Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Chrishaune]

It's crazy right? I've gone out with a couple women from my gym, they were white. I caught a little heat from my female friend about it. I just shrugged it off. I like women that take care of their bodies. If they happen to be white, oh well.

I'm not going to say black women don't work out. I have a sister and she's making bank with the IRS. She'd rather buy her equipment and have it in her house to work out whenever rather than go to a gym. She use to run track in school. They are out there bruh. A lot of women, in fact, have their workout gear at home.

I'm not saying you're doing it, but I don't like black men making stuff up about black women to have an excuse to date outside the race. I don't have no problems dating chicks of another race, but I'm not going to sit here and blame anything on black women. They have been too good to me to do that. Bruhs, just date who you want.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I'm not going to say black women don't work out. I have a sister and she's making bank with the IRS. She'd rather buy her equipment and have it in her house to work out whenever rather than go to a gym. She use to run track in school. They are out there bruh. A lot of women, in fact, have their workout gear at home.

I'm not saying you're doing it, but I don't like black men making stuff up about black women to have an excuse to date outside the race. I don't have no problems dating chicks of another race, but I'm not going to sit here and blame anything on black women. They have been too good to me to do that. Bruhs, just date who you want.

I hear you loud and clear. I was more interested in hearing some thoughts on why the numbers are off. I know you said that wasn't directed at me but it obviously was in some way because you quoted me. For the record, black women are my preference and always will be. However, I won't limit my dating pool. No excuses here fam. No need for them.

 

[George Gooney]

breh i dont even talk to women with any tattoos.

You're a legend breh You're a legend breh

 

[Malta]

Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone

He'll wake-up eventually.... maybe. It's tough and I see it too often with co-workers but hey that's on them. You can't teach anyone that isn't ready to receive your knowledge.

 

[MikelArteta]

You're a legend breh You're a legend breh

I don't have any tattoos so why should I?



Sent from royalty breh

 

[DaRealness]

Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone

I bet there's times he wants to walk out too, but because they have a kid it's not that easy and she knows this, hence why she's taking so many liberties. That shyt is extremely uncalled for. It's funny, because after my separation, when I've told people that I plan to remain celibate for a while and there's certain things I want to do with my life before I enter into another serious relationship like further my career and travel more, grow in knowledge, advance spiritually etc dudes are like while women always say shyt like "oh, but what if you meet a nice woman tomorrow are you just gonna turn her away" all defensively. It's almost as if they subconsciously feel threatened by the idea of any dude that wants to get his shyt together. There was another thread a while back with some posters saying single men who do them and remain bachelors are "selfish". That says it all.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you haven't read this yet
I advise every man to

http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

Sent from royalty breh

 

[Malta]

I bet there's times he wants to walk out too, but because they have a kid it's not that easy and she knows this, hence why she's taking so many liberties. That shyt is extremely uncalled for. It's funny, because after my separation, when I've told people that I plan to remain celibate for a while and there's certain things I want to do with my life before I enter into another serious relationship like further my career and travel more, grow in knowledge, advance spiritually etc dudes are like while women always say shyt like "oh, but what if you meet a nice woman tomorrow are you just gonna turn her away" all defensively. It's almost as if they subconsciously feel threatened by the idea of any dude that wants to get his shyt together. There was another thread a while back with some posters saying single men who do them and remain bachelors are "selfish". That says it all.

I tell everyone if me and my girl go our separate ways, I'm pretty much done with having relationships. I don't have the patience to learn whether or not I'm compatible with someone again and will just have women for different needs with no real emotional bond taking place.

 

[DaRealness]

I tell everyone if me and my girl go our separate ways, I'm pretty much done with having relationships. I don't have the patience to learn whether or not I'm compatible with someone again and will just have women for different needs with no real emotional bond taking place.

You gotta do what's right for you at the end of the day.

 

[MikelArteta]

I tell everyone if me and my girl go our separate ways, I'm pretty much done with having relationships. I don't have the patience to learn whether or not I'm compatible with someone again and will just have women for different needs with no real emotional bond taking place.

I reached that point a few years ago then last year finally withdrew myself from any social networking.

It's basically like having a saved like mass effect game, 40 hours in, suddenly your saved file is corrupted, do I really want to start over, learn all those skills etc again?

Nah

Sent from royalty breh

 

[360dagod]

I reached that point a few years ago then last year finally withdrew myself from any social networking.

It's basically like having a saved like mass effect game, 40 hours in, suddenly your saved file is corrupted, do I really want to start over, learn all those skills etc again?

Nah

Sent from royalty breh

so your saying that your just going to have friends with benefit type situations

 

[Atlrocafella]

@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3

So a girl I've been talking to recently tried to shame me because I through her in the bushes for having another guy's name tatted on her neck... females man do they even try to see it from our POV?

There's this chick who has been trying to get at me who has her ex tatted on her breast..she had the nerve to wear cleavage around me and than get mad when I pointed it out

 

[kevm3]

Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone

Women willingly create the man they love to hate. Once she got dude 'locked down' and he sits there in a hen-pecked state, allowing her to run her mouth, the bad behavior only escalates. This is why men must never give up their authority and settle for disrespect from a woman.

 

[kevm3]

Funny how now the same thing is happening in China and the 'reason' given for all of the 30 year old single women over there... the research was conducted by a woman and interviewed only woman and the conclusion is that men are 'intimidated' by the success of those women, therefore they are not marrying them. Women and their soft-shoe simp backers would rather have these women live in fantasyland and believe a lie than tell them the truth that men really couldn't care less about a woman's career beyond her making enough to be reasonally self-sufficient if needs be, and that a woman actually having home-making skills and not trying to compete for control with the man is MUCH more important.

Lol@'liberated women'. What are they liberated from? An actual meaningful and happy existence? These women think they are high fliers and breaking down the walls in their 20s, but then they see that all those materials don't mean anything in their 30s and they desire marriage, but there is no one to marry them.

'Chinese men want wives who are easier to control': How China's high-flying single women are rejected because male suitors are intimidated by their successes | Mail Online

'Chinese men want wives who are easier to control': How China's high-flying single women are rejected because male suitors are intimidated by their successes

Hysteria is growing in China about the number of unmarried 'leftover women' - but the fault lies with the country's insecure male population, according to a new investigation.

Far from spurning suitors, highly successful career women aged 26 to 34 badly want to be married, but find themselves constantly rejected by Chinese men who are uncomfortable with their careers and achievements.

The findings come from Dr Sandy To, a sociologist based at the University of Hong Kong.

One woman, a 29-year-old fund accountant with a UK Master's degree, described how a potential suitor, introduced to her by her parents, backed off because 'he said he felt that he had to spend a lot of effort to control me, so he chose someone else who was easier to control.'

Another interviewee, a financial services manager, 33, said: 'I used to date a guy who was much older… He preferred me not working. His idea was that I should quit work after we got married.'

The results come just one week after the country's communist government upset its young female population by ordering its feminist All-China Women’s Federation to use the derogatory term 'leftover women' in order to urge them into marriage.


Far from spurning suitors, these women badly want to be married, but find themselves constantly rejected by Chinese men who are uncomfortable with their careers and achievements

China's government and media are concerned over the phenomenon of the 'sheng nu' - literally 'leftover women' - who remain unmarried despite having a good education and high-flying jobs.

In 2007, the Chinese Ministry of Education attributed their failure to find a husband to their 'overly high expectations for marriage partners', in an official explanation of what sheng nu means.