To add on it’s also a double edge sword.
You go 21-25 (harder to tie down, too many “options”) 27-30+ (different intentions, you don’t know if they like you for YOU or getting out the game)
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To add on it’s also a double edge sword.
You go 21-25 (harder to tie down, too many “options”) 27-30+ (different intentions, you don’t know if they like you for YOU or getting out the game)
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I know TLR likes to say c00n this and c00n that about dating ANY woman but black women but fukk that internet shyt this is real life.
I encourage brehs to go where you’re loved and things are simple cause at the end of the day peace and happiness is paramount. If that happens to be a white chick, Latina, Asian, whatever she is if she’s treating you well and you’re happy lock it down.
Brehs be loyal to some shyt that ain’t loyal to them.
You'll find a nice Cindy Mahlangu or Buhle Samuels looking brehette when you travel to za
My main thing for a while In this thread is deal with who likes you. Dudes living in missery tryna impress chicks who don't want them lol
Eat!!!! Open up hinge and be amazed
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Nah this a man code violation. Let him be on his #GMB in peace
Been talking to this chick for almost a month. Been on four dates (she paid for two of them) and she’s been over to place my twice. But I have yet to kiss her. Should I just take the L?
Unfortunately, I really like her and she knows that.
Unfortunately, I really like her and she knows that.
Hold she paid twice and didn't press you to hit....yeah breh you might be in the heavy friendzone. Have you made a move and see if she accepted it or rejects it. That will reveal all
Great friend
Here's a semi embarrassing/funny story
When I was a lot younger I did something like that. I didn't realize that there was such a structure to how people did those things, kissing/sex. Like it wouldn't or couldn't be talked about. And being sober didn't help.
so, we go on like 4 dates, and she's a very very traditional girl, and she never comes into my place. I thought it would happen naturally, but sometimes we would stay outside my place in her car for like 2 hours talking. So, the 4th time, I am like we have to kiss, what are we doing here? So, it's like 12 AM and we are listening to music and talking and finally, I am like "Look, I know this is when we are supposed to kiss.....I know we haven't. What I want from you is to just meet me halfway"
She was like omg I have never had someone ask me like that, just tell me what they want and she was laughing, but it worked. We kissed and kissed for a long time, and we were both comfortable. Now, I am not saying you need to do that, but sometimes just putting it on the table helps. You can go for the context and the body language, touch her hair, touch her neck, but if you really aren't ok doing that, just tell her how much you want her. Like stare at her and say I really want to kiss you. Or do you know how attracted I am to you? whatever you do, don't stoping seeing her until you at least try. That's wild. if she has been to your place twice, and paid twice, she is wondering what the fukk you are doing.
When I was a lot younger I did something like that. I didn't realize that there was such a structure to how people did those things, kissing/sex. Like it wouldn't or couldn't be talked about. And being sober didn't help.
so, we go on like 4 dates, and she's a very very traditional girl, and she never comes into my place. I thought it would happen naturally, but sometimes we would stay outside my place in her car for like 2 hours talking. So, the 4th time, I am like we have to kiss, what are we doing here? So, it's like 12 AM and we are listening to music and talking and finally, I am like "Look, I know this is when we are supposed to kiss.....I know we haven't. What I want from you is to just meet me halfway"
She was like omg I have never had someone ask me like that, just tell me what they want and she was laughing, but it worked. We kissed and kissed for a long time, and we were both comfortable. Now, I am not saying you need to do that, but sometimes just putting it on the table helps. You can go for the context and the body language, touch her hair, touch her neck, but if you really aren't ok doing that, just tell her how much you want her. Like stare at her and say I really want to kiss you. Or do you know how attracted I am to you? whatever you do, don't stoping seeing her until you at least try. That's wild. if she has been to your place twice, and paid twice, she is wondering what the fukk you are doing.
After the third date, I asked her straight up if she wanted to strictly be friends. She said she was attracted to me but didn’t know if she wanted to be with me yet. Let’s keep getting to know each other type shyt
I be looking for hints/signs but they’re never there. When she came over we were laid up but nothing happen and she gave me an excuse to leave early. I don’t wanna feel like I’m forcing myself on her.