They don't hear you though. I've come to realize you just can't tell certain cats something, so for the most part, I say it once and let it be. If they want to get ran around by these women, that's on them.
We can talk this equality, 50/50 stuff until we're blue in the face, and in fact, that would be WAY EASIER than being a leader. The reality is if you aren't leading, you will simply get ran over by these women and disrespected. A woman will absolutely tell you that she wants to be led... that she wants to submit to the right man... but they've been socialized to rebel against something that they really want. The same broads that be talking about they ain't going to listen to a man are the same ones that want a man to pay for their dinner, to choose where to go, to entertain them, to protect them, etc... Basically they want the benefits of submission without having to submit, and these low worth, low value simp negroes rush out to give it to them and get ran over in the process.
Women naturally want to submit, but they've been socialized to think it's wrong and their actions are reinforced by weak men. This is why you see women gravitate towards books like 50 shade of grey, where the dude is dominating that woman... it's why women say they 'like men with a backbone' and they 'like a man that can take control'-- so yes indeed, women want a man they can submit to.
The big, big problem with these broads in this day and age is they have no idea how to make their next choice their best choice. They choose up with negroes who have no business leading and then get blown up because they willingly chose to submit to with men with a self-destructive mindset and then they get angry and rebel against all male leadership. These broads these days are choosing swagger over sense and knowledge, and end up with some loser type dude who pops 4 or 5 babies in all these different women and doesn't take care of any of them.
On the male side of the spectrum, the problem is men want to be snuggle-bears, aka soft, compromising, letting the woman lead negroes and they keep on getting cut in half with a buzzsaw. Let's be real as well. 50/50 sounds wonderful in theory, but it's a fantasy. Someone is always leading. Someone will always have more power. If it's 50/50, then you never will go nowhere because no one is stepping up to the plate and imposing their will. Imagine a car with two steering wheels and two gas pedals... can you see how disastrous a car would be with two drivers?
Here is an example of where these cats learn snugglebear behavior
They be seeing that trash in the media everywhere and get this notion you are supposed to cuddle and cater to the broad. This is how you are supposed to lean towards in reality
Fred Williamson is sitting cool, calm, collected and in control. his woman is all over him, not the other way around
Here is another example. It's a painting, but it expresses the concept very well. "Black Samson" is standing strong and his woman finds enough strength in him to lean on him.
Notice how Ludacris is IN THE FRONT
A woman wants to be able to rest her head on your chest and feel safe because she knows you are a man that handles business.
If you are one of those cats that sit there and curl up with her like a kitten, she's going to look at you like you're soft and run your sorry butt over. If you engage in these 5 C's, she'll have you bowing down on your knees, taking your cheese while she's peeling off muttering 'negro please.' If you cater, compliment, cuddle, compromise, and camera-ize with that broad, you WILL get taken advantage of.
The only one you can do in a bit of moderation is a compliment here and there, but the compliment needs to be for her acting the RIGHT WAY towards you. You start giving her too much praise for something like how she looks or start telling her how smart she is just for displaying an inkling of intelligence, then she will start getting this impression she is bigger than you, and whenever a woman gets that idea, she peels off. We've already shown what happens when you start putting these women on camera too much. Joe Buddens and Ice-T got a dose of it. Cats also need to be wary of 'upgrading' these broads too much to where she gets this notion she is bigger than you. Look at those shows where the woman loses all this weight, and the boyfriend that was there with her and stood by her when she lost all that weight ends up getting dismissed and she goes on to a new dude. Nah, that ain't hot. If you upgrade 2 notices, you upgrade your woman 1 notch and that's only if she's continually down with you.
"Me, being a generous guy, I DO like to make sure a woman I'm dealing with is happy, and I know the greatest gift I can give her is allowing her to be in the presence of a real fly guy-- which is me." You need to have this mentality and embody it, and you'll do well. It doesn't mean you're constantly saying cocky, arrogant nonsense. It means you handle your business and stay laced up internally and externally and you never let her get you for less than you're worth and you'll be alright out chea.
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