Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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Like I said deep down all these chicks want someone. Its biological all those degrees, careers , money still leaves a emptiness. They all think it won't run but the older you get the harder it becomes and then before you know it poof

i disagree
even if they want someone, doesnt mean they want anyone
they are extremely selective
 

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47, divorced, no kids. No dating, no apps, no girlfriend. Keep a ol reliable FWB on call for when I want to get my dikk wet.
True story: Last week I was in Wynwood with fam, we stopped at one of them stalls so they could look at rings and jewelry and shyt
the stall girl was giving me eyes and we started talking...boom boom boom we exchanged numbers.
Hit her up, set it up for a couple of days later.
She didn't run game, take 6 hours to answer, leave me on read, none of that. She replied right away.
We met up, we're talking, doing the "getting to know you" routine and she casually drops "I'm 20 years old"
(when we met I calculated 29-30. She didn't a have a young college face at all. She looked like a grown woman to me)
My face:
:francis:
I then asked her how old do you think I am? she says "36, 37"
I tell her I'm 47. Her face:
:lupe:
She didn't believe me (they never do. I've had to show my ID in the past).
I assured her I wouldn't lie about my age, and if I did why would I say I'm older?
Needless to say it was a wrap after that. Clearly we both miscalculated. All in the game.

Having a younger looking face and full head of hair at my age is a cheat code, but I draw the line at a 27 year age difference.
Obv the same for her. Clearly she was willing to entertain if I was 36-37 though.
It is what it is.

Lol damn you old, you didn't even try to hit :mjlol:
 

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Lol damn you old, you didn't even try to hit :mjlol:
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Like I said I draw the line at a 27 year gap. She did too. She's too young for me and I'm too old for her
It is what it is
 

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lol like thats gonna make a difference. just like bumble, these companies are braindead

if they wanna make more money they should modify the apps in a way where women are incentivized to pay. that's a whole market they havent tapped into. furthermore they could actually try to make real connections/relationships happen by limiting the number of matches a person can get. If a woman or man has received a certain number of likes or is messaging a certain number of people, then dont allow their profiles to be liked/swiped until they get below that threshold. This would actually increase the amount of engagement/time people spend using the app and reduce the likelihood that women get "overwhelmed" by 100 dudes they have no interest in liking their profiles.

you balance the scales a bit more and more men/women will actually use these apps or feel like theyre getting their moneys worth and will be inclined to pay more as well. forcing dudes to pay for more likes, to unarchive dead conversations, pay for roses or superlikes that come across as desperate etc isnt gonna do shyt for the top line

the problem is you have old people who arent actually in the game making these apps or running these companies. its ridiculous
 
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lol like thats gonna make a difference. just like bumble, these companies are braindead

if they wanna make more money they should modify the apps in a way where women are incentivized to pay. that's a whole market they havent tapped into. furthermore they could actually try to make real connections/relationships happen by limiting the number of matches a person can get. If a woman or man has received a certain number of likes or is messaging a certain number of people, then dont allow their profiles to be liked/swiped until they get below that threshold. This would actually increase the amount of engagement/time people spend using the app and reduce the likelihood that women get "overwhelmed" by 100 dudes they have no interest in liking their profiles.

you balance the scales a bit more and more men/women will actually use these apps or feel like theyre getting their moneys worth and will be inclined to pay more as well. forcing dudes to pay for more likes, to unarchive dead conversations, pay for roses or superlikes that come across as desperate etc isnt gonna do shyt for the top line

the problem is you have old people who arent actually in the game making these apps or running these companies. its ridiculous

they should be incentivizing people to get out the house. They could literally set up an UberEats pickup system for dates lol. Where you and match can select meeting place place your orders via app auto split bill (of course hoes gonna snoot their nose but this cuts out the bytches who are waste). Do collabs with festivals and concerts if you schedule dates via app you get discounts, etc.
 

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they should be incentivizing people to get out the house. They could literally set up an UberEats pickup system for dates lol. Where you and match can select meeting place place your orders via app auto split bill (of course hoes gonna snoot their nose but this cuts out the bytches who are waste). Do collabs with festivals and concerts if you schedule dates via app you get discounts, etc.
ive been seeing posters for this in my city

think they tryna do that

they dont have the base i imagine, but if an established app like hinge did it im sure itd work
 

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one thing that annoys me, is when I meet a girl and then she up and tell other women that she knows me or we met etc.

you can meet a girl, text once or twice and it fizzles out. meet another girl 5 years later who just happens to know the first girl...and because you texted the first chick all of a sudden the second chick feels a way or youre off limits. lol these women are weirdos
 

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one thing that annoys me, is when I meet a girl and then she up and tell other women that she knows me or we met etc.

you can meet a girl, text once or twice and it fizzles out. meet another girl 5 years later who just happens to know the first girl...and because you texted the first chick all of a sudden the second chick feels a way or youre off limits. lol these women are weirdos
this emphasizes the importance of having a good reputation (unless the woman was the issue and lies to other women that she wasn’t)
 

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one thing that annoys me, is when I meet a girl and then she up and tell other women that she knows me or we met etc.

you can meet a girl, text once or twice and it fizzles out. meet another girl 5 years later who just happens to know the first girl...and because you texted the first chick all of a sudden the second chick feels a way or youre off limits. lol these women are weirdos

I can understand that happening with women of the same ethnic background…cuz those circles can definitely be small.

But toronto ain’t that small lol
 

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this emphasizes the importance of having a good reputation (unless the woman was the issue and lies to other women that she wasn’t)
thing is it doesnt really matter. girls have this weird girl code thing where if you even talked to one girl, no matter how encounter(s) went you are off limits.

for instance last year i met this one south african chick in my neighborhood. once she invited me to a party her friend was having, a second time she came over and kicked it, a third time we went for a walk. i didnt so much as put my arm around her.

then i met some botswanan chick who ghosted, circled back months later and we went out once...but after she realized i met the south african girl she canceled date plans.

then i went out a couple times with this kenyan chick who knew her unbeknownst to me. when the kenyan found out the south african (and maybe botswanan) knew me...she blocked my number lol. mind you i had already fukked the kenyan chick.

it took me a second to piece it all together that they all knew each other

shyt straaaange

logically speaking...what difference is it to the kenyan chick if i met the first two if I havent done anything with them. I could see the botswanan fading away if she knew i fukked the kenyan but for the kenyan to hit the eject button too? lmao
 
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