Yeah I don't wanna kick breh when he's down. But it looks like he has limited experience with women. That's why I emphasize so much on brehs going out and mingling/interacting with women and get off the dating sites. He's playing it too safe because he's afraid of being rejected and he's fumbling the chick or at least an opportunity to have sex at the minimum. Asking a chick to be friends that your sexually attracted to should never come outta a mans mouth.
I have a lot of girl friends, but never in my life have I asked someone to be friends LOL. I would say don't ever do that. It just sounds like some p*ssy shyt.
it just happens, and I never put people in an inflexible category. There's women that are my real friends, we have never slept together, but that's more on them. Some we have. Some we just kiss. But. she's a real friend, when I came back from a trip she picked me up and took me to my favorite market and IN N Out, that's my homie. And she has a boyfriend. But, that's a natural friendship. We didn't ever agree to be just friends.
That is Tik Tok shyt. I guess rom coms have pushed that for awhile too, but you don't really need to put people in such rigid categories. There's a great quote I heard in my marriage and family class in school, "relationships can always go forwards, they can never go backwards"
...Ima have to see her before I go.
eat breh 
