Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

Agreed there’s tons of marketing involved in dating. It’s part of the reason why I’ve learned to not be weird or to make an effort to dress much more conservative. I even cut my dreads cause they weren’t 100% neatly done all the time and if Im really going out I’ll most likely just cover my tattoos now. Women will judge constantly

 

[Ohene]

Those Muslim dudes on to something

 

[WIA20XX]

Indian dude talks about a potential arranged marriage -

 

[Ohene]

Agreed there’s tons of marketing involved in dating. It’s part of the reason why I’ve learned to not be weird or to make an effort to dress much more conservative. I even cut my dreads cause they weren’t 100% neatly done all the time and if Im really going out I’ll most likely just cover my tattoos now. Women will judge constantly

I actually touch on this in chapter one of my book. i get what hes saying but men dont market themselves, we are the buyers.

Women are the suppliers and thus have to market themselves. Think about it. Women are the ones who just sit there and wait for us to approach…akin to a box of cereal sitting on a shelf waiting to be bought.

The only difference between great value cereal and kellog corn flakes is the packaging, and marketing that increases the brand perception. Men just have to be able to “afford” the woman

 

[Ohene]

Indian dude talks about a potential arranged marriage -

these girls love using that pregnancy shyt as a trump card
fukk outta here with that.

 

[Rasille]

Women tend to chase men once they’ve established something with the man she likes (relationship, time, marriage etc) if as a man you’re pressing a woman over these things then you may like her more than she likes you.

 

[Braman]

When you get the # and things are going smooth texting then she says ‘call me’

How do y’all do it brehs?!? I fukking HATE talking on the phone. And chicks get so hooked with that shyt. Be on the phone fukin chit chattin dry af suck the life out your day /rant

 

[Rasille]

I don’t mind talking on the phone. It’s all apart of the getting to know stage, it’s the ones that will ignore your text and straight up call you and only want to communicate via phone calls that are annoying.

 

[Ahadi]

When you get the # and things are going smooth texting then she says ‘call me’

How do y’all do it brehs?!? I fukking HATE talking on the phone. And chicks get so hooked with that shyt. Be on the phone fukin chit chattin dry af suck the life out your day /rant

Talk for about 2-3 mins, then as she laughs hard, say you gotta go, but I’d like to connect with you over a drink / ice cream, etc, on (insert day)

 

[skyrunner1]

When you get the # and things are going smooth texting then she says ‘call me’

How do y’all do it brehs?!? I fukking HATE talking on the phone. And chicks get so hooked with that shyt. Be on the phone fukin chit chattin dry af suck the life out your day /rant

Breh, talking on the phone used to be my secret weapon, I developed since party line days (being a teen talkin to women all over the city workin on my mouth piece u.o.e.n.o.) I could get a girl wiiiide open on the phone in 1-2 convos, its crazy the advantage it used to be.. I rarely want to use it now because it sets a bad precedence and its such a focus driven medium that as I get older I dont got time to talk on the phone with you like we teenie boopers..

IIIF its a woman I have high interest in and I want to lock in with some auditory/mental stimulation, I limit to one convo, I can get everything I need in 30-1hr and then set up in person asap. After that its all text, fukk that..

Ex: Most recent, had a friend who had a friend coming into town to go to concert down here from Orlando area. She is tied up with new covid kid now so she cant hang out. She put her friend on me say I can show her the city, yada yada. I say cool, shoot me her number, Im goin to call her. She is 26 and in that age range where all she does is text. Im like just to break ice.. I get number and text for a bit to kill days between and when it gets closer then I call her, we talk and its cool. She mentions how she didnt want to talk but happy she did because it makes it easier and now she feel more comfortable meeting (NO shyt).. She comes down, we meet at rooftop spot to tootsies back to her place.

Also want to add Disclaimer, talking on phone aint gonna seal deal or anything. That can only happen in person, but if you can conversate well it can be a tool you use to your advantage, if not, dont use it. If there is one thing I can say with full confidence is I am beast on phone and it has done me well but for reasons stated even I limit its use. Facetime even more..

 

[Braman]

Breh, talking on the phone used to be my secret weapon, I developed since party line days (being a teen talkin to women all over the city workin on my mouth piece u.o.e.n.o.) I could get a girl wiiiide open on the phone in 1-2 convos, its crazy the advantage it used to be.. I rarely want to use it now because it sets a bad precedence and its such a focus driven medium that as I get older I dont got time to talk on the phone with you like we teenie boopers..

IIIF its a woman I have high interest in and I want to lock in with some auditory/mental stimulation, I limit to one convo, I can get everything I need in 30-1hr and then set up in person asap. After that its all text, fukk that..

This

To your 2nd poin I used to think like that ‘I’ll use the phone to get her’, but almost without fail after I smash and get in there it’s ‘we used to talk all the time I miss that’

So that’s why I don’t even do that anymore. That shyt is like crack to women

 

[MikelArteta]

I actually touch on this in chapter one of my book. i get what hes saying but men dont market themselves, we are the buyers.

Women are the suppliers and thus have to market themselves. Think about it. Women are the ones who just sit there and wait for us to approach…akin to a box of cereal sitting on a shelf waiting to be bought.

The only difference between great value cereal and kellog corn flakes is the packaging, and marketing that increases the brand perception. Men just have to be able to “afford” the woman

 

[skyrunner1]

This

To your 2nd poin I used to think like that ‘I’ll use the phone to get her’, but almost without fail after I smash and get in there it’s ‘we used to talk all the time I miss that’

So that’s why I don’t even do that anymore. That shyt is like crack to women

Exactly, you know what it is. Its such a great way to set a baseline early and get real info to compare later in person. ( I swear women will rather tell a stranger their deepest secrets and thoughts before someone they know)

 

[Apollo Creed]

These hoes conversation skills man. I been ghosting so many convos from these basic responses like it's Q&A vs actually conversing.

 

[Braman]

Exactly, you know what it is. Its such a great way to set a baseline early and get real info to compare later in person. ( I swear women will rather tell a stranger their deepest secrets and thoughts before someone they know)

A gem. You will get some of the most pertinent info on a woman in the beginning. Bc feelings (and/or pipe game) aren’t involved yet and the fear of judgement isn’t there