Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Malcolmxxx_23

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The ADD said:
If she’s been over to your place twice then she’s comfortable enough for you to make the move.It may not go anywhere but you basically got the green light.

Funny enough I was just having this conversation with someone because it was like four dates before I kissed my fiancé and she was wondering what I was waiting on.
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Different generation

Honestly I would just pull it out
The moment the kissing starts … but that was long time ago lol


Mofos nowadays waiting 4 dates to get a kiss
 
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Malcolmxxx_23 said:
Ya and nobody paying attention to her
Africa is a different world
You can easily meet a new women everyday without putting too much effort lol
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Yeah there is this restaurant near my spot and I always see this guy and two girls there. Guy told me they work 6 days a week from 10am to 10pm and they make like 200 a month

those two girls are very attractive and would have like 20,000 nigerian simps after them if they were in the west but because they aren't they gotta work froms un up to sun down for 2 bills a month
 
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@MikelArteta dawg, real talk. Which Nigerian took your girl. You stay mentioning us but you flip flop on your allegiances.

One minute it’s Jamo, next it’s Canada now you're claiming your wife’s homeland of Uganda

It’s not a good look dawg
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phcitywarrior said:
@MikelArteta dawg, real talk. Which Nigerian took your girl. You stay mentioning us but you flip flop on your allegiances.

One minute it’s Jamo, next it’s Canada now you're claiming your wife’s homeland of Uganda

It’s not a good look dawg
:hubie:
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:heh:

Breh Nigerian men are the biggest simps

I mean I literally have a thread on here that Jamaica is a wicked azz country

I have no allegiances
 
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My SuperEagles will be ready :blessed:
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Valentine’s Day plans cancelled. Glad I didn’t pay for anything yet. Was planning on doing that today.

Been getting to know this chick for like 1.5 months. The rational part of my mind was telling me that getting into a relationship would’ve been a bad idea. We were both compromising on key issues. She ended it last night. I’m glad I didn’t have to be the one to do it.

It’s for the best. But damn, the fun is over. She’s a cool person and a certified freak.
 
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Yeah I don't wanna kick breh when he's down. But it looks like he has limited experience with women. That's why I emphasize so much on brehs going out and mingling/interacting with women and get off the dating sites. He's playing it too safe because he's afraid of being rejected and he's fumbling the chick or at least an opportunity to have sex at the minimum. Asking a chick to be friends that your sexually attracted to should never come outta a mans mouth.
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I have a lot of girl friends, but never in my life have I asked someone to be friends LOL. I would say don't ever do that. It just sounds like some p*ssy shyt.

it just happens, and I never put people in an inflexible category. There's women that are my real friends, we have never slept together, but that's more on them. Some we have. Some we just kiss. But. she's a real friend, when I came back from a trip she picked me up and took me to my favorite market and IN N Out, that's my homie. And she has a boyfriend. But, that's a natural friendship. We didn't ever agree to be just friends.

That is Tik Tok shyt. I guess rom coms have pushed that for awhile too, but you don't really need to put people in such rigid categories. There's a great quote I heard in my marriage and family class in school, "relationships can always go forwards, they can never go backwards"
 
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re'up said:
I have a lot of girl friends, but never in my life have I asked someone to be friends LOL. I would say don't ever do that. It just sounds like some p*ssy shyt.

it just happens, and I never put people in an inflexible category. There's women that are my real friends, we have never slept together, but that's more on them. Some we have. Some we just kiss. But. she's a real friend, when I came back from a trip she picked me up and took me to my favorite market and IN N Out, that's my homie. And she has a boyfriend. But, that's a natural friendship. We didn't ever agree to be just friends.

That is Tik Tok shyt. I guess rom coms have pushed that for awhile too, but you don't really need to put people in such rigid categories. There's a great quote I heard in my marriage and family class in school, "relationships can always go forwards, they can never go backwards"
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Right breh. I've never really gave women a specific category. I have women I'm actively pursuing. I have women that I pursued that didn't work out and the ones that remain are in a FWB's situation. Then I have ex's and lastly women that I'm cool with but then convos never turned sexual for one reason or another. As you meet and interact with folks people naturally fall into these slots just do to life happening. Even some of the FWBs have left to date folks that want a relationship with them and then come back later on when it didn't work. I don't treat them any differently. When I go out and want company I just call whoever I feel like spending time with at the moment. I just enjoy life until I find someone that makes me wanna commit long term. Brehs gotta start moving like that. The rules of dating are too stagnant and rigid. Just interact and mingle with people and stop putting too much thought into how it could go right or wrong. Just live
 
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