Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Some are miserable and some genuinely giving you advice based on what you’re telling them. This is the human experience- we all not pimps and playboys (hence why we all in this thread asking questions and advice)

I get that deleting your account on this site is easier said than done (this site server is still dog shyt btw) but you can’t really argue about a thread you are choosing to still engage with

men rarely have a outlet so it won't be all sugar

 

[MikelArteta]

It’s all aggression when dealing with apps. Old rules of taking it slow are dead, bc another more aggressive ngga gon get her.

Go on a date immedtely, go for a kiss immediately, hold hands, invite her over after the first date. I’d rather lose a chick over goin too hard than play it cool and she vanish.

And yea I’m tight

nah you just have to meet up fast. If a woman really wants you no other man can compare if she doesn't well.

 

[Braman]

Being aggressive doesn't necessarily mean sweating her...

Speaking in nuances

It's not about putting anyone on a pedestal as it is realizing that I can't "coast" thru the date as if she was a female who I'm clearly of a higher "catch" than she is

That depends on the particular female and what you feel the amount of boxes she checks

Said it without me needing to explain. All of this.

Word to @A Pimp Named Slickback Some of us have different end games. That ‘If she feelin me, she feelin me, ima just be me’ man I did that in my 20s.

You always be yourself but any chick that’s upper echelon then you gon have to let her know you on her. **assuming she’s reciprocating**… Every gf I’ve ever had I was the aggressor and pressed her line. Im not worrying about playing it cool bc that balance of power is always gon flip back around especially when you pipe her proper, or be on the phone with her, etc. Then you can’t get rid of her if you wanted

 

[Mastamimd]

This is how it ended kinda

 

[The ADD]

This is how it ended kinda

Did you sleep with her?

 

[Mastamimd]

Did you sleep with her?

No.

 

[re'up]

To me, any of that kind of reassurance (for both parties) based texting is weak, and unhealthy, forms a fake "bond"

don't want anything to do with that

just text when you have something real to say or ask, or invite

can't believe grown adults are tucking each other in at night like little kids and parents, but texting has made everyone anxious wrecks.

better to get ghosted on an actual ask or invite, rather than some bullshyt goodnight text.

 

[The ADD]

No.

Woof

 

[Mastamimd]

Woof

Yeah. Time to fall back

 

[re'up]

People will ghost for any reason, but generally people know what they are doing

People have in general downgraded the ability to communicate even basic stuff, and also ghosting allows the door to be open, while they check out someone else.

but, don't hang all your dating/sexual aspirations on a goodnight text!

 

[The ADD]

Yeah. Time to fall back

No offense but she’s already did that to you

 

[Mastamimd]

No offense but she’s already did that to you

Facts are facts

 

[Ahadi]

What is everyone’s end goal?

@Braman

 

[Braman]

What is everyone’s end goal?

@Braman

What you mean?

 

[rabbid]

I repeat, none of the gems in here put me in this position I'm at in life right now

I'm living well. Find positive male role models in your personal life

This thread is a venting board. It's not the best advice forum. Choose wisely

ur celebrating 2 months. There's no way you're anywhere close to a pimp lol