Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Guvnor]

I don't know what group my girl belongs in but she's caring, will cook for me, but at the same time, she reacts to being told no negatively and believes that I should show up no matter what unless I physically can't do it and she has issues with that if I can't commit to something she has intentions of us doing. She likes to jokingly say that I'm the king of being romantic and affectionate and I'm in love My family kind of pointed out her behavior to me as stand-offish and not the welcoming type.

This situation with her car accident really opened my eyes to her and how she's reacted to it each time "I can't show up" for her.

Sounds like a type 1 type, they usually have issues with you saying no and things have to go their way. If you disagree on something it can be hard for them to compromise. Independent , very giving and loving women but can be super independent too which is good and bad. They the type that would show up for you too with no issues.

Either way I would hope yall can compromise, it's super immature she won't reach out all cause you couldn't be there.

 

[WIA20XX]

Jamaica probably a worse matriarch/gynocracy than the USA

Moms always talkin bout meeting a nice girl from the motherland...

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Had this convo the other day with my boy that at 32, it seems all the bytches our age disappeared as none seem to be in the club, at the gym or just out and about like when we where in our mid 20s. It just seems like I run in to young bytches all the time and the shyt is perplexing as hell. Anyone else experiencing this.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Moms always talkin bout meeting a nice girl from the motherland...

There is a convo that needs to be had that nobody wants to have is all I`m going to say. The thing is Black Men in the west are so disconnected from Tradition they get with a woman from another ethnic group (black or non black) who is a renegade (meaning the local men don't want her hence why she is with you lol) and get hype because she did some basic adult stuff like fix the bed or cook. It's one thing to have your fun but I`m talking about commitment.

 

[Ohene]

Girl I smashed last night just asked me “are you gona pay for my hair or no”?



Barely know this girl for 2 days. Best response? (Savage preferably)

Simple no should suffice

 

[Apollo Creed]

Simple no should suffice

that is a waste of time lol you don't want someone like that in your life so ghost em. they don't deserve closure.

 

[BlaccSunrise]

My thoughts is she need some hotdog in her lips and her p*ssy but at no point should she be considered a viable choice to date. She got too much shyt to effectively concentrate on you. Let her do counseling first but as always see if you can fukk her brains out. That’ll add a little more trauma and give you some leeway to bounce. If you can’t fukk her then let her leave. But you know the motto! If she comes back she gone have to suck a whooooooooooooole lotta dikk!

 

[Ahadi]

Had this convo the other day with my boy that at 32, it seems all the bytches our age disappeared as none seem to be in the club, at the gym or just out and about like when we where in our mid 20s. It just seems like I run in to young bytches all the time and the shyt is perplexing as hell. Anyone else experiencing this.

Depends on your location, circle, status, etc.

They still outside, might just need to upgrade your surroundings. Otherwise they’re probably inside waiting for a “whale” to DM em and put them in different surrounding. (Lounge, suite, trip, etc)

 

[Guvnor]

Jamaica probably a worse matriarch/gynocracy than the USA

Big facts, I dated a Jamaican girl and had to pull her father to the side to have the chat. Not saying all Jamaican dudes is that way, not at all but that shyt was wild to me. I'm like dude I'm dating your daughter, you not gonna wanna pull me aside and speak.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Big facts, I dated a Jamaican girl and had to pull her father to the side to have the chat. Not saying all Jamaican dudes is that way, not at all but that shyt was wild to me. I'm like dude I'm dating your daughter, you not gonna wanna pull me aside and speak.

Yeah we have our issues in the USA but with shyt being Multicultural you can at least find diversity in the fukkery, but in these other countries there is no where to escape and the Gynocracy becomes part of National Identity for Black people there to the point where often cases if you find a woman NOT in the gynocracy chances are she is Non Black with White Supremacist views (i.e. Christian EthoNationalist which is common among the dominant groups of Latin America).

 

[re'up]

Had this convo the other day with my boy that at 32, it seems all the bytches our age disappeared as none seem to be in the club, at the gym or just out and about like when we where in our mid 20s. It just seems like I run in to young bytches all the time and the shyt is perplexing as hell. Anyone else experiencing this.

I can think of three I know personally in my neighborhood, they go to work/work from home and go straight home. There's some girl who lives like a block from me, and we just realized it, and I said I have never seen you.

She's super bad, like an actual 'model' with a company, but she's also a total club rat. Anyway, she said that exact, I just go to work and go straight home....I don't kick it on the block. And I was like yeah I don't 'kick it on the block' either, but I walk outside lol (like it's werido shyt to even be outside now)

Think it's a generational thing, social media/food/everything else being delivered. The thing is the point in living in a downtown area is to be outside. See more and more businesses that would have worked 10 years ago, fail, they aren't supported by the neighborhood of millennial yuppies.

 

[DJSmooth]

Had this convo the other day with my boy that at 32, it seems all the bytches our age disappeared as none seem to be in the club, at the gym or just out and about like when we where in our mid 20s. It just seems like I run in to young bytches all the time and the shyt is perplexing as hell. Anyone else experiencing this.

This sounds like a great problem to have must be nice.

The perfect age is 25-27 year old.

 

[bear27]

Salute all the dads on here today/tonight,building toys, building bikes whatever you had to do
My 3 don't believe in santa no more but the gifts don't stop
Salute all ya'll and your families and how hard you had to work for those santa gifts

 

[BlaccSunrise]

Update: She kept that same energy in person. Literally showed up with no panties on. I wasn’t prepared to match it. The alcohol helped, but I had too many sips.

We went to a hotel afterwards. I’ve been on nofap for a few months and it was wetter than the ocean. I did not last very long.

 

[DJSmooth]

Update: She kept that same energy in person. Literally showed up with no panties on. I wasn’t prepared to match it. The alcohol helped, but I had too many sips.

We went to a hotel afterwards. I’ve been on nofap for a few months and it was wetter than the ocean. I did not last very long.

Dap + rep