again...sounds great in practice. but a lot of the time if you just met a girl and already invite her out to do something in person before having even one conversation, it can be perceived as coming on too strong unless you showed something during yalls first envounter that gave her an extreme high level of interest. other times she may come out, only to flake/ghost you after yall link - now you wasted time and/or money on a chick cause you aint vet her beforehandTexts has turned everybody neurotic messes. I watched a few 90's movies this week, ok 90's romantic comedies, and was struck by scenes where people just called each other, and said
"hey this is Eric, we met the other day at Tina's wedding, are you free for dinner friday"
"Sure, lets meet around 7"
There will always be the common factors, some of what bothers men and women NOW, was in 1970's romantic comedies, but overall, NOW it extra weird.
Well we texted, but he didn't love my message, and then he said goodnight, but he didn't say good morning, and then I didn't respond until he texted back, and now I'm only responding to his messages but not hitting him uP
"well, I texted her, but she left me on read for an hour, and then only HAHA'd my text, she didn't send a meme, and then she took 23 minutes to respond to my good morning"
that's insanity. but that's daily convo.
there is no one size fits all. you have to read the room and go off signals/instincts sometimes.