Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

Read my text convo on the previous page breh

Sent from royalty breh

its funny because women can talk that "if hes handling everything hes supposed to, she wont even think about stepping out on him" but when they text and chat with their friends/potential flings on the low, theres a whole 'nother story. its something like, they cant believe that they left someone who was good to them and now they want them back, they now realize that theyve made a mistake in not choosing them and passing them up (only once they see the boy shinning), they think so and so is really special outside of her current relationship, or, dont tell my husband/boyfriend/fiance because I "love" them but I want to be with you, etc.

theres no logic, and a lot of times theres no set rules they live by. so dont expect it. you have to realize when you approach a woman in her current situation, and youre trying to find out what her next move is, her decision is not going to be based on logic but on how she feels. and that, is one to grow on.

 

[George Gooney]

What was your response breh?

 

[CASHAPP]

What was your response breh?

I doubt he responded

 

[sixsixtwo]

What was your response breh?

That actually was a tweet/screencap on my timeline, it wasn't sent to me..

 

[Turbulent]

another chess post that could be related to women.

Have any of y'all ever played a game against someone in person and you already have it in your mind that they're way better than you. so at some point during the game they make a questionable move where you could take his rook or whatever. now you keep thinking "what the fukk is your ulterior motive? what the fukk am i not seeing?" so you don' take it and make another move instead. they end up winning the game and at the end you ask them "why did you make that move in the middle of the game? and they tell you "just a blunder i made, you should have taken my rook..."


trying to figure out what someone is thinking with certainty can mess with your mind and make you second guess yourself. Instead, it's better to analyze the move the other person made, try to see threats to your own interest and only possibilities of why they could have made that move. Trust in your system and preperation (your principles). once you see no threats, fukk what they were thinking cause as you can see, it's not always logically sound. if you detect no threat after a thorough analysis, assume it's an opportunity and seize it. if it's some deep game your opponent is playing on you that you just didn't see, then it's something new you'll learn.


same thing with women (and people in general). don't try to guess why they did XYZ or reading their mind. just worry about potential possibilities of why they did it without trying to pinpoint it. once you do that you stick to your principles and act accordingly. doesn't mean you won't still get burned somehow from time to time (get used, cheated on, etc). but if you do, that's just another pattern or threat that you learned and have paid the cost to learn for your next chess game/relationship. it's a way to perfect your system of principles. but trying to figure out with absolute certainty what she's thinking, you'll go insane, second guess yourself and be paralyzed (and they'll capitalize on that).

 

[Jahmal]

Yeah, but I'm 21 nikka how old are you? Lol.

Yeah but does it work for you? Or do you ever feel like you're missing out?

If you are dealing with women in the 20-24 age range all you have to do is invite her over your place for a movie and drinks. i did that all through out college and it worked like a charm.

 

[MikelArteta]

godson mom back with the liar cheater baby dad

 

[CASHAPP]

godson mom back with the liar cheater baby dad

maybe they have an open relationship

 

[sixsixtwo]

Last night was a night of firsts! : TwoXChromosomes

 

[PHamm]

What I want you cats to understand is that the need for most women to satisfy their appetite for attention and to procure a cure for their boredom is much greater than any notions to honor duty or to remain loyal. Women find those elements even greater than 'securing a future'. Only until she has hit rock bottom does she start to value security as greater than her need to be entertain and paid attention to, and once she has that 'locked in' in her mind, then she goes right back to seeking attention and entertainment.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

So true, on the radio this brotha was saying that he once told his long term girlfriend he was sexually molested as a child. She was sympathetic at first, but when they broke up she threw it back in his face and used it to taunt him.

There's some things that just shouldn't be said to anybody unless you're talking to a professional. I've been burnt in the past that way (not no sexual molestation ) and have learned the hard way that people just can't be trusted and you should never get too comfortable with anybody unless maybe your mother.

I've learned along time ago that you can't bring your problems to your girl.....I don't care how much you two love each other. You end up looking weak and/or she throws it back in your face. That's her job to complain and bytch and have problems.......You're the leader and you're on your own.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Thats the truth. The more emotional you are as a man,the less your power.Its ok to voice a concern every now and then but if you complaning and whining its gonna cost you eventually.We men are the leaders and we lead thru LOGIC not EMOTION.

 

[TRUEST]

I've learned along time ago that you can't bring your problems to your girl.....I don't care how much you two love each other. You end up looking weak and/or she throws it back in your face. That's her job to complain and bytch and have problems.......You're the leader and you're on your own.

i've always said this. what makes a man a man is being able to do that which the opposite sex cannot. women cant bottle up their emotions and handle their problems. they have to talk about it, ask this person and that person for his or her opinion. as a man, u cant do that. at least not with ur woman. u cant bring ur problems to her. thats what u have friends for (good friends, not them backstabbing ones). thats what u have your momma for, your sisters for.

if u had a bad day at work, go to a gadamn bar. or go do something else to get ur mind off it. if ur woman ask u whats wrong, tell her its just some things you goto handle. what is it? tell her dont worry about it sweety. i'll handle it. ud be suprised at how mannerisms, and the way you respond to questions can easily turn on a woman or make her regard u with high esteem.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

i've always said this. what makes a man a man is being able to that which the opposite sex cannot. women cant bottle up their emotions and handle their problems. they have to talk about it, ask this person and that person for his or her opinion. as a man, u cant do that. at least not with ur woman. u cant bring ur problems to her. thats what u have friends for (good friends, not them backstabbing ones). thats what u have your momma for, your sisters for.

if u had a bad day at work, go to a gadamn bar. or go do something else to get ur mind off it. if ur woman ask u whats wrong, tell her its just some things you goto handle. what is it? tell her dont worry about it sweety. i'll handle it. ud be suprised at how mannerisms, and the way you respond to questions can easily turn on a woman or make her regard u with high esteem.

So true..

I truly realized I lost a relationship being too emo of a nikka......It took me years later after more experience with women and an episode of the Sopranos to realize what I did wrong. (Specifically this scene (where Tony in his dream picks up the phone and just hangs it up realizing he can't bring his problems to his wife (because he just can't involve them with the life) and he can't bring problems to his crew (because he'll look weak))

You can truly diminish any attraction she has for you by not holding yourself together, telling her your problems, complaining, shyt like that. Even if you don't you should act and appear like you do. Otherwise she'll be cheating on you and telling some nikka she's fukking how much of a p*ssy you are. lol I've heard it from chicks I was fukking who had boyfriends. lol


Looking back, I wish I never had to learn so much through trial and error......had someone just told me these things before and when I started dating I would have been a lot better off. I'm 26 and I'm still young but man, my late teens and early 20s were rough at times. This thread is truly a gem.