Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Braman

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It’s all aggression when dealing with apps. Old rules of taking it slow are dead, bc another more aggressive ngga gon get her.

Go on a date immedtely, go for a kiss immediately, hold hands, invite her over after the first date. I’d rather lose a chick over goin too hard than play it cool and she vanish.

And yea I’m tight :sadcam:
 

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It’s all aggression when dealing with apps. Old rules of taking it slow are dead, bc another more aggressive ngga gon get her.

Go on a date immedtely, go for a kiss immediately, hold hands, invite her over after the first date. I’d rather lose a chick over goin too hard than play it cool and she vanish.

And yea I’m tight :sadcam:
same exact thing happened to me a few hrs ago.

I’m the opposite. I rather lose a chick by playing it cool than be over aggressive.

Let another nikka sweat her. Either I’m not the nikka she bustin’ it open for off rip or she’s a deer in the headlights when it comes to affection.
 

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same exact thing happened to me a few hrs ago.

I’m the opposite. I rather lose a chick by playing it cool than be over aggressive.

Let another nikka sweat her. Either I’m not the nikka she bustin’ it open for off rip or she’s a deer in the headlights when it comes to affection.

Being aggressive doesn't necessarily mean sweating her...

Speaking in nuances

It's not about putting anyone on a pedestal as it is realizing that I can't "coast" thru the date as if she was a female who I'm clearly of a higher "catch" than she is

That depends on the particular female and what you feel the amount of boxes she checks
 

A Pimp Named Slickback

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2 months fukk it

I met her family. They approve of ya boy
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None of the gems in here helped me get to this point. And I can't give yall the real gems for free

Pimp the game brehs. Don't play it
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I repeat, none of the gems in here put me in this position I'm at in life right now

I'm living well. Find positive male role models in your personal life

This thread is a venting board. It's not the best advice forum. Choose wisely
 

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And that point is why I'm distancing myself from The Coli. Misery loves company

The Coli is a tool just like YouTube is a tool. The community on here....you know what it is
You're the one coming here and talking down the thread though?

If you don't like it and it's of no value why do you keep coming back?
 

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There's a math formula that someone better at graphs and statistics could put together

but if you are talking app based the actual time between "meeting" and date is probably on average LONGER than in person, or 20 years ago, people wait for days of social media "liking" and "following" and then "talking" and THEN go out

but the rate of "meeting" people is so much higher, that is creates that affect, for example, if you are "talking" to just say 7 people at one time, at any given day, there's going to be the point in the cycle where you meet, even if it's been a week since you matched

and it is real, in a sense, because everyone knows how many options there are, and if you don't make an impression, whatever it may be, you are both just one to the next one.
 

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And that point is why I'm distancing myself from The Coli. Misery loves company

The Coli is a tool just like YouTube is a tool. The community on here....you know what it is
Some are miserable and some genuinely giving you advice based on what you’re telling them. This is the human experience- we all not pimps and playboys (hence why we all in this thread asking questions and advice)

I get that deleting your account on this site is easier said than done (this site server is still dog shyt btw) but you can’t really argue about a thread you are choosing to still engage with
 
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