first time time going to black mans paradiseFirst time or been before?
Either way, stay safe, have fun breh![]()

first time time going to black mans paradiseFirst time or been before?
Either way, stay safe, have fun breh![]()
yea i hear thatI keep apps up as passive things but honestly I lost interest super fast cause most women aren't talking about shyt and honestly I travel so often I can't even call when I`m home a drought but more so focus time. I`m not someone who is trying to run the score up on chicks honestly, cause I`m at the age where most are annoying as shyt, so my tolerance is low and I got stuff to lose so every layup isn't a good thing. I`m at the stage where I rather do shyt alone of if a homie is in town (we are at the age where dudes have their own families so going out heavy aint a thing) hit something, I'd rather not spend time with a woman I don't actually enjoy being around, sex is just a bonus.
Joburg > Medellinfirst time time going to black mans paradise![]()
ill check that nextJoburg > Medellin
Similar cities though
first time time going to black mans paradise![]()
might want to pivot to Cartagena if that is the mindset you going there with.
You ain't about that Jerry Buss life?..47, divorced, no kids. No dating, no apps, no girlfriend. Keep a ol reliable FWB on call for when I want to get my dikk wet.
True story: Last week I was in Wynwood with fam, we stopped at one of them stalls so they could look at rings and jewelry and shyt
the stall girl was giving me eyes and we started talking...boom boom boom we exchanged numbers.
Hit her up, set it up for a couple of days later.
She didn't run game, take 6 hours to answer, leave me on read, none of that. She replied right away.
We met up, we're talking, doing the "getting to know you" routine and she casually drops "I'm 20 years old"
(when we met I calculated 29-30. She didn't a have a young college face at all. She looked like a grown woman to me)
My face:
I then asked her how old do you think I am? she says "36, 37"
I tell her I'm 47. Her face:
She didn't believe me (they never do. I've had to show my ID in the past).
I assured her I wouldn't lie about my age, and if I did why would I say I'm older?
Needless to say it was a wrap after that. Clearly we both miscalculated. All in the game.
Having a younger looking face and full head of hair at my age is a cheat code, but I draw the line at a 27 year age difference.
Obv the same for her. Clearly she was willing to entertain if I was 36-37 though.
It is what it is.
You ain't about that Jerry Buss life?..![]()
I could only imagine how she getting flamed in the comments.Wishing her nothing but the worst
I could only imagine how she getting flamed in the comments.
You left a 10 year marriage because it felt familiar and comfortable? Seek therapy
Bringing it online just proves that you are regretting. The validation you are looking for only comes from those who have made the same mistakes
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Gurl i got my hands on the book The Art of Self Love by Sabrina Windale and it shifted my mindset completely
That's crazy work, not cause it was a toxic, abusive marriage, but cause it was familiar and regular........ that is some jaw dropping stupidity....Haha
A quick sampling
Can't tell if they're just trying to move units, or they agree with this one