Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

Candyman appeared

 

[Ahadi]

Can’t remember if I asked this or not, but do y’all delete and download y’all apps after some time or just stay on them?

I ain’t been on in a min cuz they was doing bullshyt to my account because I kept deleting them after a few weeks.

I keep ‘em. Once my travel is done I’ll delete the apps. But once I have another work assignment, or I know I’ll be spending time at a place for fun, i download a week before and swipe.

 

[Jasonmask]

I keep ‘em. Once my travel is done I’ll delete the apps. But once I have another work assignment, or I know I’ll be spending time at a place for fun, i download a week before and swipe.

That’s the only time I use dating apps myself. I wouldn’t pay for the premium to change location but when I get there I get to swiping.

 

[Jasonmask]

Need another bbw to warm this bed up save on PG&E

 

[MikelArteta]

No

Leaving today ,

Candyman appeared

Nah back home to Canada

 

[360dagod]

Leaving today ,


Nah back home to Canada

 

[Ahadi]

Leaving today ,


Nah back home to Canada

Breh sounds disgusted

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh sounds disgusted

Ish is disgusting I'm at JFK now waiting for my flight back to Toronto all cacs everywhere

 

[MikelArteta]

Read a few in depth/more academic pieces on dating apps and a book called Rethinking Sex, by Christine Emba, last year,----these are all valid points. which are fleshed out way further in what I read, but this isn't off point at all.

The book had a chapter on dating apps, that laid all that out with reporting, interviews, research. Just the slot machine concept is borne out in research abut social media, the idea of intermittent reward theory, dopamine hits, starts to feel better than the relative awkwardness of meeting up with near strangers.

And, this is just me talking now, this doesn't really bother ME like that, but for a lot of people, in a relationship, or like in the stages of that structure, the threat of someone just pulling out a phone and having a date/hook up/ that night can't be a good feeling. There's always people in our spheres, but that's like calling an escort, but legit.

The thing with dating apps you love the attention that dopamine. Someone saying you're attractive. Even if someone is attractive, smart and you have so much in common and have gone out a few times and everything is great you are still floating around in the atmosphere hoping to find someone more attractive etc. Never satisfied

 

[Ahadi]

The thing with dating apps you love the attention that dopamine. Someone saying you're attractive. Even if someone is attractive, smart and you have so much in common and have gone out a few times and everything is great you are still floating around in the atmosphere hoping to find someone more attractive etc. Never satisfied

If I can find a guy like him, I could probably find an even better guy lol.

Basically the husband store

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

just bought a tripod with a remote to take photos with it. $20 on amazon. def worth it if you don't have good photos

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lmfao hoes are so fukking awkward. Sometimes i just look at their messages and don’t even bother responding.

 

[Ahadi]

Lmfao hoes are so fukking awkward. Sometimes i just look at their messages and don’t even bother responding.

Yup. I currently running into a pattern either they’re awkward or are have “dominant” personalities with their previous partner due to their corporate jobs

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Lmfao hoes are so fukking awkward. Sometimes i just look at their messages and don’t even bother responding.

and the less serious you take them and the less serious you take the game the more you win

 

[re'up]

Some of that is natural, without apps ---the more badder/higher level women I meet/or are interested in me, the more I think "well if she is fukking with me, who else will be interested/how much further up can I go"

and that confidence builds on itself.

but, some of that for sure is me, I'm that way with money, clothes, food, people.