Brandsdale
Big Yella
try anything lol? Im a shy dude at times so flat out asking shorty a question or complimenting her helps get the ball rolling.
most places on road its solid but I still have no clue in the gym lol
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most places on road its solid but I still have no clue in the gym lol
Honestly I say what's ever on my mind.
But you need more of a framework
This is what a typical cold approach looks like.
There's nothing fancy here AT ALL.
If you want to get real clinical with it, just being Black people, think there's a bit of Black on Black familiarity - so he's able to adopt a certain tone that she's familiar with.
- He knows he's hollering.
- She knows he's hollering.
- And she's just playing along cause it's an ego boost, because in her mind it's a way to pass the time, it's not gonna go anywhere
Don't focus on the words per se, but his demeanor, his tone of voice, how he reacts and HOW THEY REACT.
99% of approaches you'll get
- No response/Ignored/"she didn't hear you"/she didn't know you were talking to her
- Middling response
- Polite response - I got a BF
- Slight interest
- Hell yeah
- HELL NAW..
Hoodoo Child
The Urban Legend
Agreed. Hell, I would even argue regret feels worse than rejection. That happened to me a few weeks ago, when I ran into my HS crush at the grocery store. I went up and chopped it with her for a minute, but I didn't take it further because I figured her occupation would get in the way. (She's a MC/bottle girl) Luckily, we still follow each other on IG, so I'm gonna reach out again.
Regret had me feeling sick sick sick lol
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
Just got my first 
wake up call, 23 year old Paag said Its too much of a age gap me being 31 and doesn't want to meet. Chick was locked in for the weekend up until that stage to.Carnival brought out the foreign hoes heavy though
Breh below has some good content but a lot of it got taken off YT.
Amor fati
Superstar
Forreal Cuz....Da Fuq she think I look like.A tennis buddy?
Amor fati
Superstar
Yeah that get's them big mad
also would say that getting hung up on awkward, like meeting someone is kinda awkward. Sexual tension can be awkward. Talking to a stranger can be uncomfortable. but you have to get past it, and then it's the convo gets smoother.
Lot of people stall out at that first sense of this is awkward. Not saying to make someone uncomfortable, or be blind to what someone else is experiencing but you have to increase your tolerance. Taking a chance is risky. There's some anxiety inherent in that. We are also wired to protect ourselves from rejection, but you have to realize it's ok to face rejection, or actually be rejected.
Lot of people stall out at that first sense of this is awkward. Not saying to make someone uncomfortable, or be blind to what someone else is experiencing but you have to increase your tolerance. Taking a chance is risky. There's some anxiety inherent in that. We are also wired to protect ourselves from rejection, but you have to realize it's ok to face rejection, or actually be rejected.
Got a close homie who has that male model look - flashing the Rolex Daytona, well dressed, but he will just roll up to three women after 2 drinks and say "you're beautiful" "you guys are so beautiful"
That almost never, never results in anything but a brief exchange THANKS or total ignore, and I always tell him, what kind of response are you looking for? (with that line)
Every so often it works in a sense of they will roll and so on, but usually he gets nothing with that.
That almost never, never results in anything but a brief exchange THANKS or total ignore, and I always tell him, what kind of response are you looking for? (with that line)
Every so often it works in a sense of they will roll and so on, but usually he gets nothing with that.
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Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Carnival brought out the foreign hoes heavy though
Breh below has some good content but a lot of it got taken off YT.
Lie to these hoesI been 29 for 3 years now
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
Nah can't do it tbh
I been 29 for 3 years now
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
All women do is lie. Why you want to be mr.honorable?
if a chick is picky about where you meet for the first time throw her in the trash. The only thing that is fair is coming to someone's house for the obvious safety reasons.