Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

saw the most gorgeous South Asian woman running yesterday, like full sprinting on a walking path, with me, she had to like hold her bra.

No way to talk to her in that moment, but would love to see her again.

On the "low effort" that's one of those trend words that came from like a famous Tik Tok or instagram reels or something. One of those terms that can be applied in any situation, without real context, like you can just throw it anywhere. People's analysis and reflection are shot, largely because of social media. what most of these words are trying to do is optimize (one of American's favorite concepts) the dating process even further, as in don't waste any time. He's busy this week? Low Effort! Next! It doesn't allow for like an actual connection or the normal awkwardness of human interaction.

One of the naive delusions, that I had for years, and still hold, especially when it comes to dating (this would be projection of my own values) was that people were making deliberative, thoughtful, reflective, well informed decisions about things.

so, for example, the first time someone ghosted me, I took it like this person gave a lot of thought to this, ran down all the scenarios, and decided they never wanted to see me again LOL. We are still in touch 10 years later.

 

[Ahadi]

Temptation is a bish, this Indian girl at the gym I go to is about 5'11", I always see her when I am hooping while she stretches. I would love to smash. She is 5'11", C to d cups, slim upper body and big natural booty and thighs...shyt is ridiculous. I wanna speak to her badly but I am in a relationship. My boy was like she was definitely looking at you lol. I rarely ever desire to be with an indian woman but I would definitely have piped her .

Talk to her. You should not let those social muscles go to waste.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

One of my acquaintances is going through a dilemma with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend talks to women outside of their relationship. He texts them but always tells her about them reaching out. But he continues the text conversations

He has a friend who has an ex girlfriend. I guess they were friends while his boy was in that relationship. He is now still in communication with her. I told my acquaintance straight up that he doesn't respect her or the relationship and she either has to block him or start talking to other guys. I've been in her shoes before. Waiting for confirmation that my girl was cheating even though red flags were always there

Waiting and having hope before it gets exposed is what hurts the most. I know very well myself. Was I right for telling her what I did?

 

[The ADD]

One of my acquaintances is going through a dilemma with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend talks to women outside of their relationship. He texts them but always tells her about them reaching out. But he continues the text conversations

He has a friend who has an ex girlfriend. I guess they were friends while his boy was in that relationship. He is now still in communication with her. I told my acquaintance straight up that he doesn't respect her or the relationship and she either has to block him or start talking to other guys. I've been in her shoes before. Waiting for confirmation that my girl was cheating even though red flags were always there

Waiting and having hope before it gets exposed is what hurts the most. I know very well myself. Was I right for telling her what I did?

What’s the difference in her talking to you and him talking to these chicks?

 

[Forsaken]

One of my acquaintances is going through a dilemma with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend talks to women outside of their relationship. He texts them but always tells her about them reaching out. But he continues the text conversations

He has a friend who has an ex girlfriend. I guess they were friends while his boy was in that relationship. He is now still in communication with her. I told my acquaintance straight up that he doesn't respect her or the relationship and she either has to block him or start talking to other guys. I've been in her shoes before. Waiting for confirmation that my girl was cheating even though red flags were always there

Waiting and having hope before it gets exposed is what hurts the most. I know very well myself. Was I right for telling her what I did?

Does your friend talk to dudes outside of their relationship? Clearly she does since she talks to you.

 

[Forsaken]

What’s the difference in her talking to you and him talking to these chicks?

Beat me to it. This chick telling next man all her problems.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

What’s the difference in her talking to you and him talking to these chicks?

I work with her


I'd put a baby in her and she's called me beautiful before and asked someone else If I'm single. But I work with her



One of the male OGs there told me to never mix your job with your dating life

I can already sense shyt happening. I get so much attention now that I'm making conversation with everyone. So much so that when certain female coworkers see me talking to any other female their energy changes. Facial expressions body language all that

Overheard this one homegirl saying she likes me the other day. Yesterday she saw me walking with a female coworker talking. She was sitting behind me and her. As we had distance from her and reached the door, the sitting girl ask another coworker "does he like her?"


And this is one of many women I work with. It's overwhelming. I hear shyt I've never heard before daily. I've never been called hot before


But yea its different between us because we don't talk all the time. I don't even have her number. She's just a cool coworker. If someone is chill and genuine I vibe with them male or female. And I'm just a caring nikka I always try to give good advice especially if it's for shyt I've been through

Was it good advice?


I feel like it might've been harsh and hard for her to hear

 

[The ADD]

I work with her


I'd put a baby in her and she's called me beautiful before and asked someone else If I'm single. But I work with her



One of the male OGs there told me to never mix your job with your dating life

I can already sense shyt happening. I get so much attention now that I'm making conversation with everyone. So much so that when certain female coworkers see me talking to any other female their energy changes. Facial expressions body language all that

Overheard this one homegirl saying she likes me the other day. Yesterday she saw me walking with a female coworker talking. She was sitting behind me and her. As we had distance from her and reached the door, the sitting girl ask another coworker "does he like her?"


And this is one of many women I work with. It's overwhelming. I hear shyt I've never heard before daily. I've never been called hot before


But yea its different between us because we don't talk all the time. I don't even have her number. She's just a cool coworker. If someone is chill and genuine I vibe with them male or female

Sounds like she’s doing the same as dude……

 

[Ohene]

I work with her


I'd put a baby in her and she's called me beautiful before and asked someone else If I'm single. But I work with her



One of the male OGs there told me to never mix your job with your dating life

I can already sense shyt happening. I get so much attention now that I'm making conversation with everyone. So much so that when certain female coworkers see me talking to any other female their energy changes. Facial expressions body language all that

Overheard this one homegirl saying she likes me the other day. Yesterday she saw me walking with a female coworker talking. She was sitting behind me and her. As we had distance from her and reached the door, the sitting girl ask another coworker "does he like her?"


And this is one of many women I work with. It's overwhelming. I hear shyt I've never heard before daily. I've never been called hot before


But yea its different between us because we don't talk all the time. I don't even have her number. She's just a cool coworker. If someone is chill and genuine I vibe with them male or female. And I'm just a caring nikka I always try to give good advice especially if it's for shyt I've been through

Was it good advice?

Bro look at what you wrote

She said you’re beautiful and asked if youre single but shes the one being disrespected in her relationship?

nikkas really be coddling these bytches

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Sounds like she’s doing the same as dude……

If she is she's probably doing it because of what he's doing. And she didn't even want to tell me everything he's done. But yea I just wanted to know if what I told her was too harsh. The other shyt isn't really my business. I'm on some homie shyt

 

[The ADD]

If she is she's probably doing it because of what he's doing. And she didn't even want to tell me everything he's done. But yea I just wanted to know if what I told her was too harsh. The other shyt isn't really my business. I'm on some homie shyt

Sounds like she’s got you fooled.

Harsh, no but she knows the deal. If she’s that violated and needs an acquaintance to advise her she’s not to bright.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Bro look at what you wrote

She said you’re beautiful and asked if youre single but shes the one being disrespected in her relationship?

nikkas really be coddling these bytches

It's not like she was tryna talk to me. It was more like "how is he single?". But like I said, she's been going through this shyt for a while. If she is talking to other guys I don't blame her

If I could go back 5 years ago I would've started talking to other girls after the shady shyt my ex did instead of waiting months holding out hope. I really would've blocked her. Can't gaslight yourself into staying with someone who doesn't want you. She's legit invested into this nikka. She showed me his picture and tried to say he was ugly. But ended up saying the opposite. Just in her feelings about the shyt

 

[Ohene]

If she is she's probably doing it because of what he's doing. And she didn't even want to tell me everything he's done. But yea I just wanted to know if what I told her was too harsh. The other shyt isn't really my business. I'm on some homie shyt

Ladies and gentlemen
If you were ever wondering why these chicks act infallible…here you go

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Sounds like she’s got you fooled.

Harsh, no but she knows the deal. If she’s that violated and needs an acquaintance to advise her she’s not to bright.

When it comes to love and emotions even the smartest person can be unsure and not move right in a relationship. Trust me I know

Especially when someone doesn't have that much dating experience. We not here to talk about her tho

 

[Ohene]

It's not like she was tryna talk to me. It was more like "how is he single?". But like I said, she's been going through this shyt for a while. If she is talking to other guys I don't blame her

If I could go back 5 years ago I would've started talking to other girls after the shady shyt my ex did instead of waiting months holding out hope. I really would've blocked her. Can't gaslight yourself into staying with someone who doesn't want you. She's legit invested into this nikka. She showed me his picture and tried to say he was ugly. But ended up saying the opposite. Just in her feelings about the shyt

Bro I ain’t denying that homie may be on some fukk shyt. He might be

But it doesnt mean she isnt doing anything wrong and its not fair for you to assume the reason shes acting up is because of shyt he did. Thats coddling 101. come on fam

And to be honest, kudos to her man. Nothing wrong with a man keeping around some backups/satellites because women are liable to leave us at the drop of a dime with nothing. And when they do, best believe they got multiple dudes they can call on for some dikk, attention, etc.