hot are the girls, how do you move if you get bumped, etc.) This side of game will show you how beautiful women is like a type of currency also, like I was given table and a bottle for no reason than managing a group of girls thru text and not spending a dollar.. Meanwhile NFL bro is running up 5 figure tabs.. sheesh..