Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

one of my boys was just complaining this week that someone he keeps taking out, isn't sleeping with him

It's not an easy convo to have, but I told him, just have that conversation, instead of being stuck in a loop of mutually frustrating expectations

part of this is all wrapped up in weird gender norms, but also food, the idea of dinners, and this formal, ritualistic approach to sex. The best way to organically get close to someone is to spend an hour or three, whatever, somewhere private, talking. You can add music, or light food and drinks, but keep the focus on just connection, without all the pretenses of dinner dates.

so much of these norms that may be discussed and analyzed on twitter or in private group chats, aren't talked about directly, between the people.

lol if bytch don't want to be around him anywhere money isn't involved she aint tryna fukk.

 

[Brandsdale]

one of my boys was just complaining this week that someone he keeps taking out, isn't sleeping with him

It's not an easy convo to have, but I told him, just have that conversation, instead of being stuck in a loop of mutually frustrating expectations

part of this is all wrapped up in weird gender norms, but also food, the idea of dinners, and this formal, ritualistic approach to sex. The best way to organically get close to someone is to spend an hour or three, whatever, somewhere private, talking. You can add music, or light food and drinks, but keep the focus on just connection, without all the pretenses of dinner dates.

so much of these norms that may be discussed and analyzed on twitter or in private group chats, aren't talked about directly, between the people.

just tell him to invite the bytch over. If she keeps declining then you can kinda make the assumption she not really into him

 

[The ADD]

just tell him to invite the bytch over. If she keeps declining then you can kinda make the assumption she not really into him

Should have started with that plan

 

[Ahadi]

She isn't necessarily lying DEPENDING on how her roster looks...

They always fukking somebody

 

[Ahadi]

one of my boys was just complaining this week that someone he keeps taking out, isn't sleeping with him

It's not an easy convo to have, but I told him, just have that conversation, instead of being stuck in a loop of mutually frustrating expectations

part of this is all wrapped up in weird gender norms, but also food, the idea of dinners, and this formal, ritualistic approach to sex. The best way to organically get close to someone is to spend an hour or three, whatever, somewhere private, talking. You can add music, or light food and drinks, but keep the focus on just connection, without all the pretenses of dinner dates.

so much of these norms that may be discussed and analyzed on twitter or in private group chats, aren't talked about directly, between the people.

No, she just didn’t like him like that lol.

“Waiting for some magical night to happen”



We’re going out twice (small investment dates) , if I don’t pop, I’m done.

For the 3rd date she better be Draya or somebody badder.

No reason to shell out cash, when the next man got it for free / $20

 

[re'up]

That may be somewhat true, but bottle service types don't do $20 dates. They may fukk someone after a long night of coke and drinking, but they will laugh at anyone coming at them with a $20 date. Maybe the hookah lounge, but that's a $200 tab too.

Now, they will play the nerdier and thirstier guys for more money and play it straighter with us, but they aren't doing cheap shyt, at all. I have actually gotten away with it a few times, BUT the difference is they knew I had previously invited them expensive places.

This one, she just cut him out before he could do the same thing.

 

[Balla]

That may be somewhat true, but bottle service types don't do $20 dates. They may fukk someone after a long night of coke and drinking, but they will laugh at anyone coming at them with a $20 date. Maybe the hookah lounge, but that's a $200 tab too.

Now, they will play the nerdier and thirstier guys for more money and play it straighter with us, but they aren't doing cheap shyt, at all. I have actually gotten away with it a few times, BUT the difference is they knew I had previously invited them expensive places.

This one, she just cut him out before he could do the same thing.

I had to read that again and noticed you said bottle service girls.

Because I thought you meant all chicks and I was like, there’s no way anyone should be picking up $200 tabs for dates except for the wife, and even then that’s wild to do normally.

Yeah idk how them bottle girls get down

 

[Apollo Creed]

I had to read that again and noticed you said bottle service girls.

Because I thought you meant all chicks and I was like, there’s no way anyone should be picking up $200 tabs for dates except for the wife, and even then that’s wild to do normally.

Yeah idk how them bottle girls get down

Yeah idk dudes backgrounds but if you a corporate dude tryna date club hoes kill yourself lmfao

Them hoes are literally for “sale”

 

[Ahadi]

Yeah idk dudes backgrounds but if you a corporate dude tryna date club hoes kill yourself lmfao

Them hoes are literally for “sale”

Exactly. They’re in a “fast money” business. All it takes is someone with an Amex platinum or a centurion card to flash it in their face and their gone lol.

Strictly for entertainment brehs

I had to read that again and noticed you said bottle service girls.

Because I thought you meant all chicks and I was like, there’s no way anyone should be picking up $200 tabs for dates except for the wife, and even then that’s wild to do normally.

Yeah idk how them bottle girls get down

Every bottle girl ain’t demanding $200 tabs and even then, it seems like if they’re demanding that from you, then they don’t really like you like that.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Y’all ever holla at a woman off LinkedIn? I’m thinking of shooting my shot.

We’re both in IT and live in Atl

 

[The ADD]

Y’all ever holla at a woman off LinkedIn? I’m thinking of shooting my shot.

We’re both in IT and live in Atl

Dew it

 

[Apollo Creed]

Y’all ever holla at a woman off LinkedIn? I’m thinking of shooting my shot.

We’re both in IT and live in Atl

Ive seen chicks complain about it lol

 

[Ahadi]

Y’all ever holla at a woman off LinkedIn? I’m thinking of shooting my shot.

We’re both in IT and live in Atl

Only if she’s choosing & id get her number ASAP, don’t talk too much on the site.

It’s actually where I eat most these days.

 

[DJSmooth]

Y’all ever holla at a woman off LinkedIn? I’m thinking of shooting my shot.

We’re both in IT and live in Atl

I don't like women knowing what I do for a living until the middle of the first date.

 

[Ohene]

its women out here who expect you to be perfect. you must:

follow up the day of to confirm the plans
dress well
be well groomed
pick a good restaurant
open the door for them
pay for the bill
pick them up / drop them off or call an uber accordingly
be funny
be witty
have great conversation etc

these same women wont even show up or be ready for the date on time but expect all of the above
when you realize how lopsided the shyt is, all you can do is laugh and deject to some degree

let me add to this

its some women who wont even finish the meal you buy them