Already knocked one down…..
Nah at the airport lol
In Dubai for two days then Uganda then Rwanda then Kenya
Just saying in general travel
See the world
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Nah at the airport lol
In Dubai for two days then Uganda then Rwanda then Kenya
Just saying in general travel
See the world
I expect results young fella
lol breh I almost married a nigerian, like the last 5 women I've semi dated were in no specific order, nigerian, ghananian, zimbawbean, south african, ugandan
I always seem to canoodle and cavort with africans
but nah ain't bringing anyone home or nothing of the sort. I'ma enjoy my time and that's it. Using a fake name and even have a backup iphone 6with a uk sim that I thought was expired for my whatsapp.
copped tinder gold for 15 bucks and have over 1,300 matches in a week with 260 waiting but too lazy to go through any more profiles
You just like me for real
I’m Zimbabwean and I’ve dated Ghanaian, South African and Ugandan women as well as Senegalese and Cameroonian women. Dark skinned West African women are particularly amazing tbh
Zim women can be pretty and easy to get along with. Like any group of women, just gotta choose right. You ever been to Zim or Nah?
Happy hunting and good luck, mngani wami / shamwari yangu
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
I always get matches on dating apps. All my photos look professional because I’m a photographer as a side gig
I was the same with hinge in cape town. 148 matches/likes atm.
Got about 30 south african whatsapp numbers for when i go back lol.
Women overseas > domestic hoes.
One of my boys, was keeping me in constant (unsolicited!) updates about his date last night, was trying to guide him about women in their 20's,
he told me she was like 40 minutes late to meet (for essentially a first date) and called and asked if he could pick her up a bottle of water
I was like that has to be a Tik Tok thing or something lol that one cracked me up
he told me she was like 40 minutes late to meet (for essentially a first date) and called and asked if he could pick her up a bottle of water
I was like that has to be a Tik Tok thing or something lol that one cracked me up
VertigoKnight
Veteran
40 mins late? And she asked for him to get her something on top of that?
I abhor lateness, especially for a first date, shows a complete lack of respect.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Why not just go home?
told him a 15 minute grace period is reasonable, but after 30, weigh the sunken cost/spent cost. You are already there, ready to go, what's another 15 minutes, really, leaving early to prove some obscure point, to me, is too much.
there are cultural dynamics at work, partially, he understands that she is testing him, on some level. They had already met in person, and had some physical intimacy, so it wasn't like a dating app meetup.
Respecting yourself is important, but I also think you have to analyze the other person, and my thinking is if you can end up having a good/great night, then that little period of waiting is just a minor incident, and then you have a good memory/experience to balance that with, and potentially a new contact.
Digital Omen
All Star
This is the same principle when they give you their number (or go as far as dialing it on my phone in front of me so I know it's not fake and she has my number now) and then when I reach out it's the ghost.
Why give it to me in the first place? I can handle rejection. Just say no thanks and we can both KIM.
It's jut the ego trip of "I gave him my number and a glimmer of hope and then ghost. I win!"
Part of maturity to me, is understanding, and seeing the whole situation from above, and making a deliberative decision. And the good thing about dating is that there isn't much at stake, to me. It's not life or death. It's not a situation where you need to be so on guard or like Heat, so I weigh it from a place of what does this really cost me? And what are really the stakes?
But, I think a lot of people play it way more seriously, and emotionally. So, like being late might be viewed as intense personal disrespect, when it's more of a cultural plus personality trait, plus just people's different responses to scheduling and stress. I can be like military precise with time, but I don't hold dates to that standard.
But, I think a lot of people play it way more seriously, and emotionally. So, like being late might be viewed as intense personal disrespect, when it's more of a cultural plus personality trait, plus just people's different responses to scheduling and stress. I can be like military precise with time, but I don't hold dates to that standard.
This is the same principle when they give you their number (or go as far as dialing it on my phone in front of me so I know it's not fake and she has my number now) and then when I reach out it's the ghost.
Why give it to me in the first place? I can handle rejection. Just say no thanks and we can both KIM.
It's jut the ego trip of "I gave him my number and a glimmer of hope and then ghost. I win!"
Happened to me this month, and was disappointing, because I sincerely want to go have dinner with this person, at this dope spot, and if I was reading her body language, our interactions, I would say that she did too.
It's not always as intentional, or ego based, as I think it feels like, I think it's more what I would call situational emotionality, how they felt in the moment they made the plan vs the moment they saw the text.
And I try to take it pretty far, in the in person, like I'm going to text you, but do you actually want to go? But, you can only go so far with that, without coming off a bit insecure, but for me, like you said, it's more about why go through a pointless ritual (number exchange) for no reason? Just tell me to fukk off, I won't take it personally. But don't make me text you for no purpose.