Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

& he’ll say something dumb lol. You really should try to meet within 24-48hours

Yeah that's the sweet spot. Anything longer than that you running the big risk, of you saying something dumb or her no longer feeling it.

Two days I can check in and shes still Intrigued.

Its funny the chick I see currently it was a week between us agreeing to see one another and she told me she almost got cold feet and canceled. As she was getting more and more nervous the closer it got.

Giving women that long to think on things can lead to the same result. She overthinks things and chickens out.

 

[WIA20XX]

& he’ll say something dumb lol. You really should try to meet within 24-48hours

Exactly.

If the horizon is that long, the date should be a hang out, a "meet me at...", where he's doing this thing, and if she shows up, cool.

 

[Balla]

A behind enemy lines type of post.



No pics, all self described.

TL/DR - did a serious makeover on herself, to go from her estimated 4 to a 7. (Totally believe it, sure babe)

That's a ton of work to get her appearance up, and I applaud self-improvement.

By contrast, the fellas don't even think on this level, and even if they did, a breh rarely has this many options.

80% of our visual game is

• Get in the gym
• Hair cut
• Clothes that fit

I don't know if there's a whole lot to learn on the individual aspects here, but the mentality is commendable...

Until you get to her reasons



Each one of these is "beyond the pale" imo, and #8 might just explain the previous 7...but there are plenty of females like this.
Looking good or not.

The whole sub is a trip, but the self described Black women posting, are few and far inbetween.

I'm sure there's prolly stuff like this on LSA, or any place that women gather and chat amongst themselves, but it's rare to see it laid out like this.

HOW DID I KNOW SHE WAS A BLACK BIRD BEFORE FINISHING HER REASONS!!



She says men hate women, so she’ll use them.

She doesn’t say, “I’ll be nice” she is now making it her job to make men hate her even more by using them.

How does that make sense.

I’ve been trying to avoid calling them this.

But bytchES really ain’t shyt!!

 

[re'up]

Anxiety
overthinking
decision fatigue
options flowing into each other

From a lot of first person convos, I see women and men trying to awkwardly place a lifetime on a single date. Trying to plan a future 300 months in advance.

Well, she has kids?

Well, does he want kids?

muthafukka, we haven't even kissed yet!

 

[re'up]

Probably at a base level, the amount of options overwhelm and you try to thin them by narrowing the standards down to something manageable, but in the process become a little delusional and unrealistic, in order to try and maintain some kind of control?

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah that's the sweet spot. Anything longer than that you running the big risk, of you saying something dumb or her no longer feeling it.

Two days I can check in and shes still Intrigued.

Its funny the chick I see currently it was a week between us agreeing to see one another and she told me she almost got cold feet and canceled. As she was getting more and more nervous the closer it got.

Giving women that long to think on things can lead to the same result. She overthinks things and chickens out.

overthinks or you say something.

Talking to this fine azz dime everything is clicking date is a week and a half away


Hey how was your day ?

It was alright but this stupid azz dog almost bit me, I really can't stand pitbulls

oh i love dogs and i have two pitbulls, i really don't think this is going to work


I really can't believe whats going on in israel

Me neither but I understand why hamas did what they did....

Wow my step dad is jewish click



You gotta treat these women like you're on vacation in a foreign land and leaving in 3 days schedule that date asap

 

[re'up]

Even the language betrays deep anxiety, which I often say we need better words or phrases, but that's another convo

I don't think this is going to work

this as in an hour an a half/whatever date? because that's how I look at it, just a small part of my week/my month/life

work: as in a monogamous relationship the next 18 months or 18 years, or connecting with someone for a moment, night, next month

you pre qualifying someone for a lifetime, in no other part of life does anyone do this, and nowhere is it probably more ineffective than romantic relationships.

 

[Ohene]

Even the language betrays deep anxiety, which I often say we need better words or phrases, but that's another convo

I don't think this is going to work

this as in an hour an a half/whatever date? because that's how I look at it, just a small part of my week/my month/life

work: as in a monogamous relationship the next 18 months or 18 years, or connecting with someone for a moment, night, next month

you pre qualifying someone for a lifetime, in no other part of life does anyone do this, and nowhere is it probably more ineffective than romantic relationships.

Its truly crazy lol

Something wrong with these women. Lets go out, catch a vibe, maybe fck and then go about our business. It’s not that serious but they make it seem like going out with a guy is akin to going to war.

This is what happens with the me too movement, redpill, feminism and all this bs out here though. Women Have quite frankly become scared of women and human interaction with strangers in general.

 

[Van Cleef]

Yeah that's the sweet spot. Anything longer than that you running the big risk, of you saying something dumb or her no longer feeling it.

Two days I can check in and shes still Intrigued.

Its funny the chick I see currently it was a week between us agreeing to see one another and she told me she almost got cold feet and canceled. As she was getting more and more nervous the closer it got.

Giving women that long to think on things can lead to the same result. She overthinks things and chickens out.

overthinks or you say something.

Talking to this fine azz dime everything is clicking date is a week and a half away


Hey how was your day ?

It was alright but this stupid azz dog almost bit me, I really can't stand pitbulls

oh i love dogs and i have two pitbulls, i really don't think this is going to work


I really can't believe whats going on in israel

Me neither but I understand why hamas did what they did....

Wow my step dad is jewish click



You gotta treat these women like you're on vacation in a foreign land and leaving in 3 days schedule that date asap

What happens if you say something dumb on the first date? or the second? third? etc... You always run the risk of giving women the "ick"

 

[MikelArteta]

What happens if you say something dumb on the first date? or the second? third? etc... You always run the risk of giving women the "ick"

Things change when a woman sees you in person and is attractive to you. I'm just saying its better to meet a woman earlier than late.

 

[re'up]

Things change when a woman sees you in person and is attractive to you.

In person is where you really connect. When you see or feel chemistry, touch, and have the medium of convo to talk for more than a sentence or a meme, or trying to edit a reply, waiting for a response. That forms the kind of connection where you want to see a person again.

The texting back and forth forms like a fake bond, like one ghosted reply, and the whole thing dissolves into nothing.

 

[MikelArteta]

In person is where you really connect. When you see or feel chemistry, touch, and have the medium of convo to talk for more than a sentence or a meme, or trying to edit a reply, waiting for a response. That forms the kind of connection where you want to see a person again.

The texting back and forth forms like a fake bond, like one ghosted reply, and the whole thing dissolves into nothing.

Exactly which is why its vital to meet up asap

 

[WIA20XX]

You always run the risk of giving women the "ick"

SMH.

Cats need to stop playing defense.

These broads mad cause cats drink Starbucks, drive sedans, take care of their sneakers....

They are always inventing things to that a man should do, or shouldn't do. Man buy the whole damn house, fix everything in it, and she "lets" him have man cave.

Stop playing defense.

Play offense.

Mention to the broad

I just noticed that your left eye is half a millimeter lower than your right eye. It's so cute.

Give that broad a complex

 

[Apollo Creed]

SMH.

Cats need to stop playing defense.

These broads mad cause cats drink Starbucks, drive sedans, take care of their sneakers....

They are always inventing things to that a man should do, or shouldn't do. Man buy the whole damn house, fix everything in it, and she "lets" him have man cave.

Stop playing defense.

Play offense.

Mention to the broad

I just noticed that your left eye is half a millimeter lower than your right eye. It's so cute.

Give that broad a complex

yeah who gives a fukk if bytch gets the ick, her loss. Who has time to be on pins and needles over a bytch who spends 70% of her time making bad decisions.

The best middle ground is hitting chicks up on Wed and Thur which gives you a short window to Make a Friday/Sat play. It's a reason chicks spam messages on Thursday cause they looking for a weekend date. If you are cold approaching I wouldn't feel pressed to plan a date ASAP because the initial meeting should be the energy check anyways.

 

[360dagod]

Anxiety
overthinking
decision fatigue
options flowing into each other

From a lot of first person convos, I see women and men trying to awkwardly place a lifetime on a single date. Trying to plan a future 300 months in advance.

Well, she has kids?

Well, does he want kids?

muthafukka, we haven't even kissed yet!

Nah once the she has kids line drop, it's an automatic gamechanger lol..

One I just found out she had one when I hit up the crib..

She can be a role player