RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
I know brehs have spoken about their experience about being seen as the serious guy on here before, but I’d appreciate a few gems on how y’all have moved after figuring that out.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
Last time I am broke up with my ex, I matched with a doctor, we exchange numbers, I did fall back because this Jamaican chick had my attention and thought i was going to make her my girl until shyt didn't fall through. She sent me a rose on Hinge. I am asking myself how some of these women are still single?Ultimately I want the woman that has her shyt together, not high maintenance, give me the least headache for a long term relationship. Am I wrong for expecting a woman to come happy with her own hobbies, emotionally regulated, Self love so It doesn't always feel like a shore to be with these woman. That's one thing I hated about my ex, insecure attachment style, needed constant reassurance, her happiness revolved around me, intense emotions(cry, not violent).
Women dont have lives. This is why they need men above them to leech onto. Lotta dudes sont realize many women are hermits. Even their girls trips tend to be with people they dont even know from facebook travel groups and stuff
this is great advice. i aint sure if they gas you up because they really believe those things and change up due to being fickle or if they are deliberately trying to manipulate you though. It's probably a case by case basis but one cant tell the difference and it doesnt matter in the grand scheme
Y'all ain't friends..........you guys are choosing to hide under the guise of "platonic friendship" when in truth all that is present is repressed sexual tension and curiousity. You're far from the first and far from the last of men and women who are so petrified of acknowledging their own feelings that we hide behind the "friends" tag. I had been guilty of it before too in the past unitl the day came that I recognized what it was and embraced it.......Having sexual feelings or even romantic feelings doesn't automatically mean that you are going to be married and live the white picket fence life. But if there is that much physical contact and time being spent together, then there are feelings there. Everybody has a choice of what they do with their time. Some might not value their time as much as others, but we all have a choice. You both actively choose to spend intimate time getting to know each other on breaks...........actions speak louder than words..................
What kind of work do you do?....and yes your timing was atrocious. Why make a move on the job regardless of the feelings in the air? Only way you should be kissing her is if you guys were already smashing.......
Now this is all under the assumption that the chemistry is there and going by your story it is.......but if it isn't. Well you are being used for a twisted game of validation from her part, an extreme case of the work husband. I doubt it though.
Simple question, have you guys not spent time together hanging out after work? That right there is the simple litmus test. You guys should actually go out on a date (but it seems you guys will have to phrase it in terms of "hanging out" instead of what it is....), feel each other out. See how you guys get along outside of the forced interaction of the work environment.
She's talking about "sloppy thirds", but little do you know she has made her mind up. I say this to dudes all the time, why would a woman who is repulsed by you and have no interest in you physically be in a need to inquire about your sex life? If it was not on her mind on in consideration there would be no reason for the convo to veer into those directions.......
But I will say you may have fumbled the ball by the way you talk about your multiple partners. If you talk about the other girls you are fukking and it appears as if they are simply disposable, then she will not want to feel just as disposable. There is a way to let a woman know you have more partners without it coming across as sleazy. At heart no girl wants to feel like a cum receptacle.
Does she know you know about her OnlyFans?....Would be interesting to see how she feels about that...
Also huge caveat: How much do you value your job? Because if this goes south there will be reverberations
This post was really important. He gave ya'll game.
Platonic relationships with mutually attractive AND attracted to each other people ain't real. Just because you don't adhere to a title doesn't mean ya'll are friends. To avoid messy, undefined, complicated relationships and soul ties, make sure all the people's roles in your life are defined and understood - to you and them.
Space Cowboy
Christ is King
One thing that has helped me in my game recently is very dark. Depending on the setting and context, the first thing I do when I talk to a woman I'm interested in now is say something that claims ownership. For example, the other month I was at Home Depot and saw this female employee I thought was attractive so I decided to mack her up. I walked up to her, looked her in the eyes and told her I called dibs on her. To my surprise when I started doing this women don't take it negatively. She just giggled and asked me,"What do you mean you call dibs? lol". "I didn't stutter. You're mine now." I told her my name and to be at a coffee shop to join me after church that Sunday at a specific time. I didn't care if she showed up or not, didn't ask for a number either, but guess what. She was there.
The more I started doing it the less I respected women because it worked and the more I decided to do it. I wouldn't do this on a woman that a mutal because it could end badly but if it's a random woman out in the wild, go for it. Take ownership over these broads immediately. They love it and hate that "how you doing?" shyt. Claim ownership ASAP.
Another dark realization I've had is that a big reason women aren't respecting men is because we aren't whipping their behinds anymore.
If she pushes it you need to spank her. Don't hit. Never hit. Never used a closed fist. But you gotta bend her over and spank her ass. It's a dark element of female psychology I've realized: they're like children. And just like children, if you spare the rod you spoil the woman. We now live in an effeminate society and no wonder women don't respect us because many won't do what needs to be done. So they act out like a child that hasn't had its ass softened with a belt.
Yet when you discipline they love you even more. I'm not doing this because I want to. I'm doing it because I love her. You have to treat her like a dad, utterly and completely.
They call it "abuse" but it isn't and it's a necessary component of woman management that has been lost.
Look at what our forebears knew about managing women that we don't that society guilt tripped men into thinking was wrong.
Do what needs to be done.
The more I started doing it the less I respected women because it worked and the more I decided to do it. I wouldn't do this on a woman that a mutal because it could end badly but if it's a random woman out in the wild, go for it. Take ownership over these broads immediately. They love it and hate that "how you doing?" shyt. Claim ownership ASAP.
Another dark realization I've had is that a big reason women aren't respecting men is because we aren't whipping their behinds anymore.
If she pushes it you need to spank her. Don't hit. Never hit. Never used a closed fist. But you gotta bend her over and spank her ass. It's a dark element of female psychology I've realized: they're like children. And just like children, if you spare the rod you spoil the woman. We now live in an effeminate society and no wonder women don't respect us because many won't do what needs to be done. So they act out like a child that hasn't had its ass softened with a belt.
Yet when you discipline they love you even more. I'm not doing this because I want to. I'm doing it because I love her. You have to treat her like a dad, utterly and completely.
They call it "abuse" but it isn't and it's a necessary component of woman management that has been lost.
Look at what our forebears knew about managing women that we don't that society guilt tripped men into thinking was wrong.
Do what needs to be done.
This why it's always best to take any compliment with a grain of salt unless proven otherwise. Don't let it get to your head and keep it moving, whether it's a friend, woman, boss, whatever.
Last edited:
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
man this is the truth.....
my ex was/is like that....going on these trips....just to take pics....and when home...is boring as fuq.....
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
@Space Cowboy this yout fam 
do you though my g, I won't dispute it
do you though my g, I won't dispute it
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
yup.
The comments section on ig of some of these fitness influencers gives you real insight into a woman’s desires. Truly eye opening.
Space Cowboy
Christ is King
You protest but more men will realize what needs to be done. Much of what we’ve been taught is a byproduct of the baby boomer generation that psy-op’d themselves into believing men and women are equal and that man skirting his societal duties was just “old fashioned”. In one generation we’ve seen the road that takes us. The reality is much darker: Women crave dominance and being punished for bad behavior and if they don’t get that they’ll take a mile when you’ve only given an inch. They desire that caveman Fred Flintstone energy. Men are waking up to their true nature and our roles as shepherds of humanity. They are not like us and never will be.@Space Cowboy this yout fam
Manners maketh the man, but bytches only respect power. Give her the Barney Rubble.
