let me add to thisits women out here who expect you to be perfect. you must:
follow up the day of to confirm the plans
dress well
be well groomed
pick a good restaurant
open the door for them
pay for the bill
pick them up / drop them off or call an uber accordingly
be funny
be witty
have great conversation etc
these same women wont even show up or be ready for the date on time but expect all of the above
when you realize how lopsided the shyt is, all you can do is laugh and deject to some degree
its some women who wont even finish the meal you buy them
