You will be asking the same questions in 5 months and you don’t seem like you want to help her. Let someone else benefit.
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
Digital Omen
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It all boils down to whether you have the patience and desire to guide her to a better place. You have to want it.
Heard this back in the day in pimp language but it applies to all women: "a woman without instruction is headed for self-destruction"
You said yourself she's a good woman by your standards. Do you want to lose her and be back out here dealing with the garbage ? I was taught if you have a good woman do everything within your means to keep her. As other brehs have mentioned her behavior is par for the course. Majority of women (and men) are insecure, low self esteem, and ready to give up on life.
Trust there's 10 men behind you who will happily scoop her up and get her mind right via affirmation talks, compliments, positive attitude, and being a guiding light in this sea of negativity and social media bullshyt we live in. But you have to want to be that because it takes time and effort.
shyt embarrassing really, I be like, “if she was real fine then I wouldn’t be so mad, but since she’s not, I’m even madder.”
Chick wouldn’t leave me alone and I allowed her to stay, so fukkin stupid.
Luckily no
what's your objective?Seems like the joint who I mutually broke it off with, is always looking at my stories
Advice?
Digital Omen
All Star
No matter how fine she is, some dude somewhere is sick of her shyt
Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
She just reposted a TikTok to her page talking about how a strong, independent woman needs an alpha male, a real man who doesn't want a submissive woman.I'm not saying y'all need to stalk a woman's social media, but the things she posts tells you exactly who she is. Especially if she's reposting TikToks or short videos about relationships and the videos be about toxic shyt like sleeping around until they're given a title in relationship
These females be telling you they're for the streets without even realizing it.
If she's a narcissist her social media will make it very clear as well.
Also if you've been dating her she might start posting subliminal messages directed at you.
My FWB is always posting on her socials that she has a hard time finding a man that's at as high a level as her, that men are intimidated by her, and she reposted a vid that said if a man is tired of a woman acting single, then he needs to put a ring on it
The whole reason I put her in the "sex only" zone is because it's clear as day that she's not relationship material.
Some dudes commented on her shyt saying stuff about there's nothing they like more than having a submissive woman. She replied, "the opposite of me
"And yet she complains about being single. Every day she posts more and more absurd videos and statuses to her socials
Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
Seems like the joint who I mutually broke it off with, is always looking at my stories
Advice?
I hate to break it to you, but she's not specifically looking for you or your stories.
Whenever you log into Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram etc, all the stories are lined up at the top of the page. So she's just scrolling through a bunch of stories as many of us do. Even if she swiped past your story for 0.2 seconds it still counts as her viewing your story.
If she interacts with it such as leaving heart emojis, commenting or replying then yeah it's likely she wants you
She just reposted a TikTok to her page talking about how a strong, independent woman needs an alpha male, a real man who doesn't want a submissive woman.
Some dudes commented on her shyt saying stuff about there's nothing they like more than having a submissive woman. She replied, "the opposite of me
And yet she complains about being single. Every day she posts more and more absurd videos and statuses to her socials
Lot of these women are victims bro...
To keep it a buck, we benefit of their dysfunction whether we want to admit to it or not
