Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

Anyone who is helping people find apartments to rent, outside, of like the ultra high end market, is probably at the starting/entry level of their career, and is trying to build solid relationships with clients, but it's good to at least get some face time and develop some kind of bond, before you ask for an exclusive relationship (kinda like anything else!)

sounds just like convos in here about prequalifying someone LOL

Just show them the damn apartment and if you click, you click, is how I would feel about a date/showing.

 

[International Playa]

I agree in theory. Feel like you lose a bytch if you totally ghost before a date. Plus I’m trying to build up tension before we meet. Prob just hit her up once a day at night

didn't understand the degree to which lot of people interact, this way---maybe like 6 years ago, got intro'd to someone, and we set up a date, and didn't text until the day, maybe 3 days later, and she canceled, and said "what happened to you why haven't you texted me" I said if I give my word on a time, and date, than expect me to follow through. My word is good.

We eventually went out the next day or whatever, but it was a lesson for me in how people perceive each other.

still don't really do that, it just feels so weak, good morning and good night, how was your day type shyt, so fukking boring ---but I am sure it's led to some fumbles. The takeway is that people want reassurance and sustained interest, and if they don't see you on them, they assume you are on someone else. and will cut you before you cut them.

Remember you aren't the only breh in her inbox. Other brehs are applying pressure, facetiming / video calling her, sending her funny memes or tik toks, talk about the last celebrity gossip, asking her how her day went, keeping her engaged till the day of the date. APPLY PRESSURE!!!!!!

It works with certain women, some women love being on the phone, some don't.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

this lifestyle ain’t for me honestly

 

[re'up]

Remember you aren't the only breh in her inbox. Other brehs are applying pressure, facetiming / video calling her, sending her funny memes or tik toks, keeping her engaged till the day of the date

It works with certain women, some women love being on the phone, some don't.

oh for sure, some other post I made in that same sequence said something like that. Think I was alluding to the IDEA, but it's happening in reality too.

Her friend ran into me around that time, and said something like K told me what happened, or that you don't text her "who do you think are?!" lol

 

[re'up]

and depending on a few variables, it means you are interested, and in some way committed, or showing effort. Invested is maybe the best word.

and the truth is I'm not that invested most of the time, I can't always just call someone else, but enough for it to be my first thought.

 

[OmegaK2099]

Real talk....anyone here ever been catfished?

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Real talk....anyone here ever been catfished?

Lot of bytches still using photos from before covid. Or they show up with a completely different hairstyle. They also know their angles too so they might have a big ass chin but they can hide it.

 

[AAKing23]

Now that I'm in an extremely stable financial point of my life I think I have a new dating standard. She can't be older than me. (31) Unless it's a sugar mama situation

I'm only gonna date my age and down I see why people say men need to date younger.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Now that I'm in an extremely stable financial point of my life I think I have a new dating standard. She can't be older than me. (31) Unless it's a sugar mama situation

I'm only gonna date my age and down I see why people say men need to date younger.

older chicks only purpose should be Sugar Mama tricking or purely FWB (where y'all both EQUALLY put in the same financially) lol.

how you look wining and dining a bytch older than you.

 

[AAKing23]

older chicks only purpose should be Sugar Mama tricking or purely FWB (where y'all both EQUALLY put in the same financially) lol.

how you look wining and dining a bytch older than you.

Facts breh, I've seen the light now

 

[The ADD]

Now that I'm in an extremely stable financial point of my life I think I have a new dating standard. She can't be older than me. (31) Unless it's a sugar mama situation

I'm only gonna date my age and down I see why people say men need to date younger.

Yeah at 46 I couldn’t imagine dating a woman my age. The need to date reasonably younger becomes more apparent as you get older

 

[Van Cleef]

Lot of bytches still using photos from before covid. Or they show up with a completely different hairstyle. They also know their angles too so they might have a big ass chin but they can hide it.

how is that a catfish?

 

[WIA20XX]

how is that a catfish?

Lotta chicks will do the big chop, or show up with some type of auntie* hairstyle

Auntie hairstyles

Please post some hairstyles that you consider “Auntie”. The obvious The curly wig

www.lipstickalley.com

Even that horrible show Insecure made light of it, when Issa showed up to the spot with a whole different style than her photo.

Edit - I be dating Aunties, so you don't have to.

 

[International Playa]

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Now that I'm in an extremely stable financial point of my life I think I have a new dating standard. She can't be older than me. (31) Unless it's a sugar mama situation

I'm only gonna date my age and down I see why people say men need to date younger.

I can't date women my age anymore (36). The pressure & timeline to get married & have kids is ridiculous. We barely know each other to make such a big commitment.

The new woman I'm dating is (30) things are growing organically, enjoying each other company & dating.

 

[OmegaK2099]

Lot of bytches still using photos from before covid. Or they show up with a completely different hairstyle. They also know their angles too so they might have a big ass chin but they can hide it.

Oh yeah, I gave the chick the: "right now I'm not really looking for anything other than friends" talk, when she showed up wearing this with extra big glasses