literally all i'm looking for;most would be fine just having a reliable woman lol
literally all i'm looking for;most would be fine just having a reliable woman lol
Is she cute?When a unambiguous lesbian calls you handsome, is that a W or an L?
Is she cute?
At least it's a WHa!
I'm not really into Butch Lesbo's like that. She was quite personable though.

Butch chic I worked with at the airport a while ago mentioned once that I look good and I took the compliment back then cause she gets a lot of hoes lol.When a unambiguous lesbian calls you handsome, is that a W or an L?


I would say because the USA is multicultural we tend to blur the lines on a lot of shyt which cause confusion because everyone comes to the table with experiences that are different thus create different expectation compared to "old world" societies where things are more on Tribal or Ethnic lines where you are raised into your role of the tribe or ethnic social contract.
What I`m saying is in these old world societies if you don't want to play by the social contract of that group you just simply date outside of it, in USA there is no agreed upon universal social contract thus we get a lot of confusion because everyone wants some unique thing thus people have the debate on "What am I willing to give up" as nobody will ever meet 100% of what you want.
The bolded is so true. Just turned 30 and I legit feel if I was back home in Nigeria I’d be married by now, or at least have a serious GF on the way to marriage.
But here in the US, especially in the SF Bay, totally different story.
In the US and the western world (predominantly in city centers when we talk literal western world/former colonies) there is no contract thus women are able to play a game where they force a contract on a man but can dance out of anything you apply to them, but then the contract they force on men is ever changing because there is no coming of age school that teaches all men and women in these countries their role in society. This is why I`m like its idiotic to enter a legally binding contract when there are no agreed upon rules.
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Y'all gotta get rid of the pedestal mindset and start bein' y'self frfr, and if she ain't with it bush her at a moment's notice.
She gotta understand this. They can force a bull contract on men 'cause they see men and they pickin' men with no code of their own.
A man accommodates a woman into their life and as a result adjusts his behavior to accommodate her. This is not mutual respect or a compatible situation 'cause you givin' her the power plays when you accommodate. Then, then you gotta ask y'self why would not she get loose with the contract when you accommodated her in the first place to get with her?
Y'all got it twisted... twisted up backwards and complainin' 'cause y'all can't see for more than the drawers until after the fact, and the fact is when you accommodated her to get with her you right in that very moment showed her a vulnerability that said to her she got more leverage in the relationship.
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Only do black women be talking that celibate foolishness after being sexually active"I`m Celibate" don't mean "I`m a virgin"
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bussing it open then closed for business when you want a sucker, what kinda dudes bite on this dumb shyt?
Only do black women be talking that celibate foolishness after being sexually active
Something really wrong with them...obsessed with religion