Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i agree. there was a lot of dope sht in here, until the bitter niqqa club took over. Thats the thing. I wanna read some niqqas kick knowledge in here. Im terrible with women and Ive been very unlucky the last year or so in love. I actually want advice, not these crazy wild, misogynist ramblings. I aint got time for that.

While there's a lot of bitterness here, there's a lot of good advice as well. You can stick to the practical advice and just ignore all the rants.
 

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Im just going to say, on the topic of submission, you guys might be missing the point of the statement. Im going to explain why it works and is actually desired by women, and why it doesnt equate to slavery.

first of all, overall what we mean is cooperation, and some effort put back into the relationship from the woman. a woman who isnt submissive, doesnt want you to tell her anything, and doesnt think youre fit to be the head. there can only be one leader in a relationship. so let me tell you what happens when you have a woman who is not with your program. she will be difficult. she wants to do her own thing half the time, is always challenging, and always trying to one up you

1. you say "hon, lets go out to eat some place tonight. its getting late to cook, and theres this new place opened up about five minutes from here."

she says "what? why dont you make something? I dont want to go out. go pick me up something."

2. you say "if we want to go to the caymans this year, we need to cut back on the spending for now."

she says "hell no. youre not my boss. Im not saving shyt. YOU save money. I dont know what youre talking about ... but IM going with or without you."

if you feel like dealing with brattiness, entitlement, and a woman who wants to take control from you and call the shots, then thats all on you. but understand, that means you are submitting to her. if you are happy with that, fine. maybe you will have a malevolent woman, and one who has your best interests in mind. thats cool. do you.

but the rest of us, would like submission. that means to boss up in the relationship. to be the leader, and to be the one who ultimately calls the shots. and Ill tell you what that means before you bring out the whips and chains, beatings, slavery, and oppressive talk.

I want to ask the men out there; how many of you had to initiate contact with the girl? how many of you had to work on game, deal with rejection, and find out how to just walk up and holler at a female for her number? how many of you had to pick out the spot, help with the transportation for you two, make the arrangements, and provide a good time for your woman? how many of you are essentially the hosts, and guides for your women?

thus, you have her under your wing. you are the leader. she is willing (submissive), and if you notice, WANTS to have that man show her how resourceful and great you are. to be her guide to a good time. be funny. be the entertainment. protect her when your out. even pay the bill.

do you think females go around doing that for men? or that they want to do all that?

so yes, YOU ARE THE LEADER. dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

now with that, does she follow along? is she by your side? she hold you down? loyal to you? then she is obviously submitting to your leadership, and following your lead in the relationship. she likes you to take point. she wants you to calm her down and listen to her. she wants you to be in control.

thats what submission means. you provide, while she reciprocates and is under your wing.

the difference between slavery and submission? um, I dont know, how about being a prisoner of war, beaten and shackled, and forced into a life of hard labor?

the object of slavery is to have someone work for you, for nothing. a slave is to be underminded, subjugated, and treated all like shyt. and all for a hard days work and for the master to profit off of. the slave had no choice, and is done badly for the purpose of a bottomline in business. the master takes his slaves into a field, and kills them or beats them if theyre out of line. its all take - and its all forced.

then what is submission? its the work and labor that someone puts back in for the one they follow under. but its done A) willingly, and B) as a way of reciprocating what they recieve as valuable from their leader.

submission is already implied in the relationship of man and woman. in many, many ways.

she WANTS you to be the head of the household. to be a good example. to be powerful. she wants you to take the bullet, or go downstairs to check on the noise. she wants the man to lead her into a good life, make more money than her, give her things, and be in control. she wants you to be of many resources, know people around town, and overall not be a spineless wimp who bows and gets punked out by everyone. they cant support a follower, or a chump. they want the leader of the pack.

women even give in to a man with their bodies, by allowing a man to enter them and push in her guts. that is the ultimate submission. the whole relationship is deep, but Im not going to keep telling you. the main idea is, for us in the gems thread, to take charge of your life, and make sure youre not leading her into destruction.

bible or no, history shows us that men are the commanders, and are revered as such.

if YOU want a woman to lead, or take charge of your life, by all means - go for it.

that is your choice. but having a woman willfully submit to you means that you seek cooperation, and companionship from a woman that you are showing love and guidance to. anything less, means that she isnt feeling you, doesnt want to follow you, thinks shes better, or maybe even wants to disrespect what you bring to the table. Im not ever going to go for that. I chose to be the one in charge, and thats the only way it will ever be.
 
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I lurked in this thread a couple of times and couple of these dudes speak absolute insanity and have somehow convinced themselves that what they're saying is rational. It's like staring at a bad trainwreck. It doesn't make any sense trying to reach them with reason because it's like trying to talk to a scientologist, a Wahhabist jihadist, or a flat earther. I genuinely pity them.

You have already outed yourself a couple of times as being one of the biggest white knights and manginas on this forums. Why come in here?
 

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You have already outed yourself a couple of times as being one of the biggest white knights and manginas on this forums. Why come in here?

That's what I'm talking about. Some of you think saying stupid shyt like calling anyone who disagrees with your Bronze Age view of gender relations "manginas" and "white knights" has any relevance outside of fringe pockets of sexually-frustrated spiteful internet ciphers. You're speaking a language that only has meaning inside your bubble.
 

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I really struggle with the idea of getting married. On one hand I would like kids but on the other hand I don't think I want to be with just one woman the rest of my life. Being a baby daddy isn't an option either so I'm unsure what to do. Since my ex and I broke up I really enjoy the freedom and not having to worry about how something I do may affect someone elses mood. Most of my friends are married with kids and they just seem so beaten down by life at this point.
 

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I really struggle with the idea of getting married. On one hand I would like kids but on the other hand I don't think I want to be with just one woman the rest of my life. Being a baby daddy isn't an option either so I'm unsure what to do. Since my ex and I broke up I really enjoy the freedom and not having to worry about how something I do may affect someone elses mood. Most of my friends are married with kids and they just seem so beaten down by life at this point.

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Mane, this is exactly why you got to have principles such as some of the aforementioned ones, but ones like self-respect. You simply cannot go for nonsense like that. Your respect got to be much higher than your desire to deal with any female. If you let a female onto your ship and you don't make her respect you, she's going to sink your vessel.
 
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It was last year that they all moved in *together after three years of *Maria to-ing and fro-ing between her husband and lover.

Peter sleeps on the sofa while Paul has a room *upstairs. Maria shares a bedroom with her eldest daughter.

:wtf:

she has the nerve to bring her daughters into this. this is how a lot of young girls become sexually confused/lesbian they dont have any example of what a man is and the mother acts like shes the man

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other dude really has his arm around that mans daughter too
 
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