Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Met this young Pakistani chick who was about 23 or 24 a few weeks ago at this event held at a bar, long story short we are vibing we exchanged contacts, I then proposed to do something on the weekend with her, she said she was down to do something. During the week we exchanged texts, I told her what was the plans for the date which she agreed to and in her words was "excited". The day before the scheduled date after a good work out I get a lengthy text basically saying " I don't think I'm ready to have anything casual or serious with anybody. If you wanna be friends and need a tennis buddy I'm down" :russ:

I rejected her offer her to be friends and a tennis buddy I told to her to leave it as that and if I see her in town its all love. She then texted me saying why she changed her mind and bla bla bla, I then never responded.
A tennis buddy? 🤣 :dead:
 

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Amy dude committing in this climate is an idiot and this shyt is spreading globally because all women look at the same content on social media.
I say it too much in real life because alot of brehs walk around oblivious and its a disadvantage. Social media is the greatest distribution tool ever created and at the moment the tiktok algorithm is most efficient ever put together.
 

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I say it too much in real life because alot of brehs walk around oblivious and its a disadvantage. Social media is the greatest distribution tool ever created and at the moment the tiktok algorithm is most efficient ever put together.
lotta dudes holding out hope for a dream lol
 

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Late summer. it's like that in my neighborhood too. too many girls to even keep up with walking around.

two ways: connect on something. or create something to connect on.

my advice, take out your Airpods, take off the headphones, put your phone in your pocket. if you make good eye contact, consider taking things further. Just smile laugh and introduce yourself. You have to carry the conversation. and control it to a degree, by asking questions.

if someone is interested (just in having a quick convo) they will give you answers that you can respond to, or just start rambling and rambling. If they are closed off, it will be brief. Read body language. Crossed arms and shot responses, looking down at their phone, probably walk away. Crossed arms and looking at you, turned in your direction. Facing you. That's better. People mirror each other when they are interested. Look you up and down. They touch their neck. They touch their face. I lick my lips on some LL shyt, it's not even something I always notice.

if you fall into conversation, ask if you can keep walking with them, but then know when to call it.
 
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Video is all facts. I’ve been guilty of that myself; thinking a woman is not interested. Self defeating mentality.

I can’t count how many times I thought a girl wasn’t interested only to find out later she was feeling me heavy. Women are wired differently. Of course there’s choosing signals but a lot of the times they won’t even show it that they’re feeling you because they’re nervous or afraid of getting rejected.

Hell even choosing signals aren’t concrete. I’ve engaged with women who were giving me heavy choosing signals only to be rejected or her play games

Just like the gentlemen said in the video, you don’t know what THAT particular woman likes or thinks. It’s best to put yourself in position and let HER do the rejecting. Don’t reject yourself.
 
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