you know i fukk with you pause....but all this is a bytch much for a chick who barely even responding to a nikka messages no?
the game really fukked up lol
There's stuff I left out, lol. I wish I had kept what I deleted!
A really good answer would have had us dig into
- Who the chick is?
- What did they talk about?
- How many emotions did he get out of her?
- Was there any physical contact?
- Who the chick is in relation to the wedding couple?
- Who the wedding couple is to him?
- If they had any mutual friends other than the couple?
- What they talked about?
- Would she recognize him as the person behind the phone?
- What day did he text?
- What time of day did he text?
- Does he own an Android?
I could have just said, "Send her another text and try to meet up" or "You shoulda tried to bang that first night"
He's prolly been given that useless advice all his life.
I can 99% predict what cats say when they try to put other dudes on. It's same stuff they would hear at a barbershop.
And if you've never heard that stuff, that's a good first step. One should develop best practices, like working out, dressing properly, smelling good, not spending money on broads, be confident, let rejection roll off your back, etc.
But what's next?
Just more volume? "If she don't like you within the first 3 femto-seconds, keep it moving?" You just need to meet 30 chicks a night?
There's no way to move the needle on a particular chick?
No way to get her chasing you?
Because ultimately, that's what best practices is.
That's why I prefer to add some game. (note the lower case "g", Game with a capital G is for the Pimps, Macks, Hustlers)
Give the chick intangibles, so that she gladly gives him tangibles.
The basic concept is how the economy works, how politics work, how human societies operate.
Shrink it down to just females, and now we're putting a chick into a cycle of seeking his approval...
He just needs to understand that basic human drive on her part, how she shows is, and what he can do with it.
Then he can turn a lot of cold leads into hot leads, not just this one.
And this "meet a girl at a wedding" scenario, a fairly common one, is very rich indeed.